Topic: Do you want to know WHY you're single?
Duffy's photo
Thu 09/09/10 12:42 PM
single by choice..u having lunch with beavers?bigsmile

you_dont_know_me's photo
Thu 09/09/10 01:04 PM
i spend most my time with animals they are great and like ya no matter what

Duffy's photo
Thu 09/09/10 01:20 PM
ain't that the truth. so those r beavers or muskrats with long skinny tails?

flawlessmeans's photo
Thu 09/09/10 03:03 PM
No not realy though I think I understand why I am I am too buisy to face such harsh realities.

JamieRawxx's photo
Thu 09/09/10 03:30 PM
Single is and single does.

flawlessmeans's photo
Thu 09/09/10 06:00 PM
Yep! I dont mined being single for the moment. Though we all end up having a longing for a true and indepth relationship. That can allways come latter. "Maybie."

Loy822's photo
Thu 09/09/10 07:19 PM

i spend most my time with animals they are great and like ya no matter what


OK - I love animals too - but need a definitive answer - they look like prarie dogs, but I don't know if they have those that far North - what are they?

Totage's photo
Thu 09/09/10 07:33 PM


i spend most my time with animals they are great and like ya no matter what


OK - I love animals too - but need a definitive answer - they look like prarie dogs, but I don't know if they have those that far North - what are they?


They appear to be hood rats.

AllenAqua's photo
Thu 09/09/10 08:42 PM
I pretty much know why I'm single. I'm okay with it, and if anything changes, I'll be okay with that too. Either way, I win :smile:

msmyka's photo
Thu 09/09/10 08:43 PM

I pretty much know why I'm single. I'm okay with it, and if anything changes, I'll be okay with that too. Either way, I win :smile:


That's my point! Good job :thumbsup:

AllenAqua's photo
Thu 09/09/10 08:49 PM


I pretty much know why I'm single. I'm okay with it, and if anything changes, I'll be okay with that too. Either way, I win :smile:


That's my point! Good job :thumbsup:


It's an insight that wasn't always available to me. It took asking the BIG question...(what is it exactly that I sincerely want in life?)

After thoughtful introspection, the answer came back "to be happy", and then realizing that no one's stopping me happy



Dragoness's photo
Thu 09/09/10 09:00 PM
By choice at this point.

Came to this site with big hopes but found that I had some issues going on with trust and stuff so I have been working on me since then.

you_dont_know_me's photo
Thu 09/09/10 09:04 PM
Edited by you_dont_know_me on Thu 09/09/10 09:07 PM


i spend most my time with animals they are great and like ya no matter what


OK - I love animals too - but need a definitive answer - they look like prarie dogs, but I don't know if they have those that far North - what are they?


sorry they are nutrias i have feed familys of them for years they know and trust me well i have pics of an old sow bear i fed she is resting along the road same with deer and have a pic i took of a cougar she just looked at me and turned away like no big deal

Totage's photo
Thu 09/09/10 09:18 PM



i spend most my time with animals they are great and like ya no matter what


OK - I love animals too - but need a definitive answer - they look like prarie dogs, but I don't know if they have those that far North - what are they?


sorry they are nutrias i have feed familys of them for years they know and trust me well i have pics of an old sow bear i fed she is resting along the road same with deer and have a pic i took of a cougar she just looked at me and turned away like no big deal



I heard somewhere that a cougars paws smell sweet. I don't know. But, I would love to have a pet ocelot.

you_dont_know_me's photo
Thu 09/09/10 10:01 PM
ocelot is a beautiful animal none around here

Loy822's photo
Fri 09/10/10 12:22 PM
When I was really young I wanted an ocelot. Now all I have is my vicious guard dog

msmyka's photo
Fri 09/10/10 12:27 PM
Edited by msmyka on Fri 09/10/10 12:27 PM
Thanks for steering my thread to nomans land slaphead

flawlessmeans's photo
Fri 09/10/10 02:48 PM

Thanks for steering my thread to nomans land slaphead


Im single becuase I devorced my 1st wife and have chosen not to jump into another real relationship without a significant sence finanshail stabuility.

EquusDancer's photo
Fri 09/10/10 03:14 PM



i spend most my time with animals they are great and like ya no matter what


OK - I love animals too - but need a definitive answer - they look like prarie dogs, but I don't know if they have those that far North - what are they?


sorry they are nutrias i have feed familys of them for years they know and trust me well i have pics of an old sow bear i fed she is resting along the road same with deer and have a pic i took of a cougar she just looked at me and turned away like no big deal


We have nutria holes around one of the tanks. Unfortunately, they'd been abandoned a while before we moved in. Probably slaughtered by the local yokels around here in their ignorance.

EquusDancer's photo
Fri 09/10/10 03:28 PM
Single because I don't like ultimatums. Because I am happy doing things by myself. Aside from missing sex and cuddling, even that, I'm doing just fine without. surprised

I have no interest anymore in putting up with the whining I keep finding. I'm seeing my father regress into the state of a child of late. He won't go to the doctors, or even counseling and get it figured out. He's grouchy, and pissy, and just plain an *** to be around. I don't know how (or if, now) mom will put up with it for the next 20-30 years, and that's with me acting as a buffer, taking a lot of the brunt of his crap. :angry: