WE ARE PLOTTING POOL BOY DOMINATION

yanno I do have boots kinda like that....

Hahaha, your comments are so funny....


I was just about to ask you which one you are, but since you already have the boots you can be her...lol

ya the guy is the pool boy....u can have him tho - part of the plot - heh heh

Im really starting to feel like a ....


the only men I get are the ones I download, copy and paste....that is not tangible enough for me!

DAMN IMGS......going for a cig, brb

(it was a pic of a cat-cougar)

now wose comments are funny

ya it's pretty depressing as I can pretty much say the same thing

nice thing about them tho is that they don't expect breakfast in bed....

because I don't post humorous responses to serious questions.

Because the longer I make it alone, the less motivation I have to 'settle' for less than what I really want in a partner,,,,

Because I made a decision to stop dating permanently about 7 or 8 months ago for personal reasons.

I'm sure you have found some of what you are looking for in relationships. We often think we decide how a relationship will be, but relationships are organic creatures that have a mind of their own.

Sorry if im a bit nosy. I've read many of your posts and I always like what you have to say. I was a bit touched by your thread. Don't give up.

I am not in a relationship for the same reason I don't have pets. I work too much right now to give either the time and attention they deserve. I am on a self imposed dating hiatus

It was by choice. After the divorce, I moved back to the States and was busy trying to get back on the work force after being absent for 10 years, nearly 50 and dealing with the high unemployment rate.

Also, I had three children to help adjust to, not only the divorce, but leaving the friends they grew up with and the HUGE culture shock. The elder had anger issues and got into a little trouble; the middle girl was in a depression for two years and I had to deal with the emotional regression of my youngest, who is autistic. They were my main priority.

Now the two eldest are grown and on their own; the youngest has adjusted well. So I finally have a little space to start a social life again. But I haven't dated for a few decades, so I'm looking for friends to start out with and I'm taking it slow.

Because I am ADD (not ADHD) and unmedicated. It took me decades to realize it because as a child ADD was unheard of. The symptoms as an adult are much more complex than during childhood, yet those with strong will and higher intellect find ways to mask it during childhood so it goes unrecognized even when others know something is off.

Also because I can be a bit too trusting. I want to see the good in people, but because others do not understand my situation, I usually encounter the bad instead.

And in further admission...

I find a strong attraction to Msharmony. The more I read her posts, the more I like her, both from similarity and from opposing ideas. On our disagreements, I find that we can discuss them rationally while acknowledging points one of us may not have considered previously. It's really too bad that she lives 2500 miles away. If nothing else, I think we could become good friends in person.

There....I said it.

I have an aversion to LDRs right now, but I invited her as my friend here because she has earned my respect with her viewpoints and how she discusses them. She shows compassion, willingness to adapt, but also defends her beliefs. She has an understated strength that many lack. I find it very appealing.

I think more and more as I read the forums; I am glad to be single. It seems like there are just too many demands on being in a relationship. Guess I am too laid back to make demands or to give in to demands. Relationships should be simple and flowing but society has made it difficult to be just who you are. I don't mind compromise but it would seem compromise has turned into control. I have never beleived in treating a partner like a child but I see it all the time with people having to know where their partner is every minute of the day; making sure they call, making restrictions of how often they can go out, making their partners go to things they hate, etc. Way too much crap for me. Would rather be single than be controled.

Hey navygirl your invited

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/305872

Im still trying to find a suitable husband. He must be faithfull and loyal,intellegint.fit,mentaly healthy and emotioly mature and want a lifetime partner.iwill keep looking till ifind the right one.

ill take ya and get to know ya

I would have to say that I am single because i haven't found someone worth spending my life with yet.

Because I'm a fool for love, the women I've dated took advantage of that. Seriously, are there any good and honest people left out there?