Topic: what does a man have to do?
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Fri 09/03/10 07:47 PM
laugh I was joking

unloved2's photo
Fri 09/03/10 10:07 PM
thanks every one i am gald i can come here to get advice
i look forward to helping out with other people once i get on the right track but in the mean times everyone is right be bold live for today cause you arent promised tommarrow and above all else keep moving forward.
you all have a great night and ill see you around

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Fri 09/03/10 10:19 PM

1) That lonely thing has gotta go, if lonely becomes an ingrained part of your psyche you will remain alone. Because you will identify yourself with the lonelyness, which is a side affect of being alone.

2) Always exude confidence. Women are insecure by nature, they want a guy who is confident enough for both of you. If you are not confdent by nature, just pretend you are!

3) visualization- When you talk to a woman imagine the best case senatio in your mind. Just think about falure not being an option and her not wanting to be with you as HER problem not yours.

4)Hide you feelings more. Instead of telling women how you feel, show them. Don't be afraid to be more agressive about making a move. I am not saying get all tarzan on her or anything, but don't be afraid to go in for a kiss, or touch her shoulder, or grab her *** or whatever it is you do to try and score.

5) Use alchol to your advantage. Once again I am not saying get her **** faced drunk until she passes out, but use the alchol to loosen up and free some of your nerves and inhabitions.






The main thing you have to remember is DO NOT take one word of advice from this guy.. All you'll attract are losers...

Loy822's photo
Fri 09/03/10 10:26 PM
You are amazingly wise for your age lol - Although a lot depends on chemistry and when it's not there - you can't make it appear. Unfortunately, some women just can't make themselves say from the beginning that it's not there.

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Sat 09/04/10 09:31 PM

1) That lonely thing has gotta go, if lonely becomes an ingrained part of your psyche you will remain alone. Because you will identify yourself with the lonelyness, which is a side affect of being alone.

2) Always exude confidence. Women are insecure by nature, they want a guy who is confident enough for both of you. If you are not confdent by nature, just pretend you are!

3) visualization- When you talk to a woman imagine the best case senatio in your mind. Just think about falure not being an option and her not wanting to be with you as HER problem not yours.

4)Hide you feelings more. Instead of telling women how you feel, show them. Don't be afraid to be more agressive about making a move. I am not saying get all tarzan on her or anything, but don't be afraid to go in for a kiss, or touch her shoulder, or grab her *** or whatever it is you do to try and score.

5) Use alchol to your advantage. Once again I am not saying get her **** faced drunk until she passes out, but use the alchol to loosen up and free some of your nerves and inhabitions.


Are you trying to get the dude thrown in the slammer or slapped with a sexual harassment/assault lawsuit?

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 09/04/10 09:38 PM


1) That lonely thing has gotta go, if lonely becomes an ingrained part of your psyche you will remain alone. Because you will identify yourself with the lonelyness, which is a side affect of being alone.

2) Always exude confidence. Women are insecure by nature, they want a guy who is confident enough for both of you. If you are not confdent by nature, just pretend you are!

3) visualization- When you talk to a woman imagine the best case senatio in your mind. Just think about falure not being an option and her not wanting to be with you as HER problem not yours.

4)Hide you feelings more. Instead of telling women how you feel, show them. Don't be afraid to be more agressive about making a move. I am not saying get all tarzan on her or anything, but don't be afraid to go in for a kiss, or touch her shoulder, or grab her *** or whatever it is you do to try and score.

5) Use alchol to your advantage. Once again I am not saying get her **** faced drunk until she passes out, but use the alchol to loosen up and free some of your nerves and inhabitions.


Are you trying to get the dude thrown in the slammer or slapped with a sexual harassment/assault lawsuit?


:thumbsup:

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Sat 09/04/10 09:39 PM


1) That lonely thing has gotta go, if lonely becomes an ingrained part of your psyche you will remain alone. Because you will identify yourself with the lonelyness, which is a side affect of being alone.

2) Always exude confidence. Women are insecure by nature, they want a guy who is confident enough for both of you. If you are not confdent by nature, just pretend you are!

3) visualization- When you talk to a woman imagine the best case senatio in your mind. Just think about falure not being an option and her not wanting to be with you as HER problem not yours.

4)Hide you feelings more. Instead of telling women how you feel, show them. Don't be afraid to be more agressive about making a move. I am not saying get all tarzan on her or anything, but don't be afraid to go in for a kiss, or touch her shoulder, or grab her *** or whatever it is you do to try and score.

5) Use alchol to your advantage. Once again I am not saying get her **** faced drunk until she passes out, but use the alchol to loosen up and free some of your nerves and inhabitions.






The main thing you have to remember is DO NOT take one word of advice from this guy.. All you'll attract are losers...


