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to goofball i know but i wanted to see what ppl would say bout my situation i have to say not bad results for my first topic Bah. Look, do what Goof does when he is at the club. You stroll up to a chick, look her deep in her eyes, and then you give her nod, all the while saying "So. Wanna Phuck?" She swoons, panties fall, wedding bells within a fortnight. Ok, I have no idea how long a fortnight is. It just sounded good.  I was waiting for you to post "The Goof Method"!!
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I'm always here to help.
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Here is my analysis of the situation,
If you start thinking all women or all men, then you will see even the good ones in a negative light. Separate them. What one does, ,doesn't mean they are all like that. Hope this helps, Dr Kim
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Here is my analysis of the situation, If you start thinking all women or all men, then you will see even the good ones in a negative light. Separate them. What one does, ,doesn't mean they are all like that. Hope this helps, Dr Kim Dr. Kim??????  
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Goof...who let you out of my basement? You haven't finished my laundry yet
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WELL YOU KNOW IT'S TRUE, THAT WOMEN CANNOT MAKE UP THEIR MINDS AT ALL AND YES THEY DO WANT A MAN WHO IS A BAD BOY BUT ALSO PRINCE CHARMING.AND YES NICE GOOD GUYS ARE HARD TO FIND,BUT WORTH THE WAIT.
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WELL YOU KNOW IT'S TRUE, THAT WOMEN CANNOT MAKE UP THEIR MINDS AT ALL AND YES THEY DO WANT A MAN WHO IS A BAD BOY BUT ALSO PRINCE CHARMING.AND YES NICE GOOD GUYS ARE HARD TO FIND,BUT WORTH THE WAIT. Not me |
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WELL YOU KNOW IT'S TRUE, THAT WOMEN CANNOT MAKE UP THEIR MINDS AT ALL AND YES THEY DO WANT A MAN WHO IS A BAD BOY BUT ALSO PRINCE CHARMING.AND YES NICE GOOD GUYS ARE HARD TO FIND,BUT WORTH THE WAIT. I think that's an extreme generalization.. I don't want a bad boy, what a pain in the azz that would be.. I do not have the time nor inclination for bullsh*t so a bad boy would be way off base... Most people are good, perhaps in different ways at times but most have attributes we either like or are not for us which is our choice as individuals.. Because someone isn't our type either physically or mentally does not mean that one likes bad boys are doesn't appreciate a good guy... I say to each their own.. I'll go for what suits me and others can do the same and not assume to know what I like or include me in a gross generalization... |
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I don't have a "type" of woman that I "go for". And I myself do not fit into just one type of catagory, which basically means if you date me, you are dating mutliple personalities.
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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated It's hard if your getting stationed in different parts of the States/Country to have a LTR (long term relationship). Heck, it's hard enough for most to have one when they are living in the same city! ahaha Just take your time getting to know women, and don't be too "nice" if you know what I mean. Always be a gentleman, but don't be overly accommodating. Many will take advantage of this or get turned off by overkill attention. Make sense? Thank you for serving our country! 
