Me and my GF just recently broke up and this is our second time dateing..... we broke up the first time because how i acted.... so i changed and acted diffrent... we broke up because how we were acting and she said we were breaking up because she wanted me to act like i did the first time...

Sometimes, you just can't win, can you? You will find someone who is happy with who you are next time.

Sounds like she has no idea what she wants. You shouldn't have to change yourself for someone else. I would say NEXT!

well idk what to do i realy did like her but i cant take it anymore and everything i do i am wrong... shes never wrong but i never had a good relaationship

sounds like it's time to move on to me. You can't say that you didn't try. Just leave it as you tried, but you need to find someone that you click with now

Stalk her...women love it

i'd perfer not to do that but then i don't feel like i tried

If that stuff is happening, say you do like her.... but if you keep trying to please her, you are just going to feel worse and worse about yourself and what you are doing, especially if it is getting you nowhere. Guess maybe you should stop chasing rainbows fella. There are nice girls out there and more often than not they are right under your nose.

Cast her aside and move on. You are asking for nothing but trouble! She is sick in the head with 'too many toos!'"Your too this, you ain't that."

Damned if you do and damned if you don't. Move on if you are smart.

There's trying and then there's letting her walk all over you. Sounds like you've made some changes for her whereas she would probably not do the same for you.

Relationships only work if equal amounts of effort are put forth by both sides. Don't do all the work to make her happy, just means shes a spoiled little princess.

You should never have to change who you are to please someone else. Be yourself. Someone out there is gonna love you exactly the way you are.

You're not "wrong" (unless you're beatin her or treating her like chit) You're learning... they don't teach relationship things in school... you learn this type of thing after you leave. Take what happened in your time with her... sort through what you liked and didn't like and try to apply in the next one if she's not ready to accept that you can only live it one day at a time... she sounds confused too... so it's not about she's right and you're wrong.

Look at all the folks here... it ain't gonna happen overnight. We don't fail at relationships... we grow from them.

GL and welcome

every relationship i've been in i've allways put more effort in it and i just feel like i'm the biggest screw up in the world after....

A MAJOR part of a relationship is ACCEPTANCE. If she doesnt like the way you are maybe she needs to find someone else to treat like a puppet. Move on, you don't need that.

You know, I agree with this lady..
If I can be really honest what I would do (and most people on here have probably had something similar happen to them at some point), tell her how you feel and that she isn't meeting you half way. Tell her it feels (to you) that you are having to do all the work and it can't work out like that. Then tell her to go and sort herself out. Dont get in touch with her and I am willing to bet that within a couple days she will have thought about it and she will get in touch. If she doesn't she probably isn't worth it and it will have saved you a lot of hassle and as you seem pretty young, she will have saved you a lot of time in which you will just have felt worse and worse as time goes by. Guess what; learning to say enough is enough is probably one of the hardest things to teach yourself... The sooner you master that, the sooner you get what you want out of life. Simple as that

Never change for someone!

Be yourself and take each other AS IS or don't take each other at all.

Use this as a learning experience and move on.

Best wishes.

I hear ya, I've been there and done that. And it only makes you feel that much more stupid afterwards for believing if you tried hard enough they would too. Be true to yourself, no one else in this world is going to look out for your heart, you've got to do it yourself! Sometimes that means making a harder decision to break up rather than continue to put yourself out there for others who would not do the same for you. I know what its like to feel like you're giving up on someone, but really need to be thinking of your own happiness too!

You are 18..My gawd get out of the house and make busy.

You don't need a girlfriend..you need some wininz to have fun with.

You start having serious relationships at that age your brain and your hormones fight with each other and guess who wins?..Yup..

Nobody..No way.

Cheer up. You won't know her name in a year..less if you get busty er... busy with school, work and having a good time.

and so you join a dating site?

well i like serious relationships i'm not shure why but i do