Just get out and do the things you like to do Weren't you doing things before you met her Thats how you'll meet another. Step up Step over and Step on Aren't you trying out to be a seal ?? You better get over this quick then ..............

.............get a hobby.......get over and under another girl.........invent something........learn an instrument and tune it well.....so on and so forth

lookie here, everyone problem solves in different ways, and what affects one person makes no impact on another. if what you are dealing with affects your everyday life, then it's a problem for you and those around you. regards of what has happened to you it's not the end of the world. another girl will get interested in you and another after her. in the mean time keep yourself busy with other things. knitting, running, strip clubs, whatever catches your interest, it doesn't matter. don't make this harder than it has to be. it hurts, but if you dwell on it, it will keep hurting. good luck bro, don't sweat the small stuff.(btw,it's all small stuff)

It's rough man. If you really loved her then it's going to take time. Stop all contact with her. Hang out with your friends, and just take some time to better yourself man.

What if Mother won't let me hang out with friends???

play Mafia Wars in FB

The same advice would go for both. Since I'm over 50 myself the best thing I have found out is to get out more and get to know others..... If one sits at home and dwells on the past then they will stay within the past......


Occupy yourself with things you enjoy doing. Don't just sit around and hope that closer will come. One can not move on if all you do is sit around and think of what could have been. Better off to realize that what you thought was there was not in fact there.

Oh boys! You have the key to happiness!
If someone develops a cure to heartache, please shoot me up the blood stream cause I need it too. And somewhat the porn and classical music did not work for me as it should lol

Then you did it wrong.

Those very few loves and lovers never left me. They left a place in my heart that I have the pleasure to go into and remember them the way I want.........But the wheel keeps on turning and if you don't get back on it, it will roll over you and consume you.....Jump back on the roller coaster of life and live man. Love is not for sissys.

Maybe I chose the wrong kind of porn or is it because I watched it alone?

did you turn the volume down on the tv, and raise the volume on the stereo? cause if you did the opposite, than you did it wrong. btw there are quite a few porn watching partners here on mingle if you need one. i'm just saying...

I approve this message. Its a real shortcut. And I have taken the long way. The final destination is the same place. Friendship is where it is at for me. The dwelling part gets you stuck in the loop and all you actually do is chase your own tail. You can either stay on the porch or run with the big dogs.

Girl on girl action always worked before lol. Maybe I'm broken. TV was on mute and stereo was up. Are you volunteering Bulldog?

are you serious! i picked the wrong week to give up watching porn with beautiful women. damn you physic hotline!

do the pavlov dog experiment ...simply hook yourself to a portable pocket size shock device with an adjustable voltage output that has a hand held trigger and everytime you think of her press the trigger and up the voltage ..after a good couple of jolts you will become afraid to think of her causing your mind to re-adjust and erase her from your memory

gee funches, i'm not sure if that was what pavlov was doing, but that sure is some funny stuff...

everytime the bell would ring palov's dog would think of food and start salivating ...I just offerd the technique in reverse...

that everytime he start salivating about his ex-girlfriend he would get a jolt

Have an adventure

Seriously, they're super fun and keep your mind busy :)

Awwww just my luck! Can't a girl catch a break?