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Topic: How do I know if my relationship's already over?
baby_shygirl20 Joined Wed 04/21/10 Posts: 25	Sat 09/11/10 01:46 AM
I am so confused. I can only blame myself for what happened. But he's being vague, and it pains to guess.. I am not sure if it's just time he needs to clear his mind, and make a decision, or if he already wants to break up with me..advice please

Loy822 Joined Mon 07/26/10 Posts: 7174	Sat 09/11/10 06:22 AM
Maybe he doesn't know either. That's why he needs time.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45395	Sat 09/11/10 06:34 AM
I am so confused. I can only blame myself for what happened. But he's being vague, and it pains to guess.. I am not sure if it's just time he needs to clear his mind, and make a decision, or if he already wants to break up with me..advice please How can we know, when you can hardly tell? Open a window, see if he leaves.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Sat 09/11/10 02:49 PM
When it's over That's the time I fall in love again And when it's over That's the time you're in my heart again And when you go go go go I know And it never ends It never ends

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 09/11/10 02:54 PM
Since you are asking us this question, I can help you with a clear cut answer. If you ever find yourself asking a question like this, then go ahead and slap yourself cause you already know the answer. It is over. I know that is blunt, but whenever you ask this question, it is never a good sign.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21803	Sat 09/11/10 02:57 PM
Don't play games. ASK HIM.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 09/11/10 03:01 PM
advise- get on with your life, your way to young and pretty to worry about one guy...there are plenty more guys out there, so go have some fun while he's "making up his mind"...(85% of the time when guys do and say this, there is another female in the picture)

chrisss1 Joined Wed 08/04/10 Posts: 16	Sat 09/11/10 09:17 PM
before you do anything make sure you guys are on the same page with what you guys are thinking first. I know you heard that venus and mars thing. you might be thinking something thats not worth even breaking up to him. he might be considering his options too and you might be something really of worth to him in his life. so dont be so quick do assume the worst. maybe this guy just needs time. if it was me, i just like talking things out what i feel. no beating around the bushes, lol

Oceanbluze Joined Thu 08/12/10 Posts: 1236	Sat 09/11/10 09:22 PM
just let him know it's over, you're not into sitting around playing guessing games. If he responds to that he will let you know either way, If he doesnt then it was already over in his eyes.

baby_shygirl20 Joined Wed 04/21/10 Posts: 25	Sun 09/12/10 05:47 AM
bet amongst, you're right.. we talked earlier, and he finally talked and was frank to me.. Told me where I went wrong, and I totally understood.. All i needed was for him to let it out, and not keep on telling me everything was fine, when we both know, everything's not totally fine.. I knew I was loved by him, and he realized and considered me as part of his life

Teditis Joined Sun 03/07/10 Posts: 3597	Sun 09/12/10 05:50 AM
Since you are asking us this question, I can help you with a clear cut answer. If you ever find yourself asking a question like this, then go ahead and slap yourself cause you already know the answer. It is over. I know that is blunt, but whenever you ask this question, it is never a good sign. This is wisdom...

Teditis Joined Sun 03/07/10 Posts: 3597	Sun 09/12/10 05:54 AM
bet amongst, you're right.. we talked earlier, and he finally talked and was frank to me.. Told me where I went wrong, and I totally understood.. All i needed was for him to let it out, and not keep on telling me everything was fine, when we both know, everything's not totally fine.. I knew I was loved by him, and he realized and considered me as part of his life Life goes on... Wishin you the best.

JamieRawxx Joined Sun 08/08/10 Posts: 2710	Sun 09/12/10 07:40 AM
There's plenty of fish in the sea just next time get a catfish and not a carp.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 09/12/10 09:26 AM
Since you are asking us this question, I can help you with a clear cut answer. If you ever find yourself asking a question like this, then go ahead and slap yourself cause you already know the answer. It is over. I know that is blunt, but whenever you ask this question, it is never a good sign. This is wisdom... And now that we know what happened between her and him, my wisdom was proven to be correct. Hey...I can gloat damn it! Honestly, I learned that when you begin to question things, their is a good reason for it. And it mainly steems from their being no communication, or a secret is being hidden, etc. When it comes down to someone not being happy in the relationship, people generally do not have the balls to just break it off. They would rather stay, play games, and hope that they drive their mate insane enough to make them leave. I know being honest isn't always easy to do, but dragging things out is just maddening. If you don't want to be there, then go. Duh!!!

sohel_writer72 Joined Tue 08/31/10 Posts: 3	Sun 09/12/10 09:57 AM
Start to find out another friend, that ll make you feeling good I guess

sohel_writer72 Joined Tue 08/31/10 Posts: 3	Sun 09/12/10 10:00 AM
try to dating disabled man, I'm such a simple, that ll be a new experience. I promise

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 09/12/10 10:19 AM
Since you are asking us this question, I can help you with a clear cut answer. If you ever find yourself asking a question like this, then go ahead and slap yourself cause you already know the answer. It is over. I know that is blunt, but whenever you ask this question, it is never a good sign.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 09/12/10 10:19 AM
Start to find out another friend, that ll make you feeling good I guess hey....welcome to the forums

chelsea466 Joined Tue 05/11/10 Posts: 5078	Sun 09/12/10 11:09 AM
Once you start to question things in your relationship that seems to be where things go wrong. There is lack of communication which could mean he has found someone else and put the blame on you or things have just fallen apart. Either way you should never have to question your relationship if you 2 are truely happy. That's just my 2 cents worth though. And Welcome to Mingle!! Good luck and I hope you find what your looking for.

pmarco41 Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 2163	Sun 09/12/10 11:13 AM
Since you are asking us this question, I can help you with a clear cut answer. If you ever find yourself asking a question like this, then go ahead and slap yourself cause you already know the answer. It is over. I know that is blunt, but whenever you ask this question, it is never a good sign. This is wisdom... And now that we know what happened between her and him, my wisdom was proven to be correct. Hey...I can gloat damn it! Honestly, I learned that when you begin to question things, their is a good reason for it. And it mainly steems from their being no communication, or a secret is being hidden, etc. When it comes down to someone not being happy in the relationship, people generally do not have the balls to just break it off. They would rather stay, play games, and hope that they drive their mate insane enough to make them leave. I know being honest isn't always easy to do, but dragging things out is just maddening. If you don't want to be there, then go. Duh!!! my god, its like we´ve dated the same people....