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Met a girl a month ago, things have been great ever since meeting. Her Christian convictions are important to her so I'm respecting her and not rushing anything, so far I've allowed her to set the pace of everything.
We've been talking about this relationship being serious and it going somewhere, we want each other forever blah blah blah... This weekend she visits family in AZ and I'm sick throughout most the weekend so we don't talk much due to me being sick. Sunday came around and I'm feeling better and try texting her regular stuff "how are you?" she didn't respond til hours later that night. saying she needed time alone to pray, think, evaluate, plan and needs to share some of it with me soon. She also mentions needing to make some changes in her life, prioritize more, focus more on important things. She has some concerns and needs things right in her life. She got a reality check spiritually... things need to change... What did all that mean? she said she'd talk to me but it's been a day since she's been back from AZ and she hasn't talked to me! Give her space or should I insist on us talking? |
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Met a girl a month ago, things have been great ever since meeting. Her Christian convictions are important to her so I'm respecting her and not rushing anything, so far I've allowed her to set the pace of everything. We've been talking about this relationship being serious and it going somewhere, we want each other forever blah blah blah... This weekend she visits family in AZ and I'm sick throughout most the weekend so we don't talk much due to me being sick. Sunday came around and I'm feeling better and try texting her regular stuff "how are you?" she didn't respond til hours later that night. saying she needed time alone to pray, think, evaluate, plan and needs to share some of it with me soon. She also mentions needing to make some changes in her life, prioritize more, focus more on important things. She has some concerns and needs things right in her life. She got a reality check spiritually... things need to change... What did all that mean? she said she'd talk to me but it's been a day since she's been back from AZ and she hasn't talked to me! Give her space or should I insist on us talking? text back...wht dz tht meen? |
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Sounds like she had a change of heart about your relationship.
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Met a girl a month ago, things have been great ever since meeting. Her Christian convictions are important to her so I'm respecting her and not rushing anything, so far I've allowed her to set the pace of everything. We've been talking about this relationship being serious and it going somewhere, we want each other forever blah blah blah... This weekend she visits family in AZ and I'm sick throughout most the weekend so we don't talk much due to me being sick. Sunday came around and I'm feeling better and try texting her regular stuff "how are you?" she didn't respond til hours later that night. saying she needed time alone to pray, think, evaluate, plan and needs to share some of it with me soon. She also mentions needing to make some changes in her life, prioritize more, focus more on important things. She has some concerns and needs things right in her life. She got a reality check spiritually... things need to change... What did all that mean? she said she'd talk to me but it's been a day since she's been back from AZ and she hasn't talked to me! Give her space or should I insist on us talking? text back...wht dz tht meen? I've texted her today already asking if we can talk, she hasn't responded to me. |
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Sounds like she had a change of heart about your relationship. She could just tell me though, she actually did say that "we're not over" |
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If you want a direct answer then ask a direct question...
btw you mentioned "Christian Convictions"... please list her rap sheet for us. How far is too far? What stuff needs to be left unsaid? boozer? smoker? ...that sorta thing |
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If she has kept you waiting on it, I would just out right call her and get some answers. I just went through something similar. My (ex)bf liked to disappear and then come back and say all this and that went on and he couldn't talk to me because he is scared of getting too close to anyone or whatever crappy excuse.
Forget texting, some things need to be said, not read. |
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Forget texting, some things need to be said, not read. Ditto. Be direct and honest, and tell her you expect the same. |
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she wants to have her cake and eat it too
so eat all the icing off of it before you let her have it 
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Forget texting, some things need to be said, not read. Ditto. Be direct and honest, and tell her you expect the same. |
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She might honestly just need more than a day to think without anyone interupting her so she can be alone with her thoughts. More than likely she is second guessing the relationship you two have. You have put the effort forth to let her know you care and want to know what is going on. She knows so now you have to give it time.
There is that old saying "If you love something set it free, if it comes back to you then it is meant to be." |
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oh dear ... I am thinking that this does not bode well
All the best to you. Sometimes all you can do is hope for the best but prepare for the worst. |
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