heatherrae,

I agree about the nagging part, I don't know anyone who would want someone to nag them. Ok, so a safe environment plays a major part. Thanks for responding.

A friend of mine at work said that men only have 2 emotions- happiness and anger. All other emotions women feel men put into one of those 2 categories and hold it in. So, when they feel so much emotion, it comes out as either happiness or anger. There is no in-between. From my experiences with men, I would have to say that's true.

I have a hard time talking period, never used to, but.....

I have had the experience of showing my emotions, and was cut down because of it, not just by one lady, but many. so now I try to hold the emotions back, because of that, .

yes we have them. Sometimes it's easier to show them rather than talk about them. It also may just take that right person to get a guy to open up.

<----------doesn't like to rile up a guy, AND or be around one who is riled up. But damn, it I get riled up, I can be just as riled, so........

So, what are you saying?

I'm not saying anything.........apparently

I have learned that men are doers and not talkers. If he does something for you take it at face value. Don't look for it to be more than it is. Learn that mans's love language.

Sooooo, this means what exactly?

Seems Pepper is dense......do you understand anything? Like shut up?

If he brings you lilies and you wanted rose. We should be happy he brought flowers at all. And if it isn't something you wanted there is a way to say it with out hurting his feelings or belittling him. That only makes him clam up and not talk even more.

Thats uncalled for creationsfire, has anybody insulted you?

Hmmmmm, thought I was just asking a question? Sorry if you took it as an insult. Truely please forgive me???

<-----SUBLIMINAL PIZZA MESSAGE

<------- has no emotions..

beleive it or not we do have emotions just because we dont freak out on every little thing ( thats because were used to watching women do all the freaking out ahead of us lol) but acctualy we get stepped on so much just as women do by men that we dont bother sharing untill we are comfortable with a women ( usually about the time they are thinking of leaving) give us room to breathe but care about us like you care about yourself we dont need a second mother just a freind as well as a companion to be with. trust is an earned thing at least in my book it is no matter who you are.

I believe men have the same emotions as women do...They just don't show them as much or in the same way...Most are brought up to think REAL men don't show emotion...That's a crock...I brought my son up to show his emotions in a healthy way...BY communicating!!!!!!!!!!

it's been almost 2 years since me and my ex split & he's still trying to explain his feelings & say he's sorry! I wish he would just shut-up now it's time for him to move on I have. and he knows that but oh well thats men for ya