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Topic: how can a man please a woman without money
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Mon 05/10/10 08:13 PM



can't be done

eventually they'll want more of a sign of your love and you can only draw so many huge hearts in the sand on the beach.

metaphorically speaking of course

free only gets you so far


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someone who keeps a tally wouldn't interest me. I'll take hearts drawn in the sand any day. He can cook me supper at home too, if a restaurant is too expensive I'd offer to bring wine & dessert. But if I catch him keeping score penny for penny - bye.


most of the men I know have no problem assuming responsibility for covering a date. Wanna keep it low or no cost - fine - but don't obsess & keep score - it's not so much that we want ur money. But to spend time with us and do things together can sometimes involve some expense - that's life - otherwise you just look like a loser who wants to panhandle for free sex - a user & a freeloader - not an attractive picture - jmho

all i know is that every time i've been out with a woman i'm interested in i've always felt like every thing i do or don't do is being scrutinized. did i spend enough, tip enough, say the right/wrong things, do the right/wrong things? i never feel like anything i do/can do/will do is good enough. so from my perspective/experience, nothing is ever enough and no sex has ever been free or even cheap for that matter.


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that's unfortunate. In your shoes, I would take a look at changing the kind of people I am dating. It can be hard to break habits and find happiness by breaking a negative cycle ~ trust me I understand.

I am on a mission to break a cycle of trying to make abusive men love me, but I have spent so much of my life doing that, it's hard for me to relate outside of that paradigm. But I keep trying because I know it will be healthier to change the kind of men I have been seeing

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Mon 05/10/10 08:14 PM
Chocolate...........smokin

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Mon 05/10/10 08:15 PM

Sex isn't something that the partner should earn. Sex should be enjoyed because both partners feel the urge to share in it.

Money should never EVER be a factor in a relationship. If someone considers it as a factor to me then I don't want that woman. I can have fun and maintain a great relationship without spending extra money.

When I was extremely poor, i managed to keep relationships based solely on my personality and theirs enjoying life. Money was never an issue.

Any woman that expects gifts can go make their own kite and fly it. Gifts should never be expected but appreciated if they come.


well I will be glad to make my own kite, but seeing as I am a total klutz - literally as if I had 3 left feet:laughing:

I might need some help flying it! winking

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Mon 05/10/10 08:46 PM
I might need some help flying it!


Actually, that's a nice come on:
Excuse me, I made a kite. Would you like teaching me how to fly it?


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Mon 05/10/10 08:50 PM
i think a better question would be:

how can a woman please a man without it costing him money?



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Mon 05/10/10 09:19 PM
Only the worthless (i.e. uncreative) men require money for pleasing a woman!

As far as a woman pleasing a man without it costing him money,
it depends on a man's creativity!!!
"Pleasing a man" is a woman's purppose! -- IF HE'S WORTH IT!!!

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Mon 05/10/10 09:23 PM


Cinderella75's photo
Mon 05/10/10 09:51 PM

I enjoy womens company but sometimes money is a issue what ways can I please them without it



Well you are $hit out of luck, sweety.
Money makes the world go round... j/k

No, just get creative, it does not take alot of money to win a girls heart over. Just be Romantic. google "Romantic ideas".
Most women want to be romanced. Its fun, sexy and makes us feel special and loved

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Mon 05/10/10 10:04 PM
Edited by Kings_Knight on Mon 05/10/10 10:05 PM
Ummm ... learn to breathe thru your mouth ... it's almost as good as money - IF y' do it right ...

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Tue 05/11/10 01:43 PM
make us feel special smooched and loved love , ú'll get it back 10x in return smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

see?blushing

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Tue 05/11/10 01:45 PM

Ummm ... learn to breathe thru your mouth ... it's almost as good as money - IF y' do it right ...


what I thought it was "learn to breathe thru your ears"? *giggle*

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Tue 05/11/10 08:08 PM
Hmmmmm, "How can a man please a woman without money". She doesn't have to have money. Im not shallow!bigsmile

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Tue 05/11/10 08:11 PM

I enjoy womens company but sometimes money is a issue what ways can I please them without it



Do you need money to make your tongue work?

RD2112's photo
Tue 05/11/10 08:12 PM


I enjoy womens company but sometimes money is a issue what ways can I please them without it



Do you need money to make your tongue work?


Mine is for hire! rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Tue 05/11/10 08:36 PM
Mmmh Honestly its quite diffcult without dough unless she gat a big crush on you she wouldnt mind ur cash level if not ur gonna spend$$$$

RD2112's photo
Tue 05/11/10 08:45 PM
Even if I was mega rich, I would act like I was just eking out a living

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Tue 05/11/10 09:09 PM


I enjoy womens company but sometimes money is a issue what ways can I please them without it



Do you need money to make your tongue work?


Hummmmmmmmm could not help it...........does this remind ya of something ya have ...........rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl



:laughing: :laughing: whoa oops off to my corner now........

These damn round rooms....:laughing: :laughing:

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Tue 05/11/10 09:09 PM
Edited by JaneStar1 on Tue 05/11/10 09:32 PM
Guys, you forget one important contradiction:

While most of the guys tend to fall in love through their eyes,

most of the women tend to ... through their EARS!!!


Thus, if you cannot "pull the wool" over the woman's ears with your tongue -- that's what Ladylid2012 meant by the "tongue work" primerily (among other things), I think -- then your plainly out of luck and might as well join the ranks of queeres (i.e. Homos..)!!!
____________________________ biggrin ____________________________

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Tue 05/11/10 09:13 PM

Hmmmmm, "How can a man please a woman without money". She doesn't have to have money. Im not shallow!bigsmile


Seriously there are plenty of things to keep a woman/man busy if they are really into each other...........whoa

RD2112's photo
Tue 05/11/10 09:14 PM

Guys, you forget one important contradiction:

While most of the guys tend to fall in love through their eyes,

most of the women tend to ... through their EARS!!!


Thus, if you cannot "pull the wool" over the woman's ears with your tongue -- that's what Ladylid2012 meant by "tongue work" primerily (among other things), I think -- then your plainly out of luck and might as well join the ranks of queeres (i.e. Homos..)!!!
____________________________ biggrin ____________________________


I lust thru my eyes, like thru my ears and love thru my stomach

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