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Topic: Hate.
redhead44613's photo
Fri 06/04/10 10:53 PM
You know..I find it funny how some people can hate someone they don't even know. How are you going to hate someone based on what? The way they look? Their past? The way they hold themselves? Before you make that jump to hate try talking to them, they just may be someone you never thought they were.

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 06/04/10 10:56 PM
/rant

No, but really, so what if some random person hates you on the internet, a lot of people hate me on the internet...and quite frankly, I don't really care.

Phuque2's photo
Fri 06/04/10 10:58 PM
Edited by Phuque2 on Fri 06/04/10 11:02 PM
I know what hate is.....I have seen the horrors of war and what some people can and will do........

I believe that most people use the word hate and they really don't know what it is....The word...."hate" should be used with care..

Fear, the internet for the most part is misused and people tend to get opinions of others based on words....That is just silly...And I don't give a rats azz if they don't like me....This thing we are doing, that life thingy goes by way to fast to care about the internet.

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 06/04/10 10:59 PM

I know what hate is.....I have seen the horrors of war and what some people can and will do........

I believe that most people use the word hate and they really don't know what it is....The word...."hate" should be used with care..


Precisely, hate is thrown around like a newspaper these days...no one really knows what it means to actually hate someone.

redhead44613's photo
Fri 06/04/10 11:00 PM

I know what hate is.....I have seen the horrors of war and what some people can and will do........

I believe that most people use the word hate and they really don't know what it is....The word...."hate" should be used with care..
I agree with you. I don't say hate unless I really mean it. I don't hate anyone just dislike them.

Phuque2's photo
Fri 06/04/10 11:06 PM
I think I should go to bed...I am feeling way to deep tonight and I might just throw up on here.....Asta la pasta everyone.....I am tired, so time to go....Peace

imsingle951's photo
Fri 06/04/10 11:46 PM
As far as I know, I have never hated anybody. No matter what they have done to me , or others. i always forgive, no matter what. I go with the believe that if Jesus Christ could forgive and not hate the people that did him wrong, and even put him to death,who am I to do so? So it ends up that if you dont forgive, and do hate, you are trying to be above Christ.

freeonthree's photo
Sat 06/05/10 12:34 AM
Stay away from nuts like that.

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Sat 06/05/10 12:39 AM
i never hate anyone without reason, and i hate someone when he/she really really bothers my life, but i don't kick them on their face, i choose to went away from them, to avoid any circumstances that they might don't like.
Once i have that experience.
There were a groups of chicks that really hate me at school, they were my senior. I didn't know them or even talk. I'm a quiet girl, i didn't know what i've been done till they hate me.
One day they came to me, shouted rite at my face and said that they dont like me. I was asking why, they just barking like a dog and keep yelling at my face
I was asking my self am i ever touch them?
Several days later, my friend told me, that one of that chick's boyfriend was adore me.
Ohh yeaaah..
Of course he was adoring me, cz his girlfriend behave like a rude pig LOL

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Sat 06/05/10 12:50 AM
HATE hATE haTE hatE Hate HAte HATe HATE

that reminds me of a good song...

...anyways who cares hang on to what yo0u want to keep and throw away everything else...

we all make our lives what it is through our own decisions clear a path to move forward.

seek out the people who will give back what you put in.

life is a mirror things you give will be what you get back.

let it be clear to you now that you are worth more then your getting credit for from others.

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Sat 06/05/10 12:58 AM
LiL :heart: everyone.Hate not good for health.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 06/05/10 05:57 AM
Hummm hate is a very powerful word that I don't us I may dislike another or just don't care for them due to the way they are or whom they are.... but.......Hate........noway

Myself I could care less who hates me just means they have no clue of the person I really am..........noway

CatsLoveMe's photo
Sat 06/05/10 09:44 AM
I "hate" BP and their CEO Tony Hayward, and with good reason.mad

delilady's photo
Sat 06/05/10 09:54 AM
I don't hate anyone. Hating is a waste of energy and time and would only effect me and my personality. The person being "hated" is not effected because they could care less how I feel. If I dislike someone or their behavior I just choose to distance myself from them.

