so my ex picks up are daughter for his visit on fathers-day. hes only to have her for a week each month and every year he gets fathers day weekend then bring her home. he has had her all month in June i had only seen her for about 5 days he still has her its almost July i been trying to contacted my lawyer to day i when right to her office and said i need to see her now managed to talk with her and she tells me i am looking at 6 month to a year to get in to court and its the only way to in force the court order i just want my baby girl back home and theres nothing i can do why cant the RCMP (the police) just make him bring her home i have custody and he has visitation. what good is a court order if you still have to go back to court when the other parent is taking the child away from the legal gardening...

its so hart breaking to put a 4 year old through this what if he leaves the Provence or country with her

mommy miss you baby girl:(

Just go and get her if you know where he lives...

a court order is a court order, so you have legal options

but on a humane level, if you miss her so much even though you get to see her 40 out of the 52 weeks in a year, imagine how her father might feel only seeing her 12....although I understand your anguish,, and maybe he is a jerk who wants to hurt you, I dont know

but maybe he is also a loving father who is just missing and wanting more time with his daughter,,,,I wish my daughter had one of those,,,

he has other holidays with here and i do offer him extra time with her when its one of his other kids birthdays and if they have some thing going on they would like to have her for but its like hes taking it to far the more i give the more he takes. i get that he "loves" her loves her enough to beat us and hurt use for the first 6 months of her life i had to leave him or we would have been hurt bad maybe even killed i dont know what he might have done i pressed charges on him when she was 6 moths he pleaded guilty in court he had a 500$ fine and i got my restring order for one year he had to be supervised while with are daughter. i am not brining it up to make him sound bad , just to give you a little more information on the whole thing whit him

no no - if there's a court order already, and you have custody he is abducting the child - go to the justice of the peace and demand something be done

EXACTLY!! and why on earth havent you even gone over there
i would had in a heart beat.

Agree. If you have a court order then you have rights. Personally I would be beating his door down.

Has he made contact with you at all?

An emergency order does take about six months to get all aprties in court.....is there a reason his time has been minimized?

now that truly sucks

just think when my ex hubby and i were spliting up
he threated to take our son..... and if he had i probably wouldnt had seen my son in who knows how long...

For some reason I get the feeling there is more going on here than meets the eye...

Child custody is a very touchy subject, soooo many emotions - so many angles, soooooo many variables...

I am sorry this is happening in your life... I hope the child is being taken care of...

Far too often, the child suffers for the adults behavior... I hope this is not true in this case...

Good luck to you!

$.02

This is truely a sad sad story and I am very sorry to hear about this. It breaks my heart to hear these stories. I wish there were none but there are..

My advice is to go get your daughter from his place I would call the cops and show them your court papers if he refuses to give you your baby. Take some action hunn.

My thoughts and prayers are with you with this horrible situation you have been given to deal with.

Read this like 100 x

somthing not quite right here





Sorry

I know what family court is all about.My son now is 13.Ive been going in and out of court since he was 2.If you have a court order in place then the RCMP can do something about it because a breach of any court order is classified as a crinimal offence.Keep your head up.you will get your lil one back again.

Amy.....my heart goes out to you.

Are your parents about?...Can they help you with the legal process and also with children's services?

Is your little girl in any type of risk by being with her dad?

The suggestion of going and visiting her at her dad's house is a good one....if there is no history of violence between you both.


Family services are where you need to go, at this stage...for support of both you, and your little one.

I am not sure how big your town is or where the nearest major centre is....but do seek other assistance from another department...I don't know what can be done by the RCMP...at this stage if your child is not at risk.

live with it. aint going to hurt your daughter as you two fighting over her.

the way i see it,she is lucky. i havn't seen my daughter in 25 years, she has been alienated by a mother that is a leach. never done anything for anybody in her entire life.

Hard to respond not knowing your relationship with your ex.

It just strikes me a little weird

this is happening in her life

and she finds the time to hang out on a dating site!


Makes me feel funny. Sorry. Jmo

I agree and think that also

While my heart goes out to any parent that is going through this, my heart goes out more to the child. You don't say if your other child is there also or is this child withdrawn not only from you but her sibling.
Also if you have a court order visitation in Canada as well as here, You need to get the paperwork in order and the "WILL" enforce it and to my knowledge it doesn't take any 6 months to a year. You don't have to go to court again you already have the paperwork done.

IF the paperwork names you as the custodial parent, then they have no choice but to enforce the court order.

I also have to agree I think there is way more to the story that is what portrayed here.

I also notice the OP hasn't come back in for along long time.