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| Topic: Do you want to know WHY you're single? | |
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i'm single cuz i'm a butthead, so i already know why....
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Some of us are ok with being single and some of us are on a perpetual hunt for "the one". I think those of us who are ok with being single can continue on with our lives being ourselves, doing what we do and IF someone great comes along, we're ready. If you spend your whole life searching for someone you will continually fool yourself into thinking you MAY have found them, inevitably ending in heartbreak. You beat yourself up over and over again trying to figure out what went wrong. Eventually you become so jaded that you stop being yourself and start trying to be what you think they want you to be to prove you aren't going mad. And when they still don't want you, you convince yourself they are the ones who made you mad in the first place. Please people, be happy with who you are and someone, someday will come along to be happy with you. Very well said. 
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Great post myka..  And so very true..... |
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thank you so much....i appreciate your wonderful advice
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sat 09/11/10 06:09 AM
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seriously, yes, of course Myka. Agreed. The watched pot never boils...my gramma used to always say...
I kind of think of it as "she who waits...waits" "While she who lives has fun." Most of us who are long term singles are prolly that way for a reason that may or may not change. I can think of quite a few reasons. First off, I can't imagine having a "boss" in my personal life - nowthat rules out almost all men who are my age and older, eve nsome younger. So I am not eve nsure if age is a factor there as they usually start getting bossy once they think we're roped in 
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Some of us are ok with being single and some of us are on a perpetual hunt for "the one". I think those of us who are ok with being single can continue on with our lives being ourselves, doing what we do and IF someone great comes along, we're ready. If you spend your whole life searching for someone you will continually fool yourself into thinking you MAY have found them, inevitably ending in heartbreak. You beat yourself up over and over again trying to figure out what went wrong. Eventually you become so jaded that you stop being yourself and start trying to be what you think they want you to be to prove you aren't going mad. And when they still don't want you, you convince yourself they are the ones who made you mad in the first place. Please people, be happy with who you are and someone, someday will come along to be happy with you. very well writen. Most try to change for someone which just makes them more miserable in the long term. I know why I'm single and I know that someone will come along or maybe that person has but never said anything, so how was I suppose to know. Being single has the same perks as being with someone. It's really not all that bad. |
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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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