Is it right to replace a fallen friend with a girls or could it be considered disrespectful to the memory of the friend? I ask this questions clearly for conversation purposes. I would like to hear peoples thoughts on the matter.

not enough info!

agreed can ya give us more detail ?

*passes out from epic brain confusion*

Misplaced the translator again!!!

well what i mean is a few months ago i was part of a really good group of friends. We were all close like brothers then through a tragic accident one of us left this world. leaving us and his girlfriend behind. Well through their grief his number one guy who was his best friend ended up hooking up with the girl friend. It split the group in two half or for saying it will help them heal the other half say it's to soon and disrespectul to his memory i am on the fence about it both make good arguments but i don't know to be honest my loyality it to the friend not the girl friend. both living and the one no longer here.

As long as there wasn't any fooling around between them while your friend was alive, I don't see much of a problem with it. I know my friend's mother married a neighbor who lost his wife a few years before and they were together 25 years before he passed away.

life is for the living

if the two of them are ok with it
far be it for anyone else to judge

ditto


and ditto with KC

I don't see a problem with the situation. But the question you asked was if a girl could replace a friend. I would have to say no to that.

Agree completely.

Bro friends are friends, girls cant replace friends nver ever

girls can be friends, but it's a different level. you don't invite your best buds to help pick out clothes, but girls are good for that. you don't invite a female friend to a circle jerk, but your best buds will be there with extra lotion. like kc said life is for the living. if the relationship continues for your other friends, then maybe them hooking up was cool after all, if they had bad intentions from the get go, it wont last.

now soufiehere how do you know what that is?

Hummm so what your saying is this so called circle of friends that you all were best buds with. That when on guy died and another of your friends within the circle started dating her then ya'll choose to exile him due to it.....

Hummmmm don't sound like this circle of friends were that good of friends to shove him and her out due to who they fell in-love with.

As long as their relationship happen after the fact then who are ya'll to judge......

Do ya really think that your friend that is no longer here would rather know that at least she is with someone that he respected or just all by her self to deal with life?..........

hahahahahahahaha
Kinda self-explanatory?
I will stop laughing eventually...