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so maybe I'm not female. he'll get over it. Bianca, are you a drag queen? By the way, how did you end up in Salem, OR? That place is in the middle of nowhere. I know because I have been there. Salem is hardly in the middle of nowhere. yeah its more like in the upper left hand side of no where... |
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sweetestgirl11
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Sat 09/25/10 04:23 AM
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nothing - except sometimes to nosy people are people who ask inappropriate questions. I am old enough to be of a pre internet generation when personal privacy was highly respected and I STILL respect it. So information that's not ur biz to know- if u ask - ya- I'll prolly lie and u will desrve it Why not just tell them you don't want to answer? I let people know they can ask what they want, but I can't guarantee I'll answer everything if it gets too personal. In our internet culture we have come so far from respect of the privacy of the other , that people don't even know when they cross that line any more. Unless one is in a situation that warrants questions, it is rude to ask personal questions of another. period. end of story. And questions asked should be asked in context on a need t oknow basis. And, some questions should not be asked at all, But I was raised with manners. I can't explain manners gained over a lifetime in a paragraph. so obviously in the context of a dating site -a man with a 10 minute checklist is not going to match well with me - cuz I prolly won't answer. If he cant take the time to get to know me to discover if I meet his criteria, I will not beinterested. but that's justme. It's my expectation. namaste |
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Every word that crosses my lips is a lie.
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that's right hahahaha I meant, are you more or less talkative than you stated? Actually I just went and looked. You don't say. actually my username says it all |
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You just made me realize that I have to check my hair color listed.. I used to be blonde highlighted, then blonde, IndnPrncs, you are way too smart to pass as a blonde. Just joking. Not all blondes are dumb. I met a smart blonde once. She is on the "Endangered Species" list. Watch it! Considering most blondes aren't naturally blonde, its really the other hair colors that are or play dumb, since they're the ones usually coloring their hair to blonde. |
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Watch it! Considering most blondes aren't naturally blonde, its really the other hair colors that are or play dumb, since they're the ones usually coloring their hair to blonde. I have to agree. Where is the logic in the act of a dark-haired woman dying her hair blonde? I have always had white-blond hair from my father. My mother had jet black hair. So when I was about 14, she said let's dye your hair black to match mine! Well we did. It lasted about a week then I could not stand it any longer it looked so..awful. Your skin tones need to match to make it all look right. I had to have it professionally redone. |
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I hear dat :-)
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When I was 16 I got so tired of people calling me "Blondie" that I dyed my hair dark brown. It looked awful but I didn't care! "Blondie" is the name of the hottest-looking woman in the comic-strip world. "Blondie" is also the name of a music group with a hot-looking female singer. So what is wrong with a woman being called "Blondie"? |
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nothing - except sometimes to nosy people are people who ask inappropriate questions. I am old enough to be of a pre internet generation when personal privacy was highly respected and I STILL respect it. So information that's not ur biz to know- if u ask - ya- I'll prolly lie and u will desrve it Why not just tell them you don't want to answer? I let people know they can ask what they want, but I can't guarantee I'll answer everything if it gets too personal. In our internet culture we have come so far from respect of the privacy of the other , that people don't even know when they cross that line any more. Unless one is in a situation that warrants questions, it is rude to ask personal questions of another. period. end of story. And questions asked should be asked in context on a need t oknow basis. And, some questions should not be asked at all, But I was raised with manners. I can't explain manners gained over a lifetime in a paragraph. so obviously in the context of a dating site -a man with a 10 minute checklist is not going to match well with me - cuz I prolly won't answer. If he cant take the time to get to know me to discover if I meet his criteria, I will not beinterested. but that's justme. It's my expectation. namaste Remember, you posted on a public forum online. That's why I asked. If you want someone to "myob" you may want to refrain from posting about it here. |
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You just made me realize that I have to check my hair color listed.. I used to be blonde highlighted, then blonde, IndnPrncs, you are way too smart to pass as a blonde. Just joking. Not all blondes are dumb. I met a smart blonde once. She is on the "Endangered Species" list. Watch it! Considering most blondes aren't naturally blonde, its really the other hair colors that are or play dumb, since they're the ones usually coloring their hair to blonde. I think both comments are quite subjective.. I don't play dumb nor am I dumb, I do however like whatever hair color I feel like having whether it's blonde, black or brown.. I've even had red.. I do what I like not what people interpret is intelligence by their opinions... |
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nothing - except sometimes to nosy people are people who ask inappropriate questions. I am old enough to be of a pre internet generation when personal privacy was highly respected and I STILL respect it. So information that's not ur biz to know- if u ask - ya- I'll prolly lie and u will desrve it Why not just tell them you don't want to answer? I let people know they can ask what they want, but I can't guarantee I'll answer everything if it gets too personal. In our internet culture we have come so far from respect of the privacy of the other , that people don't even know when they cross that line any more. Unless one is in a situation that warrants questions, it is rude to ask personal questions of another. period. end of story. And questions asked should be asked in context on a need t oknow basis. And, some questions should not be asked at all, But I was raised with manners. I can't explain manners gained over a lifetime in a paragraph. so obviously in the context of a dating site -a man with a 10 minute checklist is not going to match well with me - cuz I prolly won't answer. If he cant take the time to get to know me to discover if I meet his criteria, I will not beinterested. but that's justme. It's my expectation. namaste Remember, you posted on a public forum online. That's why I asked. If you want someone to "myob" you may want to refrain from posting about it here. generally speaking I am fine wiht questions related to w/e topic it is. I just have had a couple of guys on these sites ask UNBELIEVEABLY personal questions on a 1st convo recently- that's kinda more of what I meant anyway |
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nothing - except sometimes to nosy people are people who ask inappropriate questions. I am old enough to be of a pre internet generation when personal privacy was highly respected and I STILL respect it. So information that's not ur biz to know- if u ask - ya- I'll prolly lie and u will desrve it Why not just tell them you don't want to answer? I let people know they can ask what they want, but I can't guarantee I'll answer everything if it gets too personal. In our internet culture we have come so far from respect of the privacy of the other , that people don't even know when they cross that line any more. Unless one is in a situation that warrants questions, it is rude to ask personal questions of another. period. end of story. And questions asked should be asked in context on a need t oknow basis. And, some questions should not be asked at all, But I was raised with manners. I can't explain manners gained over a lifetime in a paragraph. so obviously in the context of a dating site -a man with a 10 minute checklist is not going to match well with me - cuz I prolly won't answer. If he cant take the time to get to know me to discover if I meet his criteria, I will not beinterested. but that's justme. It's my expectation. namaste Remember, you posted on a public forum online. That's why I asked. If you want someone to "myob" you may want to refrain from posting about it here. generally speaking I am fine wiht questions related to w/e topic it is. I just have had a couple of guys on these sites ask UNBELIEVEABLY personal questions on a 1st convo recently- that's kinda more of what I meant anyway I get what you're saying. You should never have to answer questions you're uncomfortable with. Some people don't think at all before asking things, either. So I understand what you mean. |
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