I was just wondering. Is it empowering to be thought of as a sex object to most men, or does it get old. I know a lot of you ladies on here get random emails asking to see your chest, butt, the entire show. Personally if every time I checked a message and 85% of the time it was some perverted old man talking about wanting you to wear a strap-on and ride him like a circus pony like his grandpa did back in 1948. I would get disgusted quickly and begin to see the world as nothing, but mindless flesh trying to procure some sick fetish that would make the Amityville house hurl. I would become seriously depressed.
I know most of you laugh it off, but doesn't leave a bad taste in your mouth about humanity or men in general, stereotyping us all as wanting one thing?

Doesn't happen to me.....except for emails like that from TheCaptain, but they are replies to my requests for him to send me pics..

I may be terribly mistaken then.

If there's some connection it can be fun (the sex object thing) but just some random same old, same old..yeah, it gets old.

I hear about these pictures..honestly I've never had anyone ask me for any and I've never offered any. I know some that do..

Dude! Did you get an email from that old pervert too? Creepy I tell ya............

Guys don't ask me for them because I have on my profile that I am taken, which is true and also because I'm not a Barbie or as young and cute as I used to be.

But yes, if it did, it would get old FAST!!

Yes I did and I will never look at a tricycle and Nazi uniform the same again...

its discouraging when it happens, but I dont think all men are the same, more likely that I just sometimes attract those who are pervs,

I have stopped giving out my messenger ID though, for some reason the ones who START talking to me here,,turn into COMPLETE sexual desperados once they are able to instant message me. I just see it as a sign of immaturity and move on,,,

This is to let the women know, that I don't do nude pictures either. I know, I know. It makes some of you Which I am truly sorry about. But. The last time a woman wanted to see a picture of my Dinky, I had to sprinkle him with pepper in order to make him sneeze, and be big enough to photograph. Poor thing. Kept sneezing all day. Wont put Dinky through that again. I do have a heart

Doesn't bother me 'cause I'm the one in control of the situation. If I don't like where the conversation is heading -- disconnect and block! Men are wonderful creatures, unfortunately, there are still some Neanderthals wandering the earth.

probably the odd Cromagnon too.

I am soooo tired of it I want to vomit


I am so much more than a face-eyes-boobs

it was nice when I was young- it opened a hell of alot of doors for me

but you grow older and smarter- ya know all that crap slowly fades and it means and meant nothing in the scheme of things


The pic thing? Not against it. Will do it with the right man. I have a great collection of hot men as a matter of fact. Lol

I literally get sick to my stomach of the sexual objectification of women and people in general.

For example, when walking down the street you observe a guy's head turning around like an owl to stare down a women. You know that he isn't twisting his neck to see what books she is carrying.

Now granted just about everyone is guilt of objectification... it's human nature. And when it is done in a playful nature within a mutal respective relationship, okay. But when a complete strangers eyes bug out why someone walking by... it makes my skin crawl.

I don't find it empowering and used to find insulting. Now, when I guy does that; I just laugh it off and ignore him. Can't let these guys get to you.

I don’t find it empowering regardless if a guy compliments me or acts like a perverted azzz. I thank the sincere compliments and delete the inappropriate comments; however, I don’t seem those actions as validation.

I feel empowered when a person recognizes me for my intelligence and accomplishments.

It gets old when guys ask for nude pix or if I want to call him for phone sex. I'm not jaded though. A few perverted apples don't ruin the whole tree. They just fall off and rot on the ground.

I don't mind it. I can usually figure it out when they ask for pics or want to "chat" right away and I just make it clear to them that that's not what I'm looking for. I can't blame them for trying.

I recently posted a thread about what a girl doesn't want and one of the things on my list was guys messaging me just to say how fine I am or how big my butt is. I don't find it flattering at all and I never respond.

My ex used to love to slap my *** and it really pissed me off . He thought that because we were dating he was entitled to touch me anytime and anywhere. I did not agree. I told him that it was still my body and he was only allowed to do to it what I gave him permission to. We argued a lot about that. He never got it.

Don't get me wrong I love to cuddle and kiss but there is a big difference between showing affection and groping.

Generally it's not what you say, it's how you say it .

I dunno, I guess I still find it odd. Don't take me wrong a woman's body is beautiful. The curves the delicate imperfections that make you different from the other. Maybe I just see things differently than most. Which would explain why people often look at me like I have a giant green monster for a head or something.


Too me the landscape could be gorgeous, but that's just a canvas. I personally feel if I was to say " hey nice titz" that it would be like squirting ketchup on a original work. completely destroying the true allurement that captivated me enough to approach you to begin with.

Then again the more I see of the world. The more I see that I may be in so many ways wrong.

I usually don't get emails like that. Maybe my feistyness shows in my profile and they can just tell they aren't going to get anywhere with that angle. I do sometimes get "Hey sexy" or "you're hot" but RARELY do I just get straight up perverted emails.

Lucky me I just get emails from India seeking my "friendship"