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all the young single people are gay or taken what about other anime characters on this site .. are they taken too ? if u put a bit of an effort into it u might just find a match 4 urself lol ..I wonder what that ninja kid Naruto is doing right now .. go fetch girlie .. :) |
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my friend the best things in life are the hardest to get, it takes blood sweat and tears to do it right but once you do, you get a huge feeling of accomplishment knowing that you did it yourself putting in a honest days work, for example my father and I built a huge deck together in the summer of 2007 at the time I was living with him and he had just got out of back surgery, we decided we wanted a deck so we laid down the foundation built the frame and finished all of it within a month just me and him. during that time the heat index was a record high but we didn't take any shortcuts and it eventually added another 10 grand to the value of the house, and when we had a family party there was no loose boards or splits we ended building a 10 thousand dollar deck for 4 grand. it was sized at 24-20 and almost indistructable. if we would have taken shortcuts the deck that we put all the work into could have turned into a eyesore rather then a wonderful addiction to the house that it turned out to be. I guess it all depends on what u plan to accomplish..not everyone is as honest as ur,you must realize that,many of such people will take advantage of ur honesty if u let em.. some people live by the mentality such as,you either screw or u get screwed, not me though, I am as honest as they come..but at the same time,if I see someone trying to take advantage of that ..I let em know straight away.Me and my pop never really built anything together,..we do go on hunting and fishing trips together though.. once in a while.. whenever he has time, he rarely has time though...it's good that u have such close relationship with ur pop.. |
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PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things I think you are missing something here. Playing the field or whatever is fine. Nothing wrong with that (if you are honest about it) Cheating involves deception. If someone can't commit to one person, then they shouldn't commit and then cheat. well what if u still love that person on an emotional level,but at the same time u need to have something extra on the side..It happens right ? I mean if someone been married for 15 years for instance and been only true to that one person all this time,could suddenly have a change of heart...after all we are all human right ? not robots.. Sounds to me like you weren't sharing wisdom at all and are just trying to make excuses for cheating. I was just giving examples,never said I actually did it.. |
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PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things I think you are missing something here. Playing the field or whatever is fine. Nothing wrong with that (if you are honest about it) Cheating involves deception. If someone can't commit to one person, then they shouldn't commit and then cheat. well what if u still love that person on an emotional level,but at the same time u need to have something extra on the side..It happens right ? I mean if someone been married for 15 years for instance and been only true to that one person all this time,could suddenly have a change of heart...after all we are all human right ? not robots.. Sounds to me like you weren't sharing wisdom at all and are just trying to make excuses for cheating. I was just giving examples,never said I actually did it.. |
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Honestly...I don't think it was ever really "acceptable" I think it just wasn't talked about back in the day and everyone lived in la la land when it came to it. well if we go back to the more or less civilized,barbaric days,all kings and emperors had more then one mistress,some even had multiple wives,in old England,if a queen did something wrong,the king could have her beheaded.Then it was all accepted..as a normal way of life. |
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ummmm if someone is cheating, wouldn't that be a good indication that something is broke?  right, but if ur not aware of it,in ur mind nothing is really broken now is it ? |
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Danika, lol honestley man, I feel cheaters never prosper and usually do so for the rush of being caught and I feel bad for them, I really do, because one day they are going to wake up shriveled up in some quiet hospital room alone regretting never being with the one that got away. so naieve? maybe alittle, realistic yes. there may come circumstances in life, that you are not able to predict..u can't always get by in life on straight and narrow.. sometime u need to cut corners.. |
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ok....so if you had a sister, niece or even your mom and you knew they were being cheated on....you would be ok with that? Contraception isn't 100% guaranteed. That person could be bring an STD home or find out that there is a baby out there. My 20 y/o niece has a bum boyfriend that is cheating on her. She lives in denial. I have no respect for the guy and I don't hide the fact that I don't like him. I taught my son to be a man and own up. Everyone makes mistakes in life. There are many mistakes to be made. But someone that can man/woman up has more respect to me than someone that continues to lie. Liars, cheats and thieves are cowards in my book because they hide from the truth. it's not really my problem now is it I never mendle in the affairs of my parents.. they'll just tell me to mind my own business lol .. I am the only child so I wouldn't really know,but if I did have a sister.. most I could do is give her an advice on the matter, what she does with it is her business.. there is a saying if something ain't broken don't fix it.. what is the truth, everyone has their own perception of truth.. |
