Topic: are men like women?
RainbowTrout's photo
Thu 07/15/10 01:08 PM

more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?


For me it is that way. The realization too a long time, though. Gynephobia or Gynophobia is the fear of women; Arrhenphobiais is the fear of men. http://phobialist.com/

Winston Churchill said, "All we have to fear is fear itself". Do you agree with that statement?:smile:

I guess I have had Gynophobia for a long time but was just to afraid to admit it to myself.:smile:

irisheyes79's photo
Thu 07/15/10 02:58 PM
no atleast im not

dconexion's photo
Sat 07/17/10 03:33 PM
Edited by dconexion on Sat 07/17/10 03:36 PM
Women have become what men were for ages.

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Sat 07/17/10 04:03 PM


more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?


For me it is that way. The realization too a long time, though. Gynephobia or Gynophobia is the fear of women; Arrhenphobiais is the fear of men. http://phobialist.com/

Winston Churchill said, "All we have to fear is fear itself". Do you agree with that statement?:smile:

I guess I have had Gynophobia for a long time but was just to afraid to admit it to myself.:smile:
I have been both for a long time. I think it's important to consider people who have a strong sense of their individuality vs those who seek comfort and approval in the direct collective. In the later, categories and hierarchy are important for the person to evaluate their self worth, if they are like the others then they are ok But wait, men and women dont look or act alike...I guess that means we're different in appearance at least, so let's add an extra category...which category are you in.

My point, men and women are as alike as they WISH to be...it's up to us to chose how many more enforced differences we want.

irisheyes79's photo
Sat 07/17/10 04:30 PM



more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?


For me it is that way. The realization too a long time, though. Gynephobia or Gynophobia is the fear of women; Arrhenphobiais is the fear of men. http://phobialist.com/

Winston Churchill said, "All we have to fear is fear itself". Do you agree with that statement?:smile:

I guess I have had Gynophobia for a long time but was just to afraid to admit it to myself.:smile:
I have been both for a long time. I think it's important to consider people who have a strong sense of their individuality vs those who seek comfort and approval in the direct collective. In the later, categories and hierarchy are important for the person to evaluate their self worth, if they are like the others then they are ok But wait, men and women dont look or act alike...I guess that means we're different in appearance at least, so let's add an extra category...which category are you in.

My point, men and women are as alike as they WISH to be...it's up to us to chose how many more enforced differences we want.
:wink:

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Sat 07/17/10 04:34 PM

Which did you think.happy I'm ready for the debate. But it's the Stones maybe their last tour. and the beach is open seven days a week.
if at all possilbe, you prolly should have checked with her B4 purchasing the tickets since u had other plans

in the real world it would depend on what ur girlfriend is like.

The situation u described would have hurt my feelings & I'd have (hypothetically) seen it as selfish because I do not care for concerts usually, and I prefer activites that are 1 on 1, private & more intimate....it might also depend on how long we'd been together

early in a relationship - I'd take that as a sign that you might be a little self centered - just being honest JMHO - cuz it really would depend on the actual girl you r withlaugh
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just my opinion and there are a lot of IFs because I am not actually the girl u r dealing with in the situation & a lot depends on details you did not mentionflowerforyou

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Sat 07/17/10 04:35 PM

Women have become what men were for ages.
interesting

but not sure I agree

as I do not think men & women are much different beyond a few obvious basics...:heart:

dconexion's photo
Sat 07/17/10 04:54 PM
Edited by dconexion on Sat 07/17/10 04:55 PM


Women have become what men were for ages.
interesting

but not sure I agree

as I do not think men & women are much different beyond a few obvious basics...:heart:
And then there is the idea that we become more like one another(when exposed) with time.

I don't believe in the content proposed to resolve this issue...without logic, inspiration and the time to think we have no tools and keep pow powing around the same point.

I've always wanted to be closer to women than men, not gay or anything unusual, and I am learning this macho crap now because I can't cope with the incredible amount of brutal people (male and female) and it's kind of like learning to get out of the way of cars. Most people are like wounded animals, hence they are dangerous. We live in a violent(all types) world where control, intimidation and psychological abuse are the norm.I know yes yes I'm a dreamer and I'm just waking up, sorry if this sounds like leftovers and you already know this but it is my big realisation of the year....daaa stop thinking most people are nice and want what's best for others...am I doing my therapy out here again ? oops sorry

Just trying to take some weight away from their ''arguments''about love by showing the man woman thing in as many lights as possible. It is a rich and enthralling experience that we enjoy together...anyway for me it is and it's unicity is worth cherishing. I BELIEVEspock (or something like that)

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Sat 07/17/10 05:01 PM

more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?


