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Topic: what's the rush?
PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/15/10 10:10 PM
Because I've tried cooking & have failed miserably laugh

MelodyGirl's photo
Thu 07/15/10 10:14 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Thu 07/15/10 10:15 PM

**** everyone wants a child at one point in their life so here it is... Well, Honestly because us guys "want" a boy to carry our legacy, our name, our stature. I feel that ladies want a more sentamental approach having something that has grown with them for nine months. I think that they want a bond that they could never create from any guy. (which is utterly true) So I hope I put it to rest. It is just my personal opinion.


*eww* surprised Not everyone wants a child. Don't use absolute statements. slaphead

I don't want anything growing inside me! scared

I don't even what other people's children. noway

bedlum1's photo
Thu 07/15/10 10:21 PM
in the end there can only be one!

Pisces02's photo
Fri 07/16/10 01:57 AM
my opinion is media makes everything with a love effect to it... they make things seem like if your not living your not loving... so some people see that and they see there friends with familys and they have their friends and family tryin to hook them up on blind dates and so its like wth. it can even be from child hood, roots of rejection always having to feel accepted because there was so much rejection as a child having everything and some is never enough... but thats another subject. instant gratification...cultural diversity maybe? idk... i think theres several different reasons why people want it and want it now whatever the want is. there is no one answer to the question because everyone has a different story.

JustaSimpleMan56's photo
Fri 07/16/10 02:10 AM
I'm in a hurry to find a mate because the store where I buy my blow up dolls keeps raising the price on themfrustrated Getting too expensive

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 07/16/10 06:45 AM

I imagine it's because modern people want everything in a hurry. We want our food fast, our banking without talking to anyone, we all drive as fast as we think we won't get pulled for (not the limit), and 24 hour groceries . We've just become a have it "now" society.

So, our patience has worn thin in the area of dating too. Does anyone have 2-3 year courtships anymore? I'm not saying it's bad, I'm not saying it's good, it just has become how the fabric of our society is. Besides, no one stays married for 60+ years anymore. If we find we make a mistake, we get a quicky divorce and are right back out looking for the next one. Quick ins, quick outs, it's just part of our nature now.


That about sums it up.

mbcasey's photo
Fri 07/16/10 08:11 AM
Getting old....want to use what's left of this model before the parts go bad.....:smile:

no photo
Fri 07/16/10 08:14 AM
Some people can't seem to be happy on their own. They don't like to be alone. It seems that the ones who are in a hurry are the ones who settle for someone who is ok enough for now.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 07/16/10 08:17 AM

Some people can't seem to be happy on their own. They don't like to be alone. It seems that the ones who are in a hurry are the ones who settle for someone who is ok enough for now.


This is also true for many. I would much rather be alone than with Mr. Not Right.

no photo
Fri 07/16/10 08:17 AM

I imagine it's because modern people want everything in a hurry. We want our food fast, our banking without talking to anyone, we all drive as fast as we think we won't get pulled for (not the limit), and 24 hour groceries . We've just become a have it "now" society.

So, our patience has worn thin in the area of dating too. Does anyone have 2-3 year courtships anymore? I'm not saying it's bad, I'm not saying it's good, it just has become how the fabric of our society is. Besides, no one stays married for 60+ years anymore. If we find we make a mistake, we get a quicky divorce and are right back out looking for the next one. Quick ins, quick outs, it's just part of our nature now.


I'm glad I'm not like that.

no photo
Fri 07/16/10 08:57 AM

**** everyone wants a child at one point in their life so here it is...


Not everyone. I sure as hell don't.


Well, Honestly because us guys "want" a boy to carry our legacy, our name, our stature.


Again, not all guys. I have absolutely no desire whatsoever to reproduce.





Beachfarmer's photo
Fri 07/16/10 08:57 AM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Fri 07/16/10 08:58 AM
taxes

Seakolony's photo
Fri 07/16/10 09:11 AM
horny

rockernurse's photo
Fri 07/16/10 09:31 AM

I imagine it's because modern people want everything in a hurry. We want our food fast, our banking without talking to anyone, we all drive as fast as we think we won't get pulled for (not the limit), and 24 hour groceries . We've just become a have it "now" society.

So, our patience has worn thin in the area of dating too. Does anyone have 2-3 year courtships anymore? I'm not saying it's bad, I'm not saying it's good, it just has become how the fabric of our society is. Besides, no one stays married for 60+ years anymore. If we find we make a mistake, we get a quicky divorce and are right back out looking for the next one. Quick ins, quick outs, it's just part of our nature now.


Im glad i am not like this..thats why i have been divorced /single x 19 years....

why in rush? because people want to get
1. green cards
2. sugar daddy
3. money
4. have babies
5. have someone be there caretaker
6. cultural expectations
7. people are tired to being asked...how come you are still single?
8. some people are scared of being and living alone


have a great friday everyone




Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 07/16/10 12:27 PM
After 10 years alone..I hardly feel as though I've been "rushing" into anything...

irisheyes79's photo
Fri 07/16/10 03:42 PM


I imagine it's because modern people want everything in a hurry. We want our food fast, our banking without talking to anyone, we all drive as fast as we think we won't get pulled for (not the limit), and 24 hour groceries . We've just become a have it "now" society.

So, our patience has worn thin in the area of dating too. Does anyone have 2-3 year courtships anymore? I'm not saying it's bad, I'm not saying it's good, it just has become how the fabric of our society is. Besides, no one stays married for 60+ years anymore. If we find we make a mistake, we get a quicky divorce and are right back out looking for the next one. Quick ins, quick outs, it's just part of our nature now.


Im glad i am not like this..thats why i have been divorced /single x 19 years....

why in rush? because people want to get
1. green cards
2. sugar daddy
3. money
4. have babies
5. have someone be there caretaker
6. cultural expectations
7. people are tired to being asked...how come you are still single?
8. some people are scared of being and living alone


have a great friday everyone




so true

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