what are some of the reasons you think you are and have a hard time meeting someone?

1.i don't want to get married
2.location
3.i don't do LDRs

these are my 3 reasons i think why,its not a multiple choice

Just hard meeting to find a guy I click with and often date the wrong kind, mainly musicians. Distance is definitely a factor is some cases.

None of the above.

I haven't been trying too hard to meet people these days. Been working on me for the last little while. Wanted to bring my best to the table when I am meeting someone.

thats actually why i think im single feel free to explain why

Cause all I do is work work work.

I don't ever go anywhere

And lack of interest.

oh a little of that and perhaps my own reticence, coupled w/ pickiness

and the need as dragoness mentioned to rejuvenate after a breakup last year and a rebounder that didn't go well...

needed a break

I don't want a LDR.

I'm not looking for just a hook up, which I have found out that 99% of the guys that contact me that are from the same area that is all they want.

Last but least I must say is mostly my fault for I don't make myself available due to I tend to keep to myself. Hard to met others outside the internet by doing that...

I've got all 3 of those, too.

Marriage -- once was enough.

Location -- I don't know anyone where I live, and people around here are not particularly friendly.

LDRs -- just a lot of really horrible experiences with those.

....which is why I was hoping maybe I could meet someone local on line.

But what I've found is that there aren't any suitable locals on ANY of the sites I've tried. And trying to find ANYBODY on a dating site who doesn't drink and who doesn't have kids is completely impossible.

feelings are shut off ....no go do not collect 200$ do not pass go

why put so much time and effort into something that's just gonna blow up in your face

I can't find any asian girls

Umm I agree with your reasons RKISIT
LDR's are just not in my opinion very good for me, I like to be able to see/touch the person I'm with. Hard to start something when they are so far away. Take a huge amount of trust (which takes time to build up)
Marriage- Umm NO more of those.
Location- noone around here seems to be interested. So I make new friends.
It's not like I'm not willing to try. I just seem to only have guys across the globe or across the country seem to show any interest.
Such is life!

I am simply put too picky..

I'm single because I date outside my race, so that makes it harder. I seem to attract all the wrong guys. I'm dang on picky. And mostly, I'm not where I want to be in life. Once I get myself established, then I'll be happy to venture out.

I think some people are just destined to be alone. I've never felt more comfortable WITH somebody than I feel when I'm by myself. Why try to force a square peg in a round hole? Just doesn't make any sense to me...and since I consider myself a pretty sensible individual, I gave up trying to fit the mold long ago. I'm cool with flying solo.

LDR's def aren't for everyone, I think it all depends on where you personally are at. With yourself and your situation. I actually find it easier to get to know someone, yes, it takes trust but, I've found local people are full of crap themselves. Plus it does stop you from jumping into something you may regret like ohh lets say my marriage that I regretted. lol People can always pretend they're someone they're not, be it long distance or in person....

***opens door, steps in***


OOOOPS....wrong room......sorry lori.



***opens door and slams it closed behind me***

hey you can't even say hi to the 1 vertical blind missing lori?

I gave you a hug in the other thread...lol

ok thats sufficient..