The terms like "Nice Guys Finish Last"..But nobody ever mentions that nice GIRLS finish last as well!..I've seen time and time and time again where a "nice" guy will meet a "nice" girl and a well..not so nice girl..the "nice" guy will go for the not so nice girl instantly..let her completely dog him out then when shes done dogging him he will go back to the nice GIRL and dog HER out when he could have just went for her in the first freakin place..whats wrong with people?!?!

Well, one...there is no such thing as "nice guys/girls." They are typically only "nice" off their own merit or because mommy said they were, usually they have err...well, how to put this lightly...**** it, they are codependent almost always.

Quite honestly, I don't want a girl that will constantly put up with my **** and still compliment me with the same tired *** compliment like "you're sexy" or some other trivial ****.

Man up, life is hard and it doesn't get any easier just because you are "nice."

Its been my experience that its even harder when you're one of the nice people..lol

Because "nice" people do not exist...you can't be "nice" based off your own merit...easy enough, right?

I agree,, the world is getting just a bit colder and there are far more who think being nice is a weakness or fiction than there are who believe it is attainable, maintainable and real

we get what we ask for,, it is why so many women deal with dead beat dads because women lowered their standards,, now women and men lower their standards when it comes to expecting a certain tact and considerateness in others... so those who are still 'nice' are being lost in the fold,,,,,but dont give up and dont lower your standards,,,

from MW

NICE: 6 a : socially acceptable : well-bred <from a nice family> b : virtuous, respectable <was taught that nice girls don't do that>
7 : polite, kind <that's nice of you to say>


you CERTAINLY seem all of these things and I hope you never settle for a partner who isn't as well

Nope..I don't settle for less than what I know I deserve..which is why I always end up single..cuz I don't take crap just to be able to say I got a man..sooooooo..yeah I think I might just stay single..its easier..lol

So if I agree with you, will you answer me? Haha...

I can TOTALLY relate,, but Im not closed off to love, just ALOT more open to meaningful 'friendships' until the right one comes along,,

Well..I find it easier to just close off than to get screwed over..get pissed off..go after the guy..get locked up in jail..and have to remain there for the rest of my life cuz I don't have bail money..lol

I me.

I you, too.

its cuz nice = boring
trust me im a nicer guy than you and i know
whats goin down in this b!tch a55 piece
bein with a boring nice guy/girl is makin chicks/dudes
feel old and boring/getthe fear of forever
plus if your man/girl isnt full of 5h!t
what will you complain about
to your friends to seem cool?? whoop whoop mcl

I should have been born in the 50's...

Awww Fear, so JADED!!!
I'm a nice person and it's not just hearsay!! LOL I think some make "nice" sound like "doormat" or butt-kisser and a self-proclaimed moniker to insinuate oneself onto others. "Nice" to me means not a jerk, not totally self-centered, reasonable, affable, moral, patient, kind-hearted, not a user or abuser, (although we all use each other with permission in relationships). Nice does not mean perfect or pliant. It's about giving others chances, AND OURSELVES. I've been too nice at times and gotten a boat load of abuse and hurt for it, but I stick to my guns and I honestly cannot help but be nice. Doesn't mean I'll put up with nefarious creeps or jerkoholics, though. And it doesn't mean I'm "nice" 100% of the time. One can only turn one's cheek so often, you know??

I'm not jaded, I'm bitter.

Honestly I think many of those that put themselves within the nice guy/girl category fail to mention other issues they may have.

And yes it never fails that at times when someone is with this nice guy/girl they end up finding them boring and see someone else that catches their attention and they seem to go with the excitement. Even if it don't last, the one that was boring will not last either.

Problem with too many is lack of communication.......

Life is meant to have fun not sit back and waste away.... there is always something that two can go do and keep the communication flowing...

But there are a lot of good guys/girls out there that actually do get overlooked.....

You're sweet, don't deny it.

Perfect example... Have you ever seen the story of the dot, and the line?



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OmSbdvzbOzY

im not jaded im 27 most women my age
have dumped nice guys cuz they're
deathly afraid of getting old
so they crave having irresponsible fun
and that nice
loyal guy will stay with them forever
if hes not dumped asap

I get tired of hearing that nice people are supposed to be boring. I'm far flung from being boring and have references to prove it!! I'm nice with spice!!
Anyway, really, what is boring is "not nice", self-centered, egotistical show offs and game players . It gets REALLY OLD, really fast!! And that's why those types of attractions fizzle so fast. Too much unnecessary, built-in drama that comes off like "B" movie material.