Mam. These five rules happen to be in Goof's code of conduct. grumble laugh

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 09/04/10 09:46 PM

i feel like i am traped in the endless cycle of not being able to find the right woman. its like i am the guy form good luck chuck with the curse i find a woman i like her she likes me than all of a sudden she is with another man and geting married or just wants to be friends. it drives me crazy what can i do to keep a good woman i
am poetic, educated, sensitive, loyal and every woman i date i treat like she is a goddess. yet i am alone


You just gonna need a lots of money that's all. smokin


eklectek's photo
Sat 09/04/10 09:47 PM
I can honestly say that I have never laughed at as many replies as I have with this post. The needy lonely vibe that you are sending is what might be hurting you here. It is VERY good that you treat ladies so well. Provided that is true, maybe try and tone it down a bit. Don't listen to these yahoos saying get her wasted, or get her drinks to "loosen her up". Women ARE NOT stupid, they will see that tactic coming from 20 miles away, and if they don't, she probably isn't the kind of girl worth keeping. Just be yourself man. DO NOT listen to that chacha guys advice. Hiding your feelings will drive a female away, yet if you are oozing feelings then that will make them run away too. Ill be the first to say that I'm single also, so maybe my thoughts are off, but I think that what you need is balance. Be open and communicate, but bring out that manliness also. As much as they want all that talking and feelings to be discussed, I think that they still want a "Man". Best of luck friend.
-Ek

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 09/04/10 09:50 PM

I can honestly say that I have never laughed at as many replies as I have with this post. The needy lonely vibe that you are sending is what might be hurting you here. It is VERY good that you treat ladies so well. Provided that is true, maybe try and tone it down a bit. Don't listen to these yahoos saying get her wasted, or get her drinks to "loosen her up". Women ARE NOT stupid, they will see that tactic coming from 20 miles away, and if they don't, she probably isn't the kind of girl worth keeping. Just be yourself man. DO NOT listen to that chacha guys advice. Hiding your feelings will drive a female away, yet if you are oozing feelings then that will make them run away too. Ill be the first to say that I'm single also, so maybe my thoughts are off, but I think that what you need is balance. Be open and communicate, but bring out that manliness also. As much as they want all that talking and feelings to be discussed, I think that they still want a "Man". Best of luck friend.
-Ek


:thumbsup: very well said...

eklectek's photo
Sat 09/04/10 09:54 PM
well thank you! flowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 09/04/10 09:55 PM

well thank you! flowerforyou


You're welcome.. I always enjoy your posts. They are well thought out...

Goofball73's photo
Sat 09/04/10 09:56 PM

I can honestly say that I have never laughed at as many replies as I have with this post. The needy lonely vibe that you are sending is what might be hurting you here. It is VERY good that you treat ladies so well. Provided that is true, maybe try and tone it down a bit. Don't listen to these yahoos saying get her wasted, or get her drinks to "loosen her up". Women ARE NOT stupid, they will see that tactic coming from 20 miles away, and if they don't, she probably isn't the kind of girl worth keeping. Just be yourself man. DO NOT listen to that chacha guys advice. Hiding your feelings will drive a female away, yet if you are oozing feelings then that will make them run away too. Ill be the first to say that I'm single also, so maybe my thoughts are off, but I think that what you need is balance. Be open and communicate, but bring out that manliness also. As much as they want all that talking and feelings to be discussed, I think that they still want a "Man". Best of luck friend.
-Ek


What's wrong with loose chicks?grumble laugh

eklectek's photo
Sat 09/04/10 09:59 PM
embarassed that's very nice of you to say! I try to think before I speak. I've had the opportunity to enjoy reading some of your thoughts also! :banana: It's nice to speak with people who are a little more on the calculated side!

eklectek's photo
Sat 09/04/10 10:00 PM
flowerforyou prncs!

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 09/04/10 10:03 PM

embarassed that's very nice of you to say! I try to think before I speak. I've had the opportunity to enjoy reading some of your thoughts also! :banana: It's nice to speak with people who are a little more on the calculated side!


Thank you... flowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 09/04/10 10:05 PM


I can honestly say that I have never laughed at as many replies as I have with this post. The needy lonely vibe that you are sending is what might be hurting you here. It is VERY good that you treat ladies so well. Provided that is true, maybe try and tone it down a bit. Don't listen to these yahoos saying get her wasted, or get her drinks to "loosen her up". Women ARE NOT stupid, they will see that tactic coming from 20 miles away, and if they don't, she probably isn't the kind of girl worth keeping. Just be yourself man. DO NOT listen to that chacha guys advice. Hiding your feelings will drive a female away, yet if you are oozing feelings then that will make them run away too. Ill be the first to say that I'm single also, so maybe my thoughts are off, but I think that what you need is balance. Be open and communicate, but bring out that manliness also. As much as they want all that talking and feelings to be discussed, I think that they still want a "Man". Best of luck friend.
-Ek


What's wrong with loose chicks?grumble laugh


laugh laugh laugh laugh nothing for you Goofers... :wink:

eklectek's photo
Sat 09/04/10 10:06 PM
:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 09/04/10 10:07 PM

:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:


You're too cute...

eklectek's photo
Sat 09/04/10 10:09 PM
the dancing bananas are my favourite!!! cute? I can honestly say I dont remember ever being called cute aha. flowers :banana: embarassed