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Topic: Would you date a person who was 10 years younger then you?
s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sun 12/05/10 04:05 AM
The older the berry the sweeter the juice!

lovingboater Joined Sat 02/06/10 Posts: 184	Tue 12/07/10 05:49 AM
Heartfelt... Right on... Intelligence and maturity... Those, to me, are that traits that can lead two people to happiness, regardless of the age of each. Both of those traits are not dependent on age, but rather, mental ability... With them, add love to the mix, and you truly can create that happiness... For me... 10 years... with those traits... not a problem...

flawlessmeans Joined Tue 12/29/09 Posts: 2019	Tue 12/07/10 10:54 AM
No I wouldnt though when I was younger I dated women twice my age, one of them was eaven older then that. Well I gues I didnt actually date them. Anyhow no, I think I'm more attracted to older womne or women my age just with a higher sence of maturity.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 12/07/10 11:39 AM
no offense, but my experience has been males mature emotionally MUCH slower than females so at my age of 41, emotional maturity would be a big issue for me that being said, IF someone was emotionally mature and otherwise compatible with me and AT least 30(my eldest child is 18 and thats the smallest age difference I would want him having to deal with), biological age would not be an issue

zebar Joined Sun 04/18/10 Posts: 10	Tue 12/07/10 12:59 PM
Go and enjoy yourself, age is not a problem and love is measured in many ways, but first you have enjoy each other company and the rest come later. I have no problems with age

OKCUTIE67 Joined Fri 04/02/10 Posts: 2118	Tue 12/07/10 01:08 PM
Have before but probably not again...that was my second marriage and the one that broke my heart the worst so I'm a little gun shy about them young ones now! Not saying I wouldn't date one, but would think long and hard before falling for anyone that much younger again! I "try" to learn from my mistakes!

TuTesoro Joined Thu 12/02/10 Posts: 591	Wed 12/08/10 09:50 AM
im in a relationship with a guy 10 yrs my junior right now. so yes, i definitly would!!

steviecashmere Joined Fri 03/26/10 Posts: 15	Wed 12/08/10 12:05 PM
There are many age-gap relationships that have are & will exist, and Good for Them! Just 1 of the top of my head, 8 years difference, 3 kids and celebrated their 21st anniversary last weekend ~Stevie

Tatilove Joined Fri 10/01/10 Posts: 243	Sat 01/22/11 07:27 AM
Would I date a twelve year old??? I don't think so haha! But I understand your case... I don't think it's an issue at all. Most men find it exciting being with a more mature or... experienced woman. As long as you're both legal, go for it.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sat 01/22/11 07:29 AM
Anyway, would you date someone 10 years younger then you are? 10 years up or down is really my limit. But, that's just my personal preference.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Sat 01/22/11 07:40 AM Edited by michiganman3 on Sat 01/22/11 07:41 AM
11 yrs younger!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh yeah. But she is quite mature yet still has all the spark and sassy. I would say "Hell No" to 11 yrs older than me though.

pmarco41 Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 2163	Sat 01/22/11 08:05 AM
my BF is almost 20 years younger than me...has its ups and downs..lately more downs...the age difference is more of a problem for him, his family and his friends and he is letting it affect our relationship, thats where emotional maturity/inmaturity can really be felt...so Im begining to wonder if it was such a good idea to begin with.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sat 01/22/11 08:09 AM
my BF is almost 20 years younger than me...has its ups and downs..lately more downs...the age difference is more of a problem for him, his family and his friends and he is letting it affect our relationship, thats where emotional maturity/inmaturity can really be felt...so Im begining to wonder if it was such a good idea to begin with. I briefly dated someone who was about 14 years younger than me. The difference was just too much. Mainly because he didn't get any of my movie/TV references. Sorry it's not going well right now.

pmarco41 Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 2163	Sat 01/22/11 08:14 AM
thanks Ruth...Im just taking it a day at a time...

DaveyB Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 18786	Sat 01/22/11 08:15 AM
I have my limits but 10 years is within them. Basically old enough so they couldn't have been my kid ... uh ewe.

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Sat 01/22/11 08:25 AM
I have my limits but 10 years is within them. Basically old enough so they couldn't have been my kid ... uh ewe. i can lie bout my age for u lol

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sat 01/22/11 08:26 AM
I have my limits but 10 years is within them. Basically old enough so they couldn't have been my kid ... uh ewe. (((Davey)))

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sat 01/22/11 08:27 AM
thanks Ruth...Im just taking it a day at a time... That's all you can do.

DaveyB Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 18786	Sat 01/22/11 08:52 AM
I have my limits but 10 years is within them. Basically old enough so they couldn't have been my kid ... uh ewe. i can lie bout my age for u lol I wasn't out having kids at 14 so no need to lie LOL

DaveyB Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 18786	Sat 01/22/11 08:53 AM
I have my limits but 10 years is within them. Basically old enough so they couldn't have been my kid ... uh ewe. (((Davey))) Big hugs for you ((((Ruth))))