ohhh,ohhh GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN,,FUN,,YES GIRLS,,JUST WANNA HAVE FUN,,,ah,ah,ah,,shessssssssssss,,Im singing....lol

YA SEE,,,,DID SHE INVITE ME?


NOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooooooo WOMEN,,,,,sheezzzzzsh



FINE,,,just because I'm NOT A LADY,,,,sure,,,thanks alot Tinker..

Right behind ya babe.

what kind of answer is that

Hummmmmmmmmmm I was going to put in my two cents worth on this one till I read the whole thing then the only thing that came to mind was..........

wow....really??
if you like fooling around why are you in a relationship anyway??.
here's the cure.....STAY SINGLE!!!!!..
that way you arent toying with someones emotions......cheating is cheating no matter how you slice it....and it is boge as hell to do to someone........try thinking of someone else for a change instead of you own selfish gratifacation......im not trying to be mean or anything like it but....really start thinking of someone other than you and you might just find a good relationship

i feel some what different about it all then you guys, in my very own eyes i think sex with someone different and a relationship does not need to be the same if you know what i mean, and i think she wants me to change some, like stop fooling around with different people and grow more in love with her

stay single and have fun then.....or find someone that wants an "OPEN" relationship like you do.....but do not let someone believe there might be more than what they think...its not right

YA THINK!!!!


NOooooooooooooooooo!!!!!



mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm,,,whats the world COMING to???


I just can't IMAGINE ANYONE THINKING A RELATIONSHIP should be one devoted and one who just PLAYS????? MAN!!!!

you two have a basic incompatibility. she desires monogamy while
you do not. the problem is not that you have friends but that your
friends are ex-lovers...and not so ex-lovers.

if your basic needs differ this severely you should seriously
consider calling it off so that each of you can find the right
person with more compatible relationship styles.

double post? how did THAT happen?

She's working hard to earn a living, and is she supporting you too? You seem to be busy other than work when she's at her job. I've seen people take advantage of others like that before, having a person pay the bills, put a roof over their heads while, because they're in "love."
If she is working all the time and you rarely get to see her then why did you get into the relationship? I'm guessing you might be younger than her?
She should leave you and you should understand as you don't seem willing to change to make it work between you two. Find a woman who is available more and also a swinger, as it would seem to be suitable for your activities. Take care and good luck with whatever you do.

oh my.

Well said!

((jeff takes a bow))...thank you

another part why she is not to happy is that my job i have i most travel a lot so i thought since it's slow here at home and i was bored all the time i thought i would travel some

May I just say,,before I to go,,,

GOD IS GREAT, BEER IS GOOD, and PEOPLE ARE CRAZY!,,thanks.....

((jeff throws his hands up, shakes his head and walks away))

Hummmmmmmm then how hard is it to say hey look all I want from you is sex nothing more nothing less.There is no me and you and most likely never will be. Due to the way you are you are not satisfied with only one partner and at this time you do not see that happening. If after that she says okay fine then that is all it will be and nothing more and agrees to still see ya then hey its all fair.

But what I have read is she is wanting a relationship all you want is the sex and a little companionship. If so then that is the way it is but at least be totally honest to the one your seeing and at least give them the chance to step back and walk away with their dignity and not shove it down their throat......

To me if that is what you want then the best of luck but at least be considerate to those you do get involved with. Let them know what they are walking into prior so they can make that choice before they get too deep in the situation.......

Okay said my two cents worth................