Topic: Why are you here?
franshade's photo
Tue 06/08/10 07:59 PM

I have joined just to meet new people. Make some friends and see where that takes me. I honestly have joined with no expectations. :)

Good for you, join the forums, meet more people while sharing ideas, opinions and laughs flowers

buttons's photo
Wed 06/09/10 08:42 AM

If all you're going to do is be a cynic about love and complain about the opposite sex, why come to a dating site to do so? Seems a bit self serving to me...

Do you really think the opposite sex is going to be attracted to someone who complains about them all the time? It's like shooting yourself in the foot before starting a marathon.... brilliant eh? slaphead
laugh laugh i think many are here for attention. laugh laugh

buttons's photo
Wed 06/09/10 08:44 AM
oh my answer is.. im here to enjoy myself, perhaps meet someone for a friend or a relationship. to pass time,to read and to learn things to better myself.

no photo
Wed 06/09/10 08:54 AM

Oh wow, I am calm don't worry kiddos! I've been here a long time and most of my posts are of the light hearted variety. I do consider myself a realist, but in my real world I don't run around complaining about everything. Just seems ridiculous to me that people come to a dating site to whine about why they can't get a date.
I have no Idea Why I am here?? where am I? Who am I??

Did someone lose a cat?

Mitch

74Drew's photo
Wed 06/09/10 09:06 AM
i'm here because sometimes it's fun to irritate and harass people. and they can't punch me through the computer.

and i keep hoping that at some point the cosmic energies will align in my favor and place in my path the woman of my dreams. and she will use mingle2 as the way of finding me.



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freeonthree's photo
Wed 06/09/10 09:21 AM
Edited by freeonthree on Wed 06/09/10 09:59 AM

If all you're going to do is be a cynic about love and complain about the opposite sex, why come to a dating site to do so? Seems a bit self serving to me...

Do you really think the opposite sex is going to be attracted to someone who complains about them all the time? It's like shooting yourself in the foot before starting a marathon.... brilliant eh? slaphead


People need to vent. It's not good to store anger.
When people complain about the opposite sex, don't take it personally, they are only venting about their experience with one or more people they've met or been with. I think alot of the time, they just didn't take the time to get thru the wall thats been set up, because that person was mistreated before. I believe most folks, both men and women, are more fun to be around when they feel comfortable with who their with. Try to be patient with people of the opposite sex, and listen to their story before you pass judgment. Note to self: Practice what I preach frustrated

freeonthree's photo
Wed 06/09/10 09:33 AM

If you whiners want to keep whining go ahead by all means, but don't expect anyone to be attracted to it.


When people complain about problems you don't have, it should make you appreciate the fact that your doin ok. When life hands you a lemon, don't stomp on it, instead, sweeten it up a little for the next person bigsmile

freeonthree's photo
Wed 06/09/10 10:21 AM
Edited by freeonthree on Wed 06/09/10 10:46 AM
Oops ! I forgot to say, im here for the forums, and to make some new friends. It would be nice if I met someone close, who is compatible with me, but so far, everyone i've met, lives in another galaxy, far away, or we simply were not compatible with each other, or didn't allow enough time to find out otherwise. Im hard to deal with sometimes. When I meet someone, if they are afraid to exchange email addresses or phone numbers, the big red flag goes up, and I move on. I've turned my back to a few women that way here, but thats how I operate. If some doesn't want to exchange numbers and chat on the phone, or at least by email for starters, I just assume that their not really interested in getting to know me, and wait for someone who is. bigsmile

Seakolony's photo
Wed 06/09/10 10:50 AM
Because my mommy and daddy had sex......

freeonthree's photo
Wed 06/09/10 11:42 AM

Because my mommy and daddy had sex......


bigsmile

no photo
Wed 06/09/10 12:47 PM

Because my mommy and daddy had sex......
stop that !!! mommy's and daddy's don't do THAT.. noway

Seakolony's photo
Wed 06/09/10 02:14 PM


Because my mommy and daddy had sex......
stop that !!! mommy's and daddy's don't do THAT.. noway

My bad must have been immaculate conception, then, LMAO!

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Wed 06/09/10 02:15 PM



Because my mommy and daddy had sex......
stop that !!! mommy's and daddy's don't do THAT.. noway

My bad must have been immaculate conception, then, LMAO!
that's better :tongue:

FETTS61's photo
Wed 06/09/10 02:22 PM
im here cuz im not all there

misswright's photo
Wed 06/09/10 02:46 PM
I'm here because even at my age I despise lying to my mother. My Mingle profile quells my conscience during my side of the weekly rant:

"Yes Mom, I'm looking for a man. No really, I am. Yes, I know it's been fifteen years and they're everywhere. No, I'm not just saying it. Yes, I know I'm going to die cold and alone on the bathroom floor if I don't find one someday! I'm looking for cripe's sake."

She doesn't need to know I have a snowball's chance in hell of finding a man on here.:angel:

no photo
Wed 06/09/10 02:48 PM

I'm here because even at my age I despise lying to my mother. My Mingle profile quells my conscience during my side of the weekly rant:

"Yes Mom, I'm looking for a man. No really, I am. Yes, I know it's been fifteen years and they're everywhere. No, I'm not just saying it. Yes, I know I'm going to die cold and alone on the bathroom floor if I don't find one someday! I'm looking for cripe's sake."

She doesn't need to know I have a snowball's chance in hell of finding a man on here.:angel:
I don't think I'll find a man on here either ohwell

Wulfenstraat's photo
Wed 06/09/10 02:48 PM
I'm here on this post because I thought there might be something interesting hiding, just waiting to be discovered in all five pages of copy on copy. Of course, there wasn't.

sherry4382's photo
Wed 06/09/10 03:52 PM
I'm just here to be here

Atlantis75's photo
Wed 06/09/10 03:52 PM

i'm here because sometimes it's fun to irritate and harass people. and they can't punch me through the computer.

and i keep hoping that at some point the cosmic energies will align in my favor and place in my path the woman of my dreams. and she will use mingle2 as the way of finding me.



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sherry4382's photo
Wed 06/09/10 03:56 PM


i'm here because sometimes it's fun to irritate and harass people. and they can't punch me through the computer.

and i keep hoping that at some point the cosmic energies will align in my favor and place in my path the woman of my dreams. and she will use mingle2 as the way of finding me.



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