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| Topic: About Spouse Sharing, Three-somes & Four-somes: Vile or Ok? | |
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I can't wait for everyone to join this ongoing hot debate about spousal sharing. Will you open your relationship up for wife/husband sex swap or invite another couple or a single male/female for an evening of sex cocktail? What's your take? Can this experience actually help build or strengthen one's relationship? I dunno ask these people they are all in Swinger relationships. Edna St. Vincent Millay, American poet Havelock Ellis, sexologist Robert Crumb and Aline Crumb, cartoonists Charles Laughton, actor, and Elsa Lanchester, actress Andrei Kirilenko, professional basketball player Cindy Margolis, model Jean-Paul Sartre and Simone de Beauvoir, philosophers Dolly Parton, country singer Will Smith, actor, and Jada Pinkett, actress Kate Hudson, actress and Chris Robinson, rock and roll singer Shirley MacLaine, actress Thomas Braden, journalist Jenny Block, author of Open: Love, Sex and Life in an Open Marriage Tilda Swinton, actress, and John Byrne, painter, director and writer Margaret Sanger, founder of Planned Parenthood Alfred Kinsey, sexologist and wife Clara Bracken McMillen Mo'Nique, actress/comedian Ossie Davis and Ruby Dee, actors Julian Beck and Judith Malina, actors, writers, directors, and founders of The Living Theatre George Henry Lewes, philosopher. Larry King, talk show host and Shawn Southwick, singer http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_marriage |
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Wouldn't share my partner, maybe if i had a casual girlfriend but not one I love and care about. . Joined a buddy and his girlfriend one drunken night and that was f'd up enough for me. lol
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Robert Crumb and Aline Crumb, cartoonists
-he said crumbs. 
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my 3 cents is this....
It's not my thing (I don't share well) but if everyone is honest and all consenting adults....go for it. Not my business. Just because it's not my thing or I might not understand it, doesn't mean it should be wrong for all |
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Robert Crumb and Aline Crumb, cartoonists -he said crumbs. Huh? |
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i thnk if each person is ok with it then thats their choice. be careful of any 3rd or 4th party carrying an STD though.
this is almost the same as tag teaming someone |
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Robert Crumb and Aline Crumb, cartoonists -he said crumbs. Huh? Msg.sent.Godspeed!Cy  
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I don't share. I don't care what other people do, though.
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Mirror, is that you?
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Hey, the forums have been pretty slow for a while. Wouldn't it help if more people were creating new topics?
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Hey, the forums have been pretty slow for a while. Wouldn't it help if more people were creating new topics? Yes it would |
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I can't wait for everyone to join this ongoing hot debate about spousal sharing. Will you open your relationship up for wife/husband sex swap or invite another couple or a single male/female for an evening of sex cocktail? What's your take? Can this experience actually help build or strengthen one's relationship? I don't share......it would ruin the sanctity of trust in any relationship I had..... |
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I don't share. I don't care what other people do, though. Ditto... $.02
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I've never had a threesome, and I couldn't handle the woman I love being touched by another man.. but if two beautiful women asked me to join them.. I might have a hard time saying no. :)
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OK sersioulsy.. Sharing your partners is like saying "STEP RIGHT UP FOR STD's, GET YOUR STD's RIGHT HERE FOLKS" or in more easier terms, No.. I'm a 35 yr old male and NEVER had a problem behind closed doors and think it is pretty selfish if someone has to have more then one partner especially if one is married.. For it seems that someone with insecurity issues or feels relief watching someone else ram his or her wife, or watching her bf kiss on a nother girl is needing help. Now grant it, NOT everyone views it as such.. I've had several chances to go into a 3 some situation, but utterly refused.. What about morals, not orals, what about feelings for your partner?
If you have to have fun with various people at once, then surely you don't feel a thing for your partner.. Best advice.. If you choose to go alongside this path, then please please break up with the person you are currently with and go with the 3rd person you want to be with instead.Don't let the current partner find out the hard way etc. Because sure as hell will hurt them and sure seems you don't want to be a part of your current partners life and setting goals, you just want the "3rd" persons.. |
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If every one is ok with it why not? It has nothing to do with how you feel or dont feel about some one just be safe be honest and enjoy. Atleast you wont spend the rest of your life thinking about how some thing might be or might have been you tried it, lived learned and hopefully grew. I think its defly for mature ppl that can be open, & honest. My bf wants a 3some w another girl ya I am having a hrd time w it but only because he wont w another guy sigh, I really love him and want to please him in any way so I see nothing wong w it.
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my 3 cents is this.... It's not my thing (I don't share well) but if everyone is honest and all consenting adults....go for it. Not my business. Just because it's not my thing or I might not understand it, doesn't mean it should be wrong for all ^^^^^^ This |
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OK sersioulsy.. Sharing your partners is like saying "STEP RIGHT UP FOR STD's, GET YOUR STD's RIGHT HERE FOLKS" or in more easier terms, No.. I'm a 35 yr old male and NEVER had a problem behind closed doors and think it is pretty selfish if someone has to have more then one partner especially if one is married.. For it seems that someone with insecurity issues or feels relief watching someone else ram his or her wife, or watching her bf kiss on a nother girl is needing help. Now grant it, NOT everyone views it as such.. I've had several chances to go into a 3 some situation, but utterly refused.. What about morals, not orals, what about feelings for your partner? If you have to have fun with various people at once, then surely you don't feel a thing for your partner.. Best advice.. If you choose to go alongside this path, then please please break up with the person you are currently with and go with the 3rd person you want to be with instead.Don't let the current partner find out the hard way etc. Because sure as hell will hurt them and sure seems you don't want to be a part of your current partners life and setting goals, you just want the "3rd" persons.. Not necessarily so, you can know the other people well enough and practice safe sex too! It's definitely not for insecure folks either. You have have to be extremely secure in the relationship as well as the friendships with the other parties for problems not to arise. You can feel for your partner and still enjoy sex with others if you can separate sex & love in your head. It can actually bring you closer with your partner! I am not suggesting anyone go try it, just saying that it is possible if everyone involve is mature enough |
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foursomes rock YYYYYEEEEEEAAAAAA
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Im a one on one kinda lady however, whatever a couple does between two consulting adults is up to them...its not my place to judge.  ....which means you are laissez faire about it somewhat? Kind of you would be willing to explore if your spouse consents? If so, my next question to you would be: how far can you go to keep or please your man? Noooo It means wadaa I care...Wadda you care for that matter? 
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