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(just for you Myka
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What is the best way to end a relationship? What if the other person doesn't accept the break up |
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Being honest is the best way to end it.
If they accept it, that is their problem. Not much I can do about that. |
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I have done this twice. The last time I politely asked her to pack her bags and get the hell out of my house. It was very effective...
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( What if the other person doesn't accept the break up kill em and hide the body |
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LMAO
To end it you really have to believe it's whats best. If you don't truly believe it's over then you will end up in a sort of limbo of pain that you wont be able to get past to begin the healing process. I've had to break up with guys before when they still wanted to be in the relationship but I had to tell them that I was making the decision for me, that this is what I needed. One of my roughest breakups was when a guy told me he just didn't have feelings for me anymore. There was no cheating or interest in others. He still loved me but was not in love with me, which I'm sure made it very hard for him. |
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If they don't accept that it's over, it's time for a restraining order.
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(just for you Myka )
What is the best way to end a relationship? I just say "I will not be domesticated." That's all it takes. Oh sure, I may have to say it 5000 times, but eventually they take the hint. What if the other person doesn't accept the break up They always do. Eventually. |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Fri 04/16/10 12:54 PM
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I’m very upfront and prefer to end a relationship face to face.
The other person has no choice but to accept it, and if they don’t, I’ll get a 'no contact' order. That’s easy!  I don’t put up with whiney, drama.
We are adults so there is no reason that we both can't move on and be civil. 
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I’m very upfront and prefer to end a relationship face to face. The other person has no choice but to accept it, and if they don’t, I’ll get a 'no contact' order. That’s easy! I don’t put up with whiney, drama.
We are adults so there is no reason that we both can't move on and be civil.
Well said. 
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What is the best way to end a relationship? Be direct! I'm the type of person that rips the band-aid off in one yank; I don't try to baby it along pulling one hair at a time, needlessly prolonging the agony. 
What if the other person doesn't accept the break up
My three rugged brothers standing there thumping baseball bats into their palms seems to convince any man it's time to move along. 
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Humm the only way I have honest and up front. I don't have a problem with voicing my opinion. I think it is the right thing to do and face to face if you can or over the phone if distance is a factor. Never by text or e-mail that is just so wrong well unless they want talk to you then do what you have too.....
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Direct is the best way, but what I see people doing is totally different. I can't say I have never done it, because I have when I was much younger. Still feel bad about that.
What I see people doing most often is making their partner so miserable that the partner breaks up with them, relieving them of the responsibility for breaking up. |
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Direct is the best way, but what I see people doing is totally different. I can't say I have never done it, because I have when I was much younger. Still feel bad about that. What I see people doing most often is making their partner so miserable that the partner breaks up with them, relieving them of the responsibility for breaking up. Yes I agree. I've have that done to me, it was no fun. |
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I don't know if times have just changed or what but I see a lot of people breaking up by text messaging or IM/email instead of face to face or as Kristi said, over the phone if they are far off
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( What if the other person doesn't accept the break up kill em and hide the body Have you been cloned by aliens?? What the hell happened to the peace and love chick??? lol |
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I’m very upfront and prefer to end a relationship face to face. The other person has no choice but to accept it, and if they don’t, I’ll get a 'no contact' order. That’s easy! I don’t put up with whiney, drama.
We are adults so there is no reason that we both can't move on and be civil.
 on me i agree all the way i have had to do that a few time's and they dont follow it they go to pokie then they get the point 
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I break up the old fashioned way.....morse code.
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Humm the only way I have honest and up front. I don't have a problem with voicing my opinion. I think it is the right thing to do and face to face if you can or over the phone if distance is a factor. Never by text or e-mail that is just so wrong well unless they want talk to you then do what you have too.....
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I don't know if times have just changed or what but I see a lot of people breaking up by text messaging or IM/email instead of face to face or as Kristi said, over the phone if they are far off It's call "chicken ****" lol. It's a lot easier than face to face. |
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