We know you womens like macho, that's why we do it. :wink:

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Sat 07/17/10 05:16 PM



Women have become what men were for ages.
interesting

but not sure I agree

as I do not think men & women are much different beyond a few obvious basics...:heart:
And then there is the idea that we become more like one another(when exposed) with time.

I don't believe in the content proposed to resolve this issue...without logic, inspiration and the time to think we have no tools and keep pow powing around the same point.

I've always wanted to be closer to women than men, not gay or anything unusual, and I am learning this macho crap now because I can't cope with the incredible amount of brutal people (male and female) and it's kind of like learning to get out of the way of cars. Most people are like wounded animals, hence they are dangerous. We live in a violent(all types) world where control, intimidation and psychological abuse are the norm.I know yes yes I'm a dreamer and I'm just waking up, sorry if this sounds like leftovers and you already know this but it is my big realisation of the year....daaa stop thinking most people are nice and want what's best for others...am I doing my therapy out here again ? oops sorry

Just trying to take some weight away from their ''arguments''about love by showing the man woman thing in as many lights as possible. It is a rich and enthralling experience that we enjoy together...anyway for me it is and it's unicity is worth cherishing. I BELIEVEspock (or something like that)


well, I think my view of people is more optomistic than yours, considerably, but I also revel in the differences as well as the similariites between men and women. And, yes it is a topic that could go on forever with many possible facets

Both are capable of great love, compassion, and understanding
Both feel hurt and pain when wronged by a friend or lover
both are excited by the "dance":banana:

these last ^ are the important things, to me anyway


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Sat 07/17/10 05:29 PM

Winston Churchill said, "All we have to fear is fear itself". Do you agree with that statement?:smile:


No, because, as i recall, it was FDR!

shades



Wulfenstraat's photo
Sat 07/31/10 09:14 PM


Winston Churchill said, "All we have to fear is fear itself". Do you agree with that statement?:smile:


No, because, as i recall, it was FDR!

shades





Are men like women? No

ValentinaSS's photo
Sat 07/31/10 10:49 PM
Edited by ValentinaSS on Sat 07/31/10 10:51 PM
i am...more than man...more than woman. more human than human,,,,such is my plight,,,tis very lonely, indeed

bedlum1's photo
Sat 07/31/10 10:57 PM
sure ....men are like women....if you cut the penis off, give breast implants, and give them pay cuts..:tongue:

buttons's photo
Sat 07/31/10 11:34 PM



more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?


For me it is that way. The realization too a long time, though. Gynephobia or Gynophobia is the fear of women; Arrhenphobiais is the fear of men. http://phobialist.com/

Winston Churchill said, "All we have to fear is fear itself". Do you agree with that statement?:smile:

I guess I have had Gynophobia for a long time but was just to afraid to admit it to myself.:smile:
I have been both for a long time. I think it's important to consider people who have a strong sense of their individuality vs those who seek comfort and approval in the direct collective. In the later, categories and hierarchy are important for the person to evaluate their self worth, if they are like the others then they are ok But wait, men and women dont look or act alike...I guess that means we're different in appearance at least, so let's add an extra category...which category are you in.

My point, men and women are as alike as they WISH to be...it's up to us to chose how many more enforced differences we want.
I like that comment for i do see that a lot!

Monier's photo
Sun 08/01/10 12:10 AM
Edited by Monier on Sun 08/01/10 12:10 AM
I am a woman trapped inside of a man's body that really really likes other women.

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Sun 08/01/10 12:24 AM
hi, i m new user i saw ur profile n ur photo i like ur atittude.

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Sun 08/01/10 12:27 AM
hi, i m mohnish from chattisgarh

bedlum1's photo
Sun 08/01/10 01:28 PM

hi, i m mohnish from chattisgarh
what slaphead what

irisheyes79's photo
Sun 08/01/10 04:49 PM
bigsmile