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I'm trying to get better at meeting women and would like some tips for how to approach them that will make them at least more open and receptive to me, even if nothing becomes of it. Also, what are some examples of being approached that turns you OFF, so I make sure not to do that. Thanks. well first - dont listen to ese I like guys from online to email me for at least a few times and then ask to call me. If the phone conversation works out - I like to meet IRL - I like a guy to just talk to me for a few minutes - few days- few weeks, w/e -and then ask me to do something with him. But I prefer to have him ask me anything personal in private so if there are a lot of people around ask her if u can speak with her privately for a moment. Mostly whether it's online or in person I prefer when guys just keep it light & friendly, but at the same time are direct & honest. But I don't like it when they hint around like they want me to ask them out - hate that |
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sweetestgirl11
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Mon 11/15/10 06:38 PM
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I'm trying to get better at meeting women and would like some tips for how to approach them that will make them at least more open and receptive to me, even if nothing becomes of it. Also, what are some examples of being approached that turns you OFF, so I make sure not to do that. Thanks. oops double post: here's a visual 
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Mon 11/15/10 06:29 PM
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LOL My fav way for a guy to come up to me is for him to try a lame pick up line (knowings its lame) and we both laugh about it. I think it breaks the ice wonderfully to start with a laugh. in that case we need to rearrange the alphabet and put U and I together it doesntt get any more lame ese |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Mon 11/15/10 06:41 PM
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Dont act cocky...and treat them like they are people, because we are people, no sexual objects. Basically I like the whole, glances from across the room and a shy smile when I finally meet their eye. Just subltle ****, and Im extremely shy, but after that I tend to approach them. XD Hope this helps? P.s. Do Not refer to your penis at all when you first meet. We don't think about it, and don't xpect you to either. We just met for god sakes I do not want to hear about your "baby arm" Treat them like people? Don't talk about your penis?! What madness is this?!!  just dont say things like spank the monkey - we'll spank it when we're ready ,but not in our first conversation |
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Dont act cocky...and treat them like they are people, because we are people, no sexual objects. Basically I like the whole, glances from across the room and a shy smile when I finally meet their eye. Just subltle ****, and Im extremely shy, but after that I tend to approach them. XD Hope this helps? P.s. Do Not refer to your penis at all when you first meet. We don't think about it, and don't xpect you to either. We just met for god sakes I do not want to hear about your "baby arm" Treat them like people? Don't talk about your penis?! What madness is this?!! just dont say things like spank the monkey - we'll spank it when we're ready ,but not in out first conversation How about talking about hiding sausages? Women like to talk about food right?! |
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Dont act cocky...and treat them like they are people, because we are people, no sexual objects. Basically I like the whole, glances from across the room and a shy smile when I finally meet their eye. Just subltle ****, and Im extremely shy, but after that I tend to approach them. XD Hope this helps? P.s. Do Not refer to your penis at all when you first meet. We don't think about it, and don't xpect you to either. We just met for god sakes I do not want to hear about your "baby arm" baby arm???   |
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Dont act cocky...and treat them like they are people, because we are people, no sexual objects. Basically I like the whole, glances from across the room and a shy smile when I finally meet their eye. Just subltle ****, and Im extremely shy, but after that I tend to approach them. XD Hope this helps? P.s. Do Not refer to your penis at all when you first meet. We don't think about it, and don't xpect you to either. We just met for god sakes I do not want to hear about your "baby arm" Treat them like people? Don't talk about your penis?! What madness is this?!! just dont say things like spank the monkey - we'll spank it when we're ready ,but not in out first conversation How about talking about hiding sausages? Women like to talk about food right?! u might want to avoid that also - just a thought of course if she talks about ur sausage - ur prolly ok silly man 
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i go with a straight on approach. i walk up to a woman i am interested in, grab her by the throat, and say **** or fight. gotta admit i've gotten beaten up a few times, but this one time... OMG-that is way hawter than "u wanna go muddin' sweetness"! You are a sexy beast ese!  sorry, been told I have a somewhat distorted sense of humor! assuming you have no intent to actually fight her & your grasp on her throat is gentle, that is pretty hawt! lol  
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Be yourself -the straight forward approach does it for me-
a nice smile and just normal conversation will show that your a nice . decent guy... but please- not too many corny jokes -that'll kill it! 
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"Ladies, how do you prefer to be approached by a man?" from what i read in another thread, the answer is quite simple...from behind! Seriously Kev!!! Next time start the post with "Artgurl ... do not read until you have swallowed the beverage in your mouth" ... ...then you can launch one of those one liners!
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Show them your 401K.
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Be yourself -the straight forward approach does it for me- a nice smile and just normal conversation will show that your a nice . decent guy... but please- not too many corny jokes -that'll kill it! but holly the corny jokes are how they show ua that they're cute 
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"Ladies, how do you prefer to be approached by a man?" from what i read in another thread, the answer is quite simple...from behind! Seriously Kev!!! Next time start the post with "Artgurl ... do not read until you have swallowed the beverage in your mouth" ... ...then you can launch one of those one liners! sorry (S) can i offer you a "TOWEL" |
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Be yourself -the straight forward approach does it for me- a nice smile and just normal conversation will show that your a nice . decent guy... but please- not too many corny jokes -that'll kill it! but holly the corny jokes are how they show ua that they're cute well -as long as I can stand his beer breath...  hee! naw-beer breath and corny jokes  nnnoooooooooooooo!
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I definitely prefer the comedic approach. It gives me more opportunity to be funny and witty back. Which (usually) leads to more fun conversation and less awkward silence and/or weird looks. Plus, it's better when you catch someone off guard. Oh - and the dorkier or goofier the better! Nothing too serious, until you feel the serious vibe.
Good luck, son! |
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"Ladies, how do you prefer to be approached by a man?" from what i read in another thread, the answer is quite simple...from behind! I know which posts you've been reading.  |
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When a guy approaches me from behind and then.... oh wait that's another topic.
I like a guy that is confident and knows what he wants in life. Not a guy who just wants in my pants. We will jump you when we are ready. |
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When a guy approaches me from behind and then.... oh wait that's another topic. I like a guy that is confident and knows what he wants in life. Not a guy who just wants in my pants. We will jump you when we are ready. |
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So many responses! Thanks everyone!
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