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well venus with all due respect I was talking about my generation of women, you are more of my parent's generation.. things were a bit different then I am sure.. more values..perhaps GO TO YOUR ROOM !!! |
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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated let me tell u about most women man... the worse u treat em,the more they love u... it's their mentality..most women dig ******** for some reason.. and then they cry about and wonder why they being treated like ****... my advice bro find urself a woman that's gonna love u for u.. and only u.. and if she starts acting like a ***** towards u ..use her *** and dump her..man ..women like that ain't worth it Dude you couldnt have it more backwards if you tried...you are such a lost soul.  well venus with all due respect I was talking about my generation of women, you are more of my parent's generation.. things were a bit different then I am sure.. more values..perhaps No, you don't need to keep your generation of women in check. Venus is right, you have it all backwards. |
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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated It's hard if your getting stationed in different parts of the States/Country to have a LTR (long term relationship). Heck, it's hard enough for most to have one when they are living in the same city! ahaha Just take your time getting to know women, and don't be too "nice" if you know what I mean. Always be a gentleman, but don't be overly accommodating. Many will take advantage of this or get turned off by overkill attention. Make sense? Thank you for serving our country! thank you for the advise |
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you know i tried the whole bein an ******* thing its just not who i am just cant bring myself to do it as the famos sayin goes nice guys finish last but then all i hear is how all the girls say all they want is someone to treat them good then when they get it they just leave anyway If you can't be an *******, then try tempering the sweetness and not offering constant attention. Cut the phone conversations short, wait to return her texts, and sometimes don't respond at all. She will imagine things that aren't happening. |
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you know i tried the whole bein an ******* thing its just not who i am just cant bring myself to do it as the famos sayin goes nice guys finish last but then all i hear is how all the girls say all they want is someone to treat them good then when they get it they just leave anyway If you can't be an *******, then try tempering the sweetness and not offering constant attention. Cut the phone conversations short, wait to return her texts, and sometimes don't respond at all. She will imagine things that aren't happening. Really? No clue, seriously... |
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Edited by
9erguy
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Thu 09/02/10 11:20 PM
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you know i tried the whole bein an ******* thing its just not who i am just cant bring myself to do it as the famos sayin goes nice guys finish last but then all i hear is how all the girls say all they want is someone to treat them good then when they get it they just leave anyway If you can't be an *******, then try tempering the sweetness and not offering constant attention. Cut the phone conversations short, wait to return her texts, and sometimes don't respond at all. She will imagine things that aren't happening. Really? No clue, seriously... He is being taken for granted, and possibly taken advantage of. Somtimes people don't know what they have untill it's gone. I am not saying to be verbally abusive, just less available to her every whim. Women in their 40's have developed a greater appreciation of nice guys than women in their 20's. |
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you know i tried the whole bein an ******* thing its just not who i am just cant bring myself to do it as the famos sayin goes nice guys finish last but then all i hear is how all the girls say all they want is someone to treat them good then when they get it they just leave anyway If you can't be an *******, then try tempering the sweetness and not offering constant attention. Cut the phone conversations short, wait to return her texts, and sometimes don't respond at all. She will imagine things that aren't happening. Really? No clue, seriously... He is being taken for granted, and possibly taken advantage of. Somtimes people don't know what they have untill it's gone. I am not saying to be verbally abusive, just less available to her every whim. Women in their 40's have developed a greater appreciation of nice guys than women in their 20's. I'll give you that, the early 20's.. But he doesn't need to be an azzhole at all.. Too many men think that the need to be azzholes to get women.. ONLY women that are azzholes and if men are going for that type of woman, well they deserve what they get.. I know a lot of women in real life and on this site and very few want azzholes and those women are not azzholes.. I thing the "azzholes" are far less that we see people post about and it's more about who they are choosing as hopeful mates... |
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Edited by
Monier
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Thu 09/02/10 11:38 PM
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i dont mean to generalize it into specific category's of men and women but as i said this isnt the first time this has happened to me maybe its just my dumb luck or what i dont know I've found that women pay more attention to me when they don't think that I'm a shoulder to cry on. I save that for my actual female friends. What you're saying has happened to me plenty of times as well. The mistake we make is thinking that when dating we are on equal terms with women, we are not. Not exactly. Before anybody freaks out, let me explain: Normally if a woman will sleep with a guy too quick, he will lose interest her as a person faster. We view sex as the end result and dating as the start. It's harder to create something more in a relationship when your view of that person is scewed by sex. The mystery was hardly there. Women on the other hand tend to view the trusting and companionship (mental) parts of relationships as end results beginning with dating. If a man gives up too many of his feelings and touts who he is and he's such a good guy, she's likely to think he's moving too fast or boring her, then panics and decides he'd make a better friend, the best mystery of himself is now also gone. Bottom line is when we lose the respect of the opposite sex, we're finished. We don't have to be jerks or act coldly to others to get them to chase us. We just have to be confident with ourselves and stay true to what we believe. If somebody wants us in bed, we should make them work for it before we decide and likewise if they want to know of our deepest thoughts and desires, they should work hard for that as well. It's not us, it's what we let them do. |
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