Just want to relax and not worry about trival **** for a change. I don't have anything.. but I've suffered enough. What I have to bring to the table is honest caring loving sincere deep emotional CANCER love... any takers.....

Just wanna say I'm sorry to hear about your cancer...my mom is also battling cancer and I wish you the best.

Wow, I have no idea what to say but I felt the need to say something...My mom had cancer and it was all very emotional for us...You deserve the best in everything and I hope you get it

I thought she was saying her love was cancerous.

God bless you honey. If it is that bad reach out for help. Sounds like you should....

Your profile screams 'issues'...just sayin'.

I thought Cinders meant she is the zodiac sign Cancer.

"What I have to bring to the table is honest caring loving sincere deep emotional CANCER love ..."

Like "... Leo love ..." etc.

Cinders, welcome to Mingle. I hope you find happiness where ever you are in life!

I thought the same thing Melody...

I'd like to add if you bring love and caring to the table then you have every right to expect the same in return but I'm hesitant to agree with the money part if that's how you meant it... I think both people should contribute to the cash part even if one has more I wouldn't want it completely skewed to one side..

I just read it...WOW

First thanks for the heartfelt responses... but I'm not suffering from Cancer.. but if I was you guys are great....
Oy the things people read into.. Some sweet human got it right.. CANCER is my birth sign. And no my love is NOT cancerous... LOL

Issues isn't the word... oh well sometimes shitty things happen to good people...

Your right.. it could be that way.. and I honestly wish I was able to renew my work. But I have been disable for over 20 years. 2 back surgeries 2 neck w BAK cages. And fybromyalgia. Although I get around and love to enjoy life.. I have my bad days. I love the outdoors etc. I can't be a bookeeper any more as I can't sit here for hours and I can't type for hours. But I love life and just want to get back to living again.. I'm working on me every day.. I dont need to be fixed.. just heard.. Later all

Cinder,

I just read your profile - wow, that sounds so very difficult. Are you staying because you rely on him financially?

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I am a cancer who is also a cancer survivor....

But also not rich....

To the op...I am so sorry for all the problems you are having. I hope you find what you are looking for. I have been turned away for many reasons by women, and one was because of my economic situation.

Just keep an open mind and open heart. Money can buy so many things but I am not so sure it will buy someone who was meant for you. Good luck...

I think you looking for basically the same thing we all are darlin...good luck to all of us

I don't care if he's

poor

rich

richer

I love hi

Cinders .. I read in your profile that you are in an 'abusive' relationship? Aside from SSI to help financially, there should be safe houses to help in any domestic violence situation. Have you looked for that?

And yes, you did tag the community here correctly .. people are very caring. I am concerned for you though, because anyone who shares that much pain and desperation in their profile, should not be looking for yet another relationship on a dating site, but a SAFE environment to live in. Even if you are referring more to emotional than physical abuse, it seems you might be setting yourself up for more harm by being the victim.

Just sayin

Hi, thanks for the deep insight. I already have found a place here that will take me for 60 days. They are booked up and I am waiting for a bed. So yes, I'm on the ball. And to anothers question, YES I depend on him totally because of this crap wtih SSI. It's very hard. I would of left years ago if I had the money to do so. He's been waiting around for MY money to come in to reap the bennifits. Sadly for all the wrong reasons. There's nothing wrong with wanting more out of life. I'm not a taker. I just rembmber something my mom said years ago... "You can fall in love with a rich man just as you can fall in love with a poor man." I think in my little girl thinking I felt she was being the gold digger, but in hindsite now I havd a 21 year old daughter and I understand what she meant. We don't hsve to suffer because we think we are worth less. We measure our worth by what we have to give. I give it all, I want it all. Bless you all and let's march on with good faith. I have been ready to leave this relationship for over 4 years but have no way out. He goes in spurts of abuse. Has not struck me physically in 1 year and 3 times before that. He threatens more often. I call the police every time. I won't stand and take it. So the part about me just being a victim is not valid, I'm ready open and willing to make this change NOW! Thanks for all your remarks, good and bad... Cindy Jean