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Thank you yellow :) also about your other post I think a cheater is a confused person who doesn't really know what they want, I myself have never cheated but I've been cheated on and it burns like when you play with fire as a kid. I think honestley cheaters see it as keeping thier options open which in my mind is absurd I feel like we were put on this earth to love and be loved. without that, life itself loses its meaning. u sure are naive ain't ya ? lol it's only cheating if u get caught.. :) |
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Edited by
danilka1978
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Wed 09/01/10 07:57 AM
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sorry but your mom gave you bad advice. I have a 19 y/o son and I would tell him to be a man. If he can't control himself, then he needs to own up and end it before he makes himself a liar. I would NEVER tell my son that. A real man (or woman) would own up and put their big boy/girl pants on. BTW....they will always find out. May not be immediately but they will find out. thats why the divorce rate is through the roof, because some people just can't keep their mouth's shut.. start asking questions,start digging, if you start digging eventually u bound to find something u might not like,won't be to ur benefit, every relationship should be based on trust, no trust no relationship... |
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Edited by
danilka1978
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Wed 09/01/10 07:49 AM
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WHY IS IT THAT WHEN A WOMAN CHEATS THE GUY THINKS SHE'S THE BIGGEST WHORE.BUT WHEN HE DOES IT IT'S OK.WHAT DO YOU THINK? my mom once gave me a good advice on this subject, if you cheat never let the other one know,so no one gets hurt emotionally,what a person does not know can't hurt em right.. and ur relationship stays intact,meanwhile u do what u gotta do,just do it as discreet as possible another good advice..is never tell ur partner the truth,like even if ur girl catches u with someone in bed if u tell her ain't nothing happened,then in her mind nothing did happen,as long as id don't come out from ur mouth nothing did happen..u feel me ? Thing is over time being with the same person can infact get boring,so instead of ending the relationship u strenghthen it by having a girl on the side..My pop is away on business trips a lot..only thing my mom can do is trust him, she knows how ladies fall for my pop.. but like she said as long as she doesn't know about it, it's all good... a bit of topic I know just thought I share a bit of my wizdom with u all :) PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things You do realize that you just blocked yourself from 95% of the ladies from this site. lol hey I am not saying I'd actually do it I am just saying about the advice my mom gave me...Like I said my pop is on business trips a lot my mom trusts him.. she doesn't ask him the wrong questions, she doesn't go to an extent of hiring a private investigator when my pop comes back late from his office,as some women may do and they been happily married for 20 something years.. Don't ask, don't tell... |
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Edited by
danilka1978
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Wed 09/01/10 07:43 AM
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PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things I think you are missing something here. Playing the field or whatever is fine. Nothing wrong with that (if you are honest about it) Cheating involves deception. If someone can't commit to one person, then they shouldn't commit and then cheat. well what if u still love that person on an emotional level,but at the same time u need to have something extra on the side..It happens right ? I mean if someone been married for 15 years for instance and been only true to that one person all this time,could suddenly have a change of heart...after all we are all human right ? not robots.. |
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WHY IS IT THAT WHEN A WOMAN CHEATS THE GUY THINKS SHE'S THE BIGGEST WHORE.BUT WHEN HE DOES IT IT'S OK.WHAT DO YOU THINK? my mom once gave me a good advice on this subject, if you cheat never let the other one know,so no one gets hurt emotionally,what a person does not know can't hurt em right.. and ur relationship stays intact,meanwhile u do what u gotta do,just do it as discreet as possible another good advice..is never tell ur partner the truth,like even if ur girl catches u with someone in bed if u tell her ain't nothing happened,then in her mind nothing did happen,as long as id don't come out from ur mouth nothing did happen..u feel me ? Thing is over time being with the same person can infact get boring,so instead of ending the relationship u strenghthen it by having a girl on the side..My pop is away on business trips a lot..only thing my mom can do is trust him, she knows how ladies fall for my pop.. but like she said as long as she doesn't know about it, it's all good... a bit of topic I know just thought I share a bit of my wizdom with u all :) PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things |
