Someone has to love them. Might as well be Goofers.

They are one of the best smilies... Well, there's a first time for everything...


Of course Goofers...

ohhhhhhh my friend....there is just as much, if not more thrills in the chase my friend. I by NO means want a lady to just throw it at me.

well thank you for the first lol. That deserves another dancing nanner!!!

This is true. But then again, having it thrown at ya is also like an honor.....if she passes the "sniff test"

I disagree bro....When they throw it at me the first question I ask myself is how many guys has she just "trown it to" No interest to me

Dude. I hope you realize that I am being silly when I say chit like that. Deep down....Goof here is a hopeless romantic. I only manwhore two months out of the year.

you're so silly 2 months???

I am only good for a 9 month serious relationship. Break it off at nine months, which then gives me a one month readjustment period to get into whore mode. Then, near the end of the two months of manwhoring, I am ready to get serious again. It's a process.

Mine is 30 days!

30 day Ho? Fo sho?

its a process?? HAHAHA I'm honestly laughing myself stupid!

From eklectek:


I can't take the credit for such fine advice. Thank 9erguy earlier in the thread.

Hey, here are some things I recommend.

1. Gain confidence through believing in and knowing yourself. As an earlier poster said, but obscured with bad advice, confidence is sexy and women know it and can see it.

A man who knows where he's going, what he's doing, has a direction and a purpose. If she likes you, she sees a future, that future, with you. She'll come along for the ride.

2. Be skilled and talented at something, but don't brag about it. Show it, but don't show off. Women like men who are capable and skilled at something, unless it's beer drinking and swearing like a sailor.

If you write poetry, you can let little things drop like you've had work published or accepted. If you haven't made it that far yet, do it. It's time to build your resume. But whatever you do, enjoy what you're doing. She's not going to be impressed if you hate life.

3. Be humble, self-effacing, and approachable. No one likes another who's got his head stuck in the clouds or buried in the sand.

4. Avoid the bad, find the good. Don't hang out with losers, louts, or loudmouths. Your buddies good and bad points will rub off on you too. Make sure more good than bad goes your way, and that the cards are in your favor.

5. Look your best. When you look your best, feel your best, you have your best chances. You should always be prepared. This means you should do things like...

(a) Taking care of yourself and proper grooming.
(b) Dress well, but not too well or inappropriately. Pants slung low and gangsta style, no way. Pants jacked up and squeezing your thing-a-lings like Erkel, no, no, no.
(c) Eat healthy, exercise, and fulfill your genetic destiny.
(d) Have an appearance and disposition that says, "Here I am."

6. Don't view other men as threats or with hostility. You're not competing with them. There's no one to compete with but yourself. That sets you apart. There are no limits or boundaries except those that you define and surpass.

7. Don't treat her like a princess or put her on a pedestal. Treat her like your love. She wants to be loved, understood, and respected as another human being.

8. Don't click, don't bother. A spark ought to kindle a fire. Don't bother blowing on cold ashes. Look elsewhere.

9. Don't complain, don't whine, and don't be a girly-man.

10. Challenge her, excite her, captivate her, motivate her, and mesmerize her. Make her part of your world, and hers part of yours. It doesn't require money. But it requires brains. I hate to tell you the secret of secrets, but girls are zombies, and they're after your brains.

Fortune favors the bold, and women favor the creative. Good luck.


(I know I'm going to take flak for this, but these are my thoughts. Everyone has a different approach or outlook. I met my gf here and count my blessings everyday. ;))