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Topic: Nudging
msmyka's photo
Sun 04/11/10 10:30 AM
What does Nudging mean exactly? Well to us women it means you guys like our pictures or something in our profile but not enough to actually send us a message. Is that really what you want tell us? If you don't know how to make the first move, don't do it with a nudge unless you really don't expect a response back. Nudging = absolutely no effort what so ever ... just saying.

I know not getting responses to your emails sucks but at least you know you tried flowerforyou

(Does not apply to people you are already in contact with UNLESS this is your only means of communicating with them)

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 04/11/10 10:40 AM
Hummmmmmmmm to me I see it as they nudge ya first to see if you will in fact nudge them back. More or less telling them you may be interested in them.

But............now if all they do is the nudge then I will finally totally ignore it.

All it is for is more of and ice breaker to some before they make the effort of actually sending that first e-mail. Some figure if they nudge you and you nudge them back then they will send a e-mail. For most likely they will get a response back...

Phuque2's photo
Sun 04/11/10 10:47 AM
Heehee I just nudged both of you and it felt good...It,s like buying you a drink at the end of the bar, but not going allllll the way down there and saying Hi...

msmyka's photo
Sun 04/11/10 10:51 AM
LOL

Etrain's photo
Sun 04/11/10 10:51 AM
drool drool drool I find it kind of lame...they need to spice it up with dirty nudgesdrool drool drool

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 04/11/10 10:53 AM

Hummmmmmmmm to me I see it as they nudge ya first to see if you will in fact nudge them back. More or less telling them you may be interested in them.

But............now if all they do is the nudge then I will finally totally ignore it.

All it is for is more of and ice breaker to some before they make the effort of actually sending that first e-mail. Some figure if they nudge you and you nudge them back then they will send a e-mail. For most likely they will get a response back...



so if you nudge them back it means you're interested? oh boy... being kind seems like more hassle that it's worth some days...

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 04/11/10 10:54 AM
I like the nudges.

chewmanfu's photo
Sun 04/11/10 10:54 AM
Well, I'm sure people are tired of getting the first messages that have only "Hey how are ya?" in them. The reason people send those messages is probably due to the fact they are tired of putting honest work into a message for it to only go unnoticed, or ignored. A "nudge" is a quick ice breaker, if returned, I'm sure you'd get better messages from people. If not, well then I don't know.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 04/11/10 10:58 AM

drool drool drool I find it kind of lame...they need to spice it up with dirty nudgesdrool drool drool


Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh just what we need to do give ya a new toy to play with noway noway noway noway :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 04/11/10 10:59 AM

I like the nudges.


Can I kick you in the butt bigsmile

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 04/11/10 11:01 AM


I like the nudges.


Can I kick you in the butt bigsmile


I usually charge for that, but for you it's free. :tongue: laugh

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 04/11/10 11:06 AM



I like the nudges.


Can I kick you in the butt bigsmile


I usually charge for that, but for you it's free. :tongue: laugh


You're so good to me... flowers


Justaman, FYI 1) he's joking 2) he's friends with most everyone here, which is how we know he's joking...

Chill have fun..

no photo
Sun 04/11/10 11:08 AM
I will send a hug if I read them in a forum and they sound DOWN,,or a kick just to be saying hello,,many different reasons for me,,but I think there cool...and take them from others as just a 'HEY'.
and don't look very deep into them at all...just a notice and a HI!
drinker HIlaugh laugh laugh

Leon100's photo
Sun 04/11/10 11:08 AM
Nothing wrong with a cheeky nudge!

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 04/11/10 11:15 AM
Please let me remind you we are all here to have fun attacking others within the forums is not allowed and will be dealt with. At times what one says is only within humor and not meant to bring any harm. Get to know others and their sense of humor prior to posting...

I did in fact remove several post from this thread due to a response was taking the wrong way.


Thank You
Site Mod
Kristi

wraithme66's photo
Sun 04/11/10 11:16 AM
Women nudge me all the time on here... Although, when I message them back, they never respond? I think they are truly shy?

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 04/11/10 11:18 AM
I have to admit the kick in the butt nudge is my fav but I usually give it not get it:tongue: ....

Thanks for the kick, you know who you are.. laugh laugh laugh

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 04/11/10 11:20 AM
noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Tessa02's photo
Sun 04/11/10 11:23 AM
I think nudging is a nice icebreaker & sometimes when I nudge someone back I'll get an email. I see nothing wrong with a little nudge!!:smile:

ImJustaMan's photo
Sun 04/11/10 11:24 AM

Please let me remind you we are all here to have fun attacking others within the forums is not allowed and will be dealt with. At times what one says is only within humor and not meant to bring any harm. Get to know others and their sense of humor prior to posting...

I did in fact remove several post from this thread due to a response was taking the wrong way.


Thank You
Site Mod
Kristi


duly noted sorry

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