The only situation I can foresee as causing me to truly hate someone is if they were to harm one of my sons. Then they would definitely see my hatred!

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Sat 06/05/10 09:57 AM
I've found that hate is only useful if you intend to personally seek vengeance.

Otherwise, I'd say eat a good meal and let it go.

msharmony's photo
Sat 06/05/10 10:47 AM

You know..I find it funny how some people can hate someone they don't even know. How are you going to hate someone based on what? The way they look? Their past? The way they hold themselves? Before you make that jump to hate try talking to them, they just may be someone you never thought they were.



I think hate comes from misguided judgement. People take flaws, or bad moments or bad choices in others lives and use it to label them permanently,, when the reality is none of us knows another person nearly completely enough to know the person if we dont live their lives. I sometimes hate what people do, or how they act,, but I dont hate anyone.

Who is the better person,,,the one who has spent one week a month helping the poor and the other three doing noting, the one who has spent one week a month hurting others, and the other THREE helping, or the one who just goes by day by day neither helping nor harming but JUDGING the other two? Most people make good and bad decisions, it makes them human,, not good and bad people.

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sat 06/05/10 11:47 AM
Edited by IgorFrankensteen on Sat 06/05/10 11:49 AM
Hate as a subject is a pretty huge one, with almost as many different definitions as Love.

In both cases, but more so in Hate, the trouble comes not from the feelings, but from what they choose to DO about those feelings.
These days, we have seen an INCREASE, at least in the U.S., of people with a particular POLITICAL goal, deciding to encourage blind hatred, in order to be able to manipulate others into doing their bidding. Religions have also been prone to this sort of disgusting behavior.
If I COULD get through to those who are sold on the VALUE of hate (they think it protects them from harm!), I would charge them to notice that those who they follow almost ALWAYS want something OTHER than just to see their adherents abjure what they dislike.

*Politicians who encourage hate, want blind voting support, so that they can go after the things they REALLY want, which is to have a free hand to enrich themselves and their friends, even including at the expense of their own followers. Most such politicians actually WANT what they encourage people to hate to CONTINUE UNABATED, in order to maintain their hold over their followers.
*Religious leaders who promulgate Hate, also want their own power to continue for personal fun, but they also want their followers to MAKE THEM FEEL THEY ARE RIGHT.
*Individuals who hate other individuals are usually either in fear of vulnerability to them, or are actively continuing to WANT something from them, and are simply angry that they aren't getting it. That, or the other person HAS something they think should be theirs (such as another person's affections).

redhead44613's photo
Sat 06/05/10 11:58 AM


You know..I find it funny how some people can hate someone they don't even know. How are you going to hate someone based on what? The way they look? Their past? The way they hold themselves? Before you make that jump to hate try talking to them, they just may be someone you never thought they were.



I think hate comes from misguided judgement. People take flaws, or bad moments or bad choices in others lives and use it to label them permanently,, when the reality is none of us knows another person nearly completely enough to know the person if we dont live their lives. I sometimes hate what people do, or how they act,, but I dont hate anyone.

Who is the better person,,,the one who has spent one week a month helping the poor and the other three doing noting, the one who has spent one week a month hurting others, and the other THREE helping, or the one who just goes by day by day neither helping nor harming but JUDGING the other two? Most people make good and bad decisions, it makes them human,, not good and bad people.
:thumbsup: well said!waving waving

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Sat 06/05/10 12:01 PM
I do not even use the word hate at all in conversation. I don't feel personally speaking that I should or do dislike something/someone that strongly to "hate" them. I try to be a good person. All that hate does is create bitterness within yourself and drag you down as you walk around with it inside of you. :smile:

msharmony's photo
Sat 06/05/10 12:02 PM

I do not even use the word hate at all in conversation. I don't feel personally speaking that I should or do dislike something/someone that strongly to "hate" them. I try to be a good person. All that hate does is create bitterness within yourself and drag you down as you walk around with it inside of you. :smile:


so kewl,,hate was actually treated like a curse word in our home,, we werent allowed to use it at all...

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