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Topic: Ladies, how do you prefer to be approached by a man?
eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Mon 11/15/10 09:57 PM
One major thing to remember is do not find out what she is drinking and come over with one for her....She might feel you are trying to slip her a "mickey" ( a rufi ) and you will be labeled a jerk.

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Mon 11/15/10 10:02 PM
just tell them .... show me your bewb's !!!!

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Mon 11/15/10 10:03 PM
just tell them .... show me your bewb's !!!! I already did....how many times you going to ask me???????

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Mon 11/15/10 10:05 PM
lol, every time i see ya !!!!

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Mon 11/15/10 10:06 PM
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chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Mon 11/15/10 10:09 PM
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Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Mon 11/15/10 10:15 PM
I'm trying to get better at meeting women and would like some tips for how to approach them that will make them at least more open and receptive to me, even if nothing becomes of it. Also, what are some examples of being approached that turns you OFF, so I make sure not to do that. Thanks. I like a calm approach with a bit of humor but being careful of not making fun of people. Approaching like he is just trying to have a conversation. In most cases talking for a little while and then offering his number and leaving me, even if he is not leaving the place we are. So he is not crowding me. I think you can tell some of what I don't like from that. I don't like loud, braggarts, showy ie trying to show he has money or car or whatever, too clingy right away or jealous acting. Drinking too much or drugging at all is a definite turnoff.

Ken4play Joined Tue 09/21/10 Posts: 274	Tue 11/16/10 04:52 AM
all this talk about approaching women.. How about you women approach men. it's alot easier to reject someone than it is getting rejected...

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Tue 11/16/10 08:18 AM
What's she doing? I've had guys walk up and discuss types of horse feed when I was at the store comparing. It shifted into general chat. Ditto at the book store, or the hardware store. Made for an interesting topic of conversation discussing wood and male and female parts in plumbing. But it worked. Broke the ice, made us both laugh.

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Tue 11/16/10 10:08 AM
discussing wood and male and female parts. tee hee, she said wood!

StevenT2 Joined Tue 11/09/10 Posts: 96	Tue 11/16/10 10:29 AM
The other night I was out at a bar and my contact got messed up really bad.. I asked the girl next to me if she could help me with it and she was like "That's the lamest pick up line I've ever heard..".. and she noticed my eye watering and I said "No.. seriously.. please help!".. it was quite funny.. and she helped. Thanks chick.

chelsea466 Joined Tue 05/11/10 Posts: 5078	Tue 11/16/10 12:47 PM
When a guy approaches me from behind and then.... oh wait that's another topic. I like a guy that is confident and knows what he wants in life. Not a guy who just wants in my pants. We will jump you when we are ready. what if he's a confident guy who knows he wants to get in your pants,then what? Then I guess the date is over. Or I best be pretty drunk.

chelsea466 Joined Tue 05/11/10 Posts: 5078	Tue 11/16/10 12:49 PM
all this talk about approaching women.. How about you women approach men. it's alot easier to reject someone than it is getting rejected... I could care less about rejection. Just makes my dating pool a little more smaller and my decision making easier.

venusenvy Joined Sat 07/31/10 Posts: 2984	Tue 11/16/10 02:11 PM
With a twinkle in his eye

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Tue 11/16/10 02:25 PM
When a guy approaches me from behind and then.... oh wait that's another topic. I like a guy that is confident and knows what he wants in life. Not a guy who just wants in my pants. We will jump you when we are ready. what if he's a confident guy who knows he wants to get in your pants,then what? Then I guess the date is over. Or I best be pretty drunk. Quick, get that girl a drink!

venusenvy Joined Sat 07/31/10 Posts: 2984	Tue 11/16/10 02:34 PM
With a twinkle in his eye K...with a twinkle in his eye and a lump in his pants

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Tue 11/16/10 02:36 PM
With a twinkle in his eye K...with a twinkle in his eye and a lump in his pants that goes without saying!

venusenvy Joined Sat 07/31/10 Posts: 2984	Tue 11/16/10 02:42 PM
With a twinkle in his eye K...with a twinkle in his eye and a lump in his pants that goes without saying! Yabut, I mean the good kinda lump

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Tue 11/16/10 03:06 PM
With a twinkle in his eye K...with a twinkle in his eye and a lump in his pants that goes without saying! Yabut, I mean the good kinda lump You mean the one that tells you that he's pleased to see you, right?

venusenvy Joined Sat 07/31/10 Posts: 2984	Tue 11/16/10 03:08 PM
With a twinkle in his eye K...with a twinkle in his eye and a lump in his pants that goes without saying! Yabut, I mean the good kinda lump You mean the one that tells you that he's pleased to see you, right? Ya!! that the one