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Is it wrong to want to be a priority... even if it isn't the top one?
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Not in my opinion. I don't necessarily want to be the center of attention, but I think if you are dating then you should spend a good deal of time together. Or at least a few times a week doing things together.
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Is it wrong to want to be a priority... even if it isn't the top one? would you actually want to be smuthered i wouldnt |
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Absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be a priority. If not then why even be in a relationship? I want to be wanted, needed and all the other good things that go with being in a relationship.
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Of course I want to be a priority on his list. But the big question is where on that list? If he has kids, sure, kids are higher on that list. Work. Ditto. But I should share the next spot with him on that list. I mean come on, I should rate higher than that sporting event he can tivo and watch later. Just like he would rate higher than my desire to work on that new quilt.
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if your not going to make the other person a proiority then why date them in the first place.
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Of course I want to be a priority on his list. But the big question is where on that list? If he has kids, sure, kids are higher on that list. Work. Ditto. But I should share the next spot with him on that list. I mean come on, I should rate higher than that sporting event he can tivo and watch later. Just like he would rate higher than my desire to work on that new quilt. I agree with u totally Justme ! Work and family comes first . But tje person u date should atleast come at the same level as family |
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I think its only natural to want to be a priority on someones list. Of course I agree with the others who say children, family, and work first then myself. If they put you above any of these then that shows lack of character and commitment to what should be a person's priorities. One of my favorite sayings is this....
Never make someone your priority when you are only their option!!!!!! |
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Well I don't expect to be his #1 priority but I do expect him to make me a priority.
If not then why be with them? 
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Is it wrong to want to be a priority... even if it isn't the top one? If that priority is "sex slave", then yeah...I wanna be on top. 
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i want you to want me
i need you to need me i'd love you to love me i'm begging you to beg me |
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i want you to want me i need you to need me i'd love you to love me i'm begging you to beg me Another good one.
I agree with what several have said. Of course you're not going to be the top priority above their own family and work, but if they don't have at least a decent amount of consideration for you or your feelings, at least with some discussion and/or compromise...why bother. |
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Is it wrong to want to be a priority... even if it isn't the top one? Just to have been on one list even if it was just in the index for the encyclopedia set would have been a major upgrade. But usually on another list I was always on the top. |
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Well i sure dont wanna be the bottom priority...
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no,its not wrong
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It is What it is...
be happy with It or do something to affect a positive change. |
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It is What it is... be happy with It or do something to affect a positive change. Good point. I think that is wise to take a good inventory. 
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Is it wrong to want to be a priority... even if it isn't the top one? Wrong, no. Unrealistic, possibly. |
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I think everyone would like to feel that they are on top of the list.. I suppose its a matter of getting what you give... if youre giving more and getting less, well, it may be time to reassess your relationship.
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It depends on what the person considers a priority.
My animals are my top priority but guys seem offended by that. |
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