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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated let me tell u about most women man... the worse u treat em,the more they love u... it's their mentality..most women dig ******** for some reason.. and then they cry about and wonder why they being treated like ****... my advice bro find urself a woman that's gonna love u for u.. and only u.. and if she starts acting like a ***** towards u ..use her *** and dump her..man ..women like that ain't worth it Dude you couldnt have it more backwards if you tried...you are such a lost soul.  Hear, FRIKKIN' HEAR. About time someone said it... -.- I know some women can be twisted, and just plain don't do good, but WOW. -.- Guys like that are the reason that decent girls have to put up with feeling like crap about ourselves... let me guess ur one of the decent ones ? lol |
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Edited by
danilka1978
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Tue 08/31/10 08:22 PM
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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated let me tell u about most women man... the worse u treat em,the more they love u... it's their mentality..most women dig ******** for some reason.. and then they cry about and wonder why they being treated like ****... my advice bro find urself a woman that's gonna love u for u.. and only u.. and if she starts acting like a ***** towards u ..use her *** and dump her..man ..women like that ain't worth it Hit her, too. Chicks love that.  nope never in my life have I raised a hand to a woman,or anyone who is weaker than me.. I tell ya in my past relationships i had plates thrown at me amongst other things lol .. I just leave .. but I would never hit a woman.. sure at times I felt like putting her head through a wall don't get me wrong.. but I'd never actually do it. worst thing I would just punch a wall a few times and go cool off somewhere.. |
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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated let me tell u about most women man... the worse u treat em,the more they love u... it's their mentality..most women dig ******** for some reason.. and then they cry about and wonder why they being treated like ****... my advice bro find urself a woman that's gonna love u for u.. and only u.. and if she starts acting like a ***** towards u ..use her *** and dump her..man ..women like that ain't worth it Dude you couldnt have it more backwards if you tried...you are such a lost soul. well venus with all due respect I was talking about my generation of women, you are more of my parent's generation.. things were a bit different then I am sure.. more values..perhaps |
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So it sounds like you're doing the long-distance thing???? If so, let me tell you (as a woman who has been involved in long-distance romances) how difficult it is. A woman wants to feel you close.... she wants to feel your breath on her neck, your hand grazing her leg, your arm enveloping her. She wants you to look her in her eyes, to feel your lips, to feel your cheek, and your kiss. She feels safe with you near. It is very difficult to feel like you're in a relationship with someone who can never be there with you....who can never go with you to a friend's BBQ or a niece's birthday party. Regardless of how nice you are and how much you may fill her emotional needs, she wants your physical presence. then how do u explain some women waiting for their men 10 years while their men is in jail in stuff...truth is if u really truly care about someone u'll do the long distance thing.. or even wait 10 years till ur man gets out of prison.. the rest is just excuses.. |
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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated let me tell u about most women man... the worse u treat em,the more they love u... it's their mentality..most women dig ******** for some reason.. and then they cry about and wonder why they being treated like ****... my advice bro find urself a woman that's gonna love u for u.. and only u.. and if she starts acting like a ***** towards u ..use her *** and dump her..man ..women like that ain't worth it actually....we dont want @$$h0les.....sometimes it just takes us a little bit to realize that we want a nice guy that will treat us right....and doing the distance thing right off the bat isnt easy if youve been hurt before and havent built that trust with the other person problem is when u do find a nice guy u tend to treat em like ****... see like I said u ladies don't really know what u want u might think u do,but u really don't lol .. |
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you know i tried the whole bein an ******* thing its just not who i am just cant bring myself to do it as the famos sayin goes nice guys finish last but then all i hear is how all the girls say all they want is someone to treat them good then when they get it they just leave anyway u said it brother..thing is u need to be a genuine *******,women can sense it, as for them saying they want a guy to treat em right,brother they don't know what they want themselves, they have a bunch of instincts and emotions that can change at any minute, trying to understand them is pointless..I look at it this way,if I see a girl nice genuine like.. I treat her good, though if I see she getting to comfortable I let her know right then and there... always need to keep a girl in check.. otherwise they tend to walk all over u if u let em..Now if I see she a genuine *****,then I am going to treat her like the ***** that she is and dump her sorry ***... |
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