i feel like i am traped in the endless cycle of not being able to find the right woman. its like i am the guy form good luck chuck with the curse i find a woman i like her she likes me than all of a sudden she is with another man and geting married or just wants to be friends. it drives me crazy what can i do to keep a good woman i
am poetic, educated, sensitive, loyal and every woman i date i treat like she is a goddess. yet i am alone

Treat the whores like Queen's and the Queen's like whores problem solved

smile and the whole world smiles with you !

not by chance single and been that way for some time now r u?

am I what just ask

prolly don't listen to any of the other men on here, but do listen to the women - at least when they are being serious.

First don't think of this site as the only means to meeting someone - it is just one means. keep trying. It is a little more of a challenge these days as more and more women enjoy their independence.

I wouldn't worry so much about "keeping" a good woman. Try making friends and seeing where that takes you. Avoid looking too far into the future - enjoy the present and take things one date at a time. That way the women u meet aren't pressured with feeling that u r trying to get serious too soon. jmho

I allway's say Friend's First. That way u don't get hurt and know what to expect

I agree. Why ask why? Just keep trying. Good answers, there you go Bub, she's got it covered.

Too bad I don't date my friends A motive like that would be trickery

It doesn't matter that you are any of those things. If she is not into you - she won't stick around.

Stop trying to analyze what you think is wrong with you and just be happy with yourself. Live your life, accomplish goals, and be happy alone. When you achieve that - you have a better chance of attracting someone.

This happens to all of us. It's called dating.

1) That lonely thing has gotta go, if lonely becomes an ingrained part of your psyche you will remain alone. Because you will identify yourself with the lonelyness, which is a side affect of being alone.

2) Always exude confidence. Women are insecure by nature, they want a guy who is confident enough for both of you. If you are not confdent by nature, just pretend you are!

3) visualization- When you talk to a woman imagine the best case senatio in your mind. Just think about falure not being an option and her not wanting to be with you as HER problem not yours.

4)Hide you feelings more. Instead of telling women how you feel, show them. Don't be afraid to be more agressive about making a move. I am not saying get all tarzan on her or anything, but don't be afraid to go in for a kiss, or touch her shoulder, or grab her *** or whatever it is you do to try and score.

5) Use alchol to your advantage. Once again I am not saying get her **** faced drunk until she passes out, but use the alchol to loosen up and free some of your nerves and inhabitions.

This is really good advice. After reading some of the posts from the male members, I really think you should listen to the ladies.

Some of these replies are comical. I can't believe some guys think that way!

To the OP: don't be a dBag. Most women have their shields up and radar on for anything other than "being yourself".

The dating pool is scary!

Lawdy, I can't stop laughing!

It was a joke the first part anyway

Quit whinning. Go out and spend some money.

Problem solved

Listen to Melody. She knows what she's talking about.

Be in the 'now', grasshopper ... it's the only thing you have ... all else is irrelevant ...

Your rite KING

I'm glad to know that u were joking about the whores and queens thing