Topic: Have you ever been a jerk?
msharmony's photo
Tue 06/29/10 03:06 PM
never told anyone I would be somewhere and just 'skipped' out

If I ever had to miss a connection, I have always called and given them notice and an explanation

irisheyes79's photo
Tue 06/29/10 03:33 PM
sad

rara777's photo
Wed 06/30/10 07:55 AM

Have you ever promised someone you would show up for a date and skipped out on it?


No. If I`m not able to make it, I would call her and explain why I could not make it that evening, and ask to please reschedule our date for some other time.


But it did happened to me a few times back in the day.

Rondoobie's photo
Wed 06/30/10 08:34 AM
This is sad but true, I've never really dated at all, always seem to go straight to living with guys. I love to be held at night and I'm such a giver that once they come to my place they never go home and the next thing I know all of their stuff is here. Then they tell me a few years down the road that they just can't give as much back to me so it's unfair for them to stay. You don't know how many times I've heard that I'm the perfect girl... for somebody else.
No, I've never skipped out on a date.

irisheyes79's photo
Wed 06/30/10 02:21 PM
i am everyday

MiVidaLoca's photo
Wed 06/30/10 02:27 PM
Yep, a very long time ago I stood one girl up to see another and that girl stood me up , you could say Karma was vicious and swift lesson learnt.sad2

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 06/30/10 02:40 PM

Yep, a very long time ago I stood one girl up to see another and that girl stood me up , you could say Karma was vicious and swift lesson learnt.sad2



wow. that was a fast one eh? noway

MiVidaLoca's photo
Wed 06/30/10 02:45 PM


Yep, a very long time ago I stood one girl up to see another and that girl stood me up , you could say Karma was vicious and swift lesson learnt.sad2



wow. that was a fast one eh? noway




Like lightning !shocked

Thorb's photo
Wed 06/30/10 06:57 PM
I've never met anyone that at one time or another wasn't a jerk to someone else.

Monier's photo
Wed 06/30/10 08:04 PM

Have you ever promised someone you would show up for a date and skipped out on it?



I've never done that but I do enjoy being a Jerk sometimes...........

irisheyes79's photo
Thu 07/01/10 02:18 PM
pitchfork bigsmile

thayet153's photo
Thu 07/01/10 02:22 PM
I can't say I have skipped out of a date. Or if I ended up not going out on a date with someone, it's usually for a good reason, like I was sick or something came up, like being called into work last minute, oooor a friend called me up in tears and in need of me. Most often, even if I didn't want to go, I'd end up going on a date, buuuuuut I haven't been on a date in a while, so yeah.

dconexion's photo
Thu 07/01/10 03:56 PM
Edited by dconexion on Thu 07/01/10 04:17 PM

Exactly Fade. So the answer would be yes, and no, respectively.

Like today I was a jerk when my neighbor was blasting his music so loud that I used the remote to honk the horn on my car in the driveway next to their house until they turned it down. Kind of a jerk move, I admit.



You're a trail blazer, thanks for your candor...

I once lived above this noisy cultural center, the users had no respect for the people around them they just kept shouting all the time, and these were the adults. On a national holiday they had invaded the alley, and since we couldnt hear ourselves, I decided to give them a taste of their poison. I blasted Live at Leeds, the noise stopped. and that was it, but I felt so stupid and little after doing that, that I realized they have no clue or they would feel stupid too...unless they just dont care, which is sad.

dconexion's photo
Fri 07/23/10 05:43 PM
would someone report my previous post please, it has nothing to do with romantic relationships


cheers

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 07/23/10 05:44 PM
No

I would never do that to anyone!!!:heart:

msharmony's photo
Fri 07/23/10 05:51 PM

Have you ever promised someone you would show up for a date and skipped out on it?



I want that puppy,,,,,oh my goodness how cute,,,!!!

dconexion's photo
Fri 07/23/10 06:44 PM

This is sad but true, I've never really dated at all, always seem to go straight to living with guys. I love to be held at night and I'm such a giver that once they come to my place they never go home and the next thing I know all of their stuff is here. Then they tell me a few years down the road that they just can't give as much back to me so it's unfair for them to stay. You don't know how many times I've heard that I'm the perfect girl... for somebody else.
No, I've never skipped out on a date.
If I may ask timidly...what is it they can't give back to you ?
I ask because there is something I have trouble finding in relationships, so just curious.

cheers

chelsea466's photo
Fri 07/23/10 07:02 PM
When I was in highschool me and my girlfriend would always tell this guy we didn't like we would tell him to meet us at the local park and never would. I still to this day feel bad about what we did.

frown

you_dont_know_me's photo
Sun 07/25/10 09:23 AM
topic of being a jerk hell yes i have still am

but the skipping out no

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 07/25/10 09:51 AM
Being a jerk in general. Yes - and since I tend to research the reason I'm about to be a b!tch, then I don't regret it.

Standing someone up, no, though I did wrap it up fairly quickly, so I still was probably a jerk in that case. (Lack of front teeth are a major icky turnoff!)