Thank you yellow :)

also about your other post I think a cheater is a confused person who doesn't really know what they want, I myself have never cheated but I've been cheated on and it burns like when you play with fire as a kid. I think honestley cheaters see it as keeping thier options open which in my mind is absurd I feel like we were put on this earth to love and be loved. without that, life itself loses its meaning.

thats why the divorce rate is through the roof, because some people just can't keep their mouth's shut.. start asking questions,start digging, if you start digging eventually u bound to find something u might not like,won't be to ur benefit, every relationship should be based on trust, no trust no relationship...

u sure are naive ain't ya ? lol it's only cheating if u get caught.. :)

ok....so if you had a sister, niece or even your mom and you knew they were being cheated on....you would be ok with that?

Contraception isn't 100% guaranteed. That person could be bring an STD home or find out that there is a baby out there.

My 20 y/o niece has a bum boyfriend that is cheating on her. She lives in denial. I have no respect for the guy and I don't hide the fact that I don't like him.

I taught my son to be a man and own up. Everyone makes mistakes in life. There are many mistakes to be made. But someone that can man/woman up has more respect to me than someone that continues to lie.

Liars, cheats and thieves are cowards in my book because they hide from the truth.

no...it's still cheating. Caught or not.

If someone kills someone and doesn't get caught....someone is still dead.

The ones that don't get caught just haven't owned up YET

Danika,

lol honestley man, I feel cheaters never prosper and usually do so for the rush of being caught and I feel bad for them, I really do, because one day they are going to wake up shriveled up in some quiet hospital room alone regretting never being with the one that got away. so naieve? maybe alittle, realistic yes.

it's not really my problem now is it I never mendle in the affairs of my parents.. they'll just tell me to mind my own business lol .. I am the only child so I wouldn't really know,but if I did have a sister.. most I could do is give her an advice on the matter, what she does with it is her business.. there is a saying if something ain't broken don't fix it.. what is the truth, everyone has their own perception of truth..

ummmm if someone is cheating, wouldn't that be a good indication that something is broke?

there may come circumstances in life, that you are not able to predict..u can't always get by in life on straight and narrow.. sometime u need to cut corners..

right, but if ur not aware of it,in ur mind nothing is really broken now is it ?

SORRY,,,but I feel BOTH do this to each other as well as men to women.

And many women feel HE IS the biggest BASTARDDDDDD,,,,if he does it,,,,

So as we like to try and make one gender exclusive to our thoughts,,really we show we're equals to MOST topic's in life...

Honestly...I don't think it was ever really "acceptable" I think it just wasn't talked about back in the day and everyone lived in la la land when it came to it.

Well no, either one cheating is not good. I think you may be talking about the difference between a man and a woman sleeping around a lot. If a woman does that, then she's a whore. If a man does that, he's a playa

Sounds to me like you weren't sharing wisdom at all and are just trying to make excuses for cheating.

well if we go back to the more or less civilized,barbaric days,all kings and emperors had more then one mistress,some even had multiple wives,in old England,if a queen did something wrong,the king could have her beheaded.Then it was all accepted..as a normal way of life.

I was just giving examples,never said I actually did it..

I was just giving examples,never said I actually did it..

Perhaps you haven't yet, but you've show all of us the way you think about cheating. Definitely not the kind of person I'd get involved with. Seems like you have a lot of growing up to do. Perhaps you'll change your views on cheating later on.

my friend the best things in life are the hardest to get, it takes blood sweat and tears to do it right but once you do, you get a huge feeling of accomplishment knowing that you did it yourself putting in a honest days work, for example my father and I built a huge deck together in the summer of 2007 at the time I was living with him and he had just got out of back surgery, we decided we wanted a deck so we laid down the foundation built the frame and finished all of it within a month just me and him. during that time the heat index was a record high but we didn't take any shortcuts and it eventually added another 10 grand to the value of the house, and when we had a family party there was no loose boards or splits we ended building a 10 thousand dollar deck for 4 grand. it was sized at 24-20 and almost indistructable. if we would have taken shortcuts the deck that we put all the work into could have turned into a eyesore rather then a wonderful addiction to the house that it turned out to be.

Its all BS, people suck. They lie, and just are so self gratifying.

Why can't people be more honest about their fidelity?

Oh but that takes honesty!