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Topic: A question for the ladies...
AndyBgood's photo
Wed 07/21/10 03:42 PM
Now time and time again I see men looking for "Ladies" "Women" "Girls" and "Females."

Now I know there is a right way and a wrong way to approach things and people. But I have a singe question that just burns at me...


Do any of you ladies out there think it is demeaning for a man to refer to you as (in this way) "looking for females?"


It almost sounds like they are looking for animals, not people.


So what is your take on this hot topic ladies???


Is this yet another taste of how clueless men really are????

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 07/21/10 03:47 PM
It doesn't phase me one way or another





Just call me!!!! :heart:

leahshell's photo
Wed 07/21/10 04:03 PM
It really doesn't matter all that much what you call us as long as it isn't the b word. That being said, what a guy is searching for online says a lot about what he's really looking for. If he's looking for a woman, that's a good indication he seems to be looking for someone who he can respect or treat as an equal. If he's looking for a girl, maybe he really wants a girl or is looking for someone who is young at heart and thinks of himself in the same terms. If he's looking for a female, maybe that's all the criteria he has (if you know what I mean). This is just my theory, of course.

EquusDancer's photo
Wed 07/21/10 04:23 PM
I have less issues with "female" then "girls". With "girls" I'm left trying to figure out why they want underage children.

no photo
Wed 07/21/10 04:24 PM
I agree with you, it does sound like there looking for animals in a way, ladies or women just sounds more respectful in my opinion.

luv2roknroll's photo
Wed 07/21/10 04:26 PM
Edited by luv2roknroll on Wed 07/21/10 04:28 PM
I am a female, why would that insult me...

im also a
chick
girl
woman
ladie
female
ect......

eileena9's photo
Wed 07/21/10 04:30 PM
As long as they don't call me biatch.....only my friends call me that...or call me a certain garden tool....or that gross c_ _ _ word, I am fine with it.

delilady's photo
Wed 07/21/10 04:32 PM
It doesn't bother me? Do you have a problem with being called male?

soufiehere's photo
Wed 07/21/10 04:33 PM
If they can articulate any of those labels,
without grunting, I am a happy camper.

msharmony's photo
Wed 07/21/10 04:38 PM
Edited by msharmony on Wed 07/21/10 04:40 PM

Now time and time again I see men looking for "Ladies" "Women" "Girls" and "Females."

Now I know there is a right way and a wrong way to approach things and people. But I have a singe question that just burns at me...


Do any of you ladies out there think it is demeaning for a man to refer to you as (in this way) "looking for females?"


It almost sounds like they are looking for animals, not people.


So what is your take on this hot topic ladies???


Is this yet another taste of how clueless men really are????


it all comes down to context for me,, I know men who use the term WOMAN in a demeaning context and others mean it as a term of endearment

I think people give words alone too much meaning, without considering context...

a possible reason why some men use the term female is because woman implies a certain maturity that they may not be interested in, and girl limits their possibilities to someone fairly young , its sad when people cant use accurate adjectives (female and woman are the same thing , one is just more specific than the other),in a neutral and accurate context for fear of someone else being offended

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 07/21/10 05:01 PM
I am looking for an animal....a woman thats an animal in bed.


:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

msmyka's photo
Wed 07/21/10 05:03 PM

I am looking for an animal....a woman thats an animal in bed.


:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:



pitchfork

moonlight_ride62's photo
Wed 07/21/10 05:30 PM

If they can articulate any of those labels,
without grunting, I am a happy camper.







I like the way you think...drinker

msturne's photo
Wed 07/21/10 05:31 PM
I prefer to be called a woman or lady.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 07/21/10 05:33 PM
Welcome msturne!!!


Tammy:heart:

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/21/10 05:34 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Wed 07/21/10 05:34 PM
Any of those have to beat running around calling them 'b****** and hoes.'

koeiki's photo
Wed 07/21/10 05:46 PM

I am looking for an animal....a woman thats an animal in bed.


:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


rofl rofl rofl

i Do not mind if i'm called a female i am one after all, as long as they don't try the hole chick thing, i am not a baby chicken nor do i want to be thought as one. winking

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 07/21/10 05:56 PM


I am looking for an animal....a woman thats an animal in bed.


:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


rofl rofl rofl

i Do not mind if i'm called a female i am one after all, as long as they don't try the hole chick thing, i am not a baby chicken nor do i want to be thought as one. winking



My chick bad....my chick hood.


LOL!!!!

no photo
Wed 07/21/10 06:00 PM
my chick do stuff that yo chick wish she could.

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 07/21/10 06:01 PM

my chick do stuff that yo chick wish she could.


Fooooo shizzle!!

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