Remember just because a woman is not interested in you does not mean your a bad person or anything is wrong with you.. It just means she isn't the one for you.

Don't think a woman is shy
-women if they like you will overcome this shyness and ask you out. If she doesn't ask you out, and she knows your single - she's not interested.

she does not call
she did not lose your number, she's not busy, because if someone likes you they'll find time. And if she don't call you, don't continue to call her cause she knows how to get a hold of you.

she does call but shows up late and drunk This is a booty call guys - the only reason she's calling is because she's drunk, horny and struck out at the bar. Don't fool yourself thinking she likes you..., if she did she would have called you sober and asked you out for a date.

she ask you out on a date and doesen't engage in conversation. Note: men talk as much as women. When a man is interested in you, they will share information about himself, and will ask you questions about "your life."

Not interested - she talks about other men.
Not interested - she flirts with other men in front of you.
Or she's thinking about going to a game with her brother next week, which means ((just about anything is more important than you))!!!
she thinks of you like a brother, or says she doesn't want to ruin your friendship. No woman really worries about ruining a friend ship if she really likes you.

she cancels plans at the last minute and doesen't show up - something "better came up - came alone."" Her friends just called and she would rather stay home - she's saying YOUR NOT IMPORTANT TO her!!!!!
she lets you PAY FOR EVERYTHING!!! - Don't ever think she appreciates it - SHE'S USING YOU....

Just a few tips guys

You believe all this to be the truth?

I've learned...I know nothing!

THIS serves me well!

This is the only statement that has any truth for males or females. The rest is just bunk.

Unfortunately it's not. I'm sure this doesn't fit all women but more and more women have turned the tables with misplaced revenge, or switched teams alotgether (gone bi-les). I'm sure there are good women left, somewhere...

a venting day

You really don't like women, do you? I hope your outlook will change

I can honestly say most if not all of this is truth. Not all women are like this but a fair majority. A friend once made a profound but true statement "married is nothing more than legalized prostitution" most women will only put out when they want something. The old adage use to be "it's cheaper to keep her" no longer applies and should be replaced with "it's cheaper to borrow her"

no not the case just distrustful as ive been hurt way too many times n its normal to vent

Really? Then I must be doing something wrong

Btw, I am shy...extremely shy so that one is not true for me

wasnt nec meant to be taken seriously this post more or less a venting day thing. but its how i feel sometimes and it made me feel to finally write what i felt

i dont agree with all your sayings lol

WOW rough weekend! Quite a rant my friend!

While some of what you say is true (and works the other way too man to woman as well as woman to man - esp the part about calling). Though keep in mind, particularly if you are one of these younger men who prefers older women, we don't ask you out because we were raised to believe that nice girls don't do that. And in many social circles that is still a prevailiang belief EVEN if people say otherwise.

So if a woman - especially older - doesn't ask you out, but keeps chatting u up she is definitely interested, but is waiting for you to man up....basically


As a personal aside, I still prefer that a man do the asking at first. After we've known each other for awhile - that's different

Soooo....if a woman shows me her breasts, jumps on top of me, rips my shirt off and begins to do animal things to me......are these good signs she likes me? I mean...a little bit??

feel sorry for the gal on ur right arm there...unless it's ur sister

when I was in school, guys would use that marriage as legalised prostitution bit to try to talk us into having sex with them. I pretty much know all the guy sex logic at this point.

it never worked BTW

i didnt expect most would agree

that would be a yes - u can ask her out