Topic: Second Best
Veldt_Falsetto's photo
Mon 05/31/10 03:28 PM
I don't know what it is but I've been second best for every girl who ever liked me for a very long time.

It's a bit strange really and I don't quite get how and why it happens but it always does.

Does anyone else get this?
Anyone know of a way I can stop it aha.

thayet153's photo
Mon 05/31/10 03:33 PM
Being second best seems to happen a lot. It happens to me, and everyone. Just can't let it get to you, and keep your head up and be patient. Someday you'll find the right girl for you, and to her, you wouldn't be the second best.

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 05/31/10 03:36 PM
Don't settle for second best.

Life is too short.

RowBaby's photo
Mon 05/31/10 03:38 PM
If you date beneath you, you will never be second best.

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 05/31/10 03:42 PM
Hummm depends what your second best too............whoa

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 05/31/10 03:44 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Mon 05/31/10 03:45 PM
There is already a currect topic on the exact same subject.

Here is the thread:

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/274526


My reply is the same to you as well although I took out the "emo" statement since you are not calling yourself that (the other poster did):


Nothing is more of a turn off than a whiney “nice guy” type.

Pull up your big boy pants and start dating girls with a little more integrity. When red flags are thrown up, don’t stay in the relationship.

You are allowing yourself to be second best. I think you need develop a little self esteem and stop blaming others. Take responsibility for the fact that you allow people to use you.

I don't like to be coddled and I don't coddle. I like my friends and romantic partners to be strong enough on their own. Sorry if I didn't give the fluffy advice as others members did - I just don't think a grown person should be treated like a little kid and patted on the head *there, there – It will be ok*

I wish you well. :thumbsup:

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 05/31/10 04:18 PM

If you date beneath you, you will never be second best.


If you trip first place you can sneak in.smokin

krupa's photo
Mon 05/31/10 04:37 PM
Your preaching to the choir homeboy.

Every last chick I have ever humped have all screamed out some other guys name.

I don't know who this "OH GOD!" guy is but, the dude beats me to every chick every time.

That's all right though.....I scream out my own name right when I hit climax and that shuts em up.