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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated let me tell u about most women man... the worse u treat em,the more they love u... it's their mentality..most women dig ******** for some reason.. and then they cry about and wonder why they being treated like ****... my advice bro find urself a woman that's gonna love u for u.. and only u.. and if she starts acting like a ***** towards u ..use her *** and dump her..man ..women like that ain't worth it Dude you couldnt have it more backwards if you tried...you are such a lost soul.  Hear, FRIKKIN' HEAR. About time someone said it... -.- I know some women can be twisted, and just plain don't do good, but WOW. -.- Guys like that are the reason that decent girls have to put up with feeling like crap about ourselves... let me guess ur one of the decent ones ? lol |
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"I'm a nice guy".
Dude. Once you stated those four words, you were doomed! |
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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated You are generalizing. Men and women both are capable of having issues. If you find one that plays games, don't waste your time. People who play games are not normal nor are they serious about dating (and probably not about life either). Not all people play games. I've learned that if someone is really "INTO" you then he or she will return the respect and affection. Someone who adores you will step up for you every time. If you find yourself wondering "Why are men or women like that" - then you are with the wrong person. I wish you well. 
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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated let me tell u about most women man... the worse u treat em,the more they love u... it's their mentality..most women dig ******** for some reason.. and then they cry about and wonder why they being treated like ****... my advice bro find urself a woman that's gonna love u for u.. and only u.. and if she starts acting like a ***** towards u ..use her *** and dump her..man ..women like that ain't worth it This is a prime example of playing games. Ridiculous. 
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Edited by
darkdragon6977
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Tue 08/31/10 08:56 PM
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to goofball i know but i wanted to see what ppl would say bout my situation i have to say not bad results for my first topic
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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated let me tell u about most women man... the worse u treat em,the more they love u... it's their mentality..most women dig ******** for some reason.. and then they cry about and wonder why they being treated like ****... my advice bro find urself a woman that's gonna love u for u.. and only u.. and if she starts acting like a ***** towards u ..use her *** and dump her..man ..women like that ain't worth it This is a prime example of playing games. Ridiculous.  some think they have it all under control and know so much.. oh wait wrong generation... |
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you know i tried the whole bein an ******* thing its just not who i am just cant bring myself to do it as the famos sayin goes nice guys finish last but then all i hear is how all the girls say all they want is someone to treat them good then when they get it they just leave anyway u said it brother..thing is u need to be a genuine *******,women can sense it, as for them saying they want a guy to treat em right,brother they don't know what they want themselves, they have a bunch of instincts and emotions that can change at any minute, trying to understand them is pointless..I look at it this way,if I see a girl nice genuine like.. I treat her good, though if I see she getting to comfortable I let her know right then and there... always need to keep a girl in check.. otherwise they tend to walk all over u if u let em..Now if I see she a genuine *****,then I am going to treat her like the ***** that she is and dump her sorry ***... "Keep them in check". WTH?? Do not treat women like you are their fathers. If you feel the need to "check" a woman then you are with the wrong girl. Wow, you seem to generalize too - and have archaic ideals about how a relationship should work. Your thoughts in this topic are a huge turn off. |
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Smack a ho! The new energy drink from Goofball INC. In stores now!
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So it sounds like you're doing the long-distance thing???? If so, let me tell you (as a woman who has been involved in long-distance romances) how difficult it is. A woman wants to feel you close.... she wants to feel your breath on her neck, your hand grazing her leg, your arm enveloping her. She wants you to look her in her eyes, to feel your lips, to feel your cheek, and your kiss. She feels safe with you near. It is very difficult to feel like you're in a relationship with someone who can never be there with you....who can never go with you to a friend's BBQ or a niece's birthday party. Regardless of how nice you are and how much you may fill her emotional needs, she wants your physical presence. then how do u explain some women waiting for their men 10 years while their men is in jail in stuff...truth is if u really truly care about someone u'll do the long distance thing.. or even wait 10 years till ur man gets out of prison.. the rest is just excuses.. Jail and prison??  That is really dating the wrong person!
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 Ohhh...nice guys....wrong room
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Tue 08/31/10 09:00 PM
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again thanx for your support I was in an LDR for a year. He moved to Cali form Tenn. We stayed together for 6 years. LDRs can and do work with the right people. I have a penchant for military men, and I know other girls who date them as well. There are so many examples of how an LDR can work. Stay positive and chose your partner carefully! |
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OK I have to chime in on this one...The door swings both ways when it comes to men and women. I have been played by "nice guys" for the last year. But I can tell you from experience that most women that are not in the military can not take the separation. And as for long distance relationships, there has to be a lot of trust between the two or they are doomed from the get go. Dating just sucks anymore these days because of the internet. It is hard to think that someone is true when they are half a country away from you...Just find you a nice young local woman and have fun while you are young.
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you know, the nice thing about dating a guy in prison is that you always know where he is on a saturday nite.....
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i dont mean to generalize it into specific category's of men and women but as i said this isnt the first time this has happened to me maybe its just my dumb luck or what i dont know
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what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated let me tell u about most women man... the worse u treat em,the more they love u... it's their mentality..most women dig ******** for some reason.. and then they cry about and wonder why they being treated like ****... my advice bro find urself a woman that's gonna love u for u.. and only u.. and if she starts acting like a ***** towards u ..use her *** and dump her..man ..women like that ain't worth it This is a prime example of playing games. Ridiculous. some think they have it all under control and know so much.. oh wait wrong generation... 
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OK I have to chime in on this one...The door swings both ways when it comes to men and women. I have been played by "nice guys" for the last year. But I can tell you from experience that most women that are not in the military can not take the separation. And as for long distance relationships, there has to be a lot of trust between the two or they are doomed from the get go. Dating just sucks anymore these days because of the internet. It is hard to think that someone is true when they are half a country away from you...Just find you a nice young local woman and have fun while you are young. thank you and i will take your advice but see the only thing is she isnt a civillian she is in the marine corp too so she fully understands |
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i dont mean to generalize it into specific category's of men and women but as i said this isnt the first time this has happened to me maybe its just my dumb luck or what i dont know Or maybe you're picking the wrong gals... Sometimes we have "types" that we go for that can be to our detriment... Evaluate that and maybe change it up if you find that to be part of the problem... |
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thanks for the advice i will definitely take it into consideration
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i dont mean to generalize it into specific category's of men and women but as i said this isnt the first time this has happened to me maybe its just my dumb luck or what i dont know It's not dumb luck; only you control who you date and invite into your life. Don't repeat the same cycles; watch for red flags, and get to know someone a little more before you jump into anything. Stand strong alone first then you will attract like-minded people to you (both in friendships and in romance). |
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to goofball i know but i wanted to see what ppl would say bout my situation i have to say not bad results for my first topic Bah. Look, do what Goof does when he is at the club. You stroll up to a chick, look her deep in her eyes, and then you give her nod, all the while saying "So. Wanna Phuck?" She swoons, panties fall, wedding bells within a fortnight. Ok, I have no idea how long a fortnight is. It just sounded good. |
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