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After the first contact (email or real life)...good or bad, do you
1. Decide that is who they really are and keep them or get rid of them 2. Keep it in the back of your head and keep an eye out to see if they are different |
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3. Keep it in the back of your head and keep an eye out to see if they are different
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Number 3
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I'll do 1, 2 or 3 depending on how good-looking they are.
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humm are 1 and 3 the same?
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humm are 1 and 3 the same?
nah....1 is making a judgment on the first impression. 3 is keeping it in the back of your mind but watching for a change...not really forming a judgement yet |
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definitely # 3
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actually buttons....you are correct. the original #1 was confusing so I got rid of it. #3 is now #2
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After the first contact (email or real life)...good or bad, do you 1. Decide that is who they really are and keep them or get rid of them 2. Keep it in the back of your head and keep an eye out to see if they are different I don't judge on first impression, I simply note it in the back of my mind and compare second, third, fourth impressions, etc. |
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I tend to keep in the back of my mind. Keep looking for the red flags as we go along.
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Lmao, shshsh I would like to know what everyone was drinking last night there is no #3
  I think someone is playing games with them......
But it is the second one for I normally tend to meet them the second time to see if I was wrong the first time.... 
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10 minutes in I know what kind of person I am dealing with and react accordingly. (For me at least)
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After the first contact (email or real life)...good or bad, do you 1. Decide that is who they really are and keep them or get rid of them 2. Keep it in the back of your head and keep an eye out to see if they are different I tell myself to keep an open mind because everyone is different, every situation is different, every relationship is different. Then I mark off 90 days on the calendar, so I know exactly when she will start trying to change me....! |
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10 minutes in I know what kind of person I am dealing with and react accordingly. (For me at least) Those accordions can come in handy. |
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I'll do 1, 2 or 3 depending on how good-looking they are.
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actually buttons....you are correct. the original #1 was confusing so I got rid of it. #3 is now #2
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After the first contact (email or real life)...good or bad, do you 1. Decide that is who they really are and keep them or get rid of them 2. Keep it in the back of your head and keep an eye out to see if they are different I can usually get a pretty good idea how someone is, withing the first hour of talking to to them. As long as someone is honest with me, they will get my respect, but as soon as I find out they lied to me, I write them off. |
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3 I think
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Edited by
FearandLoathing
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Sat 06/12/10 08:59 PM
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After the first contact (email or real life)...good or bad, do you 1. Decide that is who they really are and keep them or get rid of them 2. Keep it in the back of your head and keep an eye out to see if they are different I use Voodoo to come up with the answer. |
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Edited by
buttons
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Sat 06/12/10 09:00 PM
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i think for me if they are good i just enjoy and continue to talk. without any suspicion. however if it was a negative feeling..and there was a lot of good i continue to talk.. and perhaps i was wrong about the bad feeling.. however am way more cautious then.. I feel if nothing is wrong why assume there will be something wrong.. hence.. I guess my pick is neither or depends on the situation..
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