OK I have to chime in on this one...The door swings both ways when it comes to men and women. I have been played by "nice guys" for the last year. But I can tell you from experience that most women that are not in the military can not take the separation. And as for long distance relationships, there has to be a lot of trust between the two or they are doomed from the get go. Dating just sucks anymore these days because of the internet. It is hard to think that someone is true when they are half a country away from you...Just find you a nice young local woman and have fun while you are young.