Topic: i think i been single way to long
bedlum1's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:40 AM




you dont pick something then the topic today in here will be what
"What Makes A Relationship Last" and what things hold a relationship together
communication,commitment,compassion,compromise,& absolute and total honesty in everything with each otherflowerforyou
bigsmile :heart:



yes i agree but where do you find that i havent grumble
gotta find a guy like me that has been beatin down by life enough to realize what really matters in life and has learned to be unselfish abd give back....we're out there

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:41 AM





you dont pick something then the topic today in here will be what
"What Makes A Relationship Last" and what things hold a relationship together
communication,commitment,compassion,compromise,& absolute and total honesty in everything with each otherflowerforyou
bigsmile :heart:



yes i agree but where do you find that i havent grumble
gotta find a guy like me that has been beatin down by life enough to realize what really matters in life and has learned to be unselfish abd give back....we're out there
an i already found it smitten

Gina_The_Italian's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:41 AM
what i dont get is why when a relationship starts its always amazing then as weeks or months pass it changes why cant people still do what they did from day one that made love so amazing and special seems people get stuck in a comfort zone after awhile and dont care about what really keeps a relationship strong they take one another for granted

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:42 AM




you dont pick something then the topic today in here will be what
"What Makes A Relationship Last" and what things hold a relationship together
communication,commitment,compassion,compromise,& absolute and total honesty in everything with each otherflowerforyou
bigsmile :heart:



yes i agree but where do you find that i havent grumble


It's there, hon.

Sometimes, in the last place you would normally look.

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:42 AM

what i dont get is why when a relationship starts its always amazing then as weeks or months pass it changes why cant people still do what they did from day one that made love so amazing and special seems people get stuck in a comfort zone after awhile and dont care about what really keeps a relationship strong they take one another for granted
it takes time took me awhile to get where im at today never thought i be here again but I'm happy.. Don't worry ya will find it again

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Thu 04/08/10 09:43 AM





Gina_The_Italian's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:44 AM





you dont pick something then the topic today in here will be what
"What Makes A Relationship Last" and what things hold a relationship together
communication,commitment,compassion,compromise,& absolute and total honesty in everything with each otherflowerforyou
bigsmile :heart:



yes i agree but where do you find that i havent grumble
gotta find a guy like me that has been beatin down by life enough to realize what really matters in life and has learned to be unselfish abd give back....we're out there


i do know one thing i am a smart woman i know a good man when i have him just dont seem to be many around anymore all that is out there i been seeing is players, cheaters

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:45 AM

what i dont get is why when a relationship starts its always amazing then as weeks or months pass it changes why cant people still do what they did from day one that made love so amazing and special seems people get stuck in a comfort zone after awhile and dont care about what really keeps a relationship strong they take one another for granted


Because people haven't really learned the difference between finding that " comfort zone " and taking the other person " for granted ".

You can be with someone, and be comfortable, yet still realize how lucky you are to be where you are.

In this age of instant gratification, it's difficult to find...

But it IS out there.

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:45 AM






you dont pick something then the topic today in here will be what
"What Makes A Relationship Last" and what things hold a relationship together
communication,commitment,compassion,compromise,& absolute and total honesty in everything with each otherflowerforyou
bigsmile :heart:



yes i agree but where do you find that i havent grumble
gotta find a guy like me that has been beatin down by life enough to realize what really matters in life and has learned to be unselfish abd give back....we're out there


i do know one thing i am a smart woman i know a good man when i have him just dont seem to be many around anymore all that is out there i been seeing is players, cheaters
ya i know what ya mean i been there too many times my self.. but this time is really different

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Thu 04/08/10 09:46 AM











Gina_The_Italian's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:46 AM






you dont pick something then the topic today in here will be what
"What Makes A Relationship Last" and what things hold a relationship together
communication,commitment,compassion,compromise,& absolute and total honesty in everything with each otherflowerforyou
bigsmile :heart:



yes i agree but where do you find that i havent grumble
gotta find a guy like me that has been beatin down by life enough to realize what really matters in life and has learned to be unselfish abd give back....we're out there
an i already found it smitten



awwwwwww im glad i am happy for you 2 congrats you are both amazing people

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:46 AM







you dont pick something then the topic today in here will be what
"What Makes A Relationship Last" and what things hold a relationship together
communication,commitment,compassion,compromise,& absolute and total honesty in everything with each otherflowerforyou
bigsmile :heart:



yes i agree but where do you find that i havent grumble
gotta find a guy like me that has been beatin down by life enough to realize what really matters in life and has learned to be unselfish abd give back....we're out there
an i already found it smitten



awwwwwww im glad i am happy for you 2 congrats you are both amazing people
shhhhh i told ya to stop making me blush man ya the only lady that can do that lol :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

bedlum1's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:47 AM

what i dont get is why when a relationship starts its always amazing then as weeks or months pass it changes why cant people still do what they did from day one that made love so amazing and special seems people get stuck in a comfort zone after awhile and dont care about what really keeps a relationship strong they take one another for granted
that is a lack of any one of those 4 c's i just mentioned...and most the time when we find someone amazing we ignore the things we know will bother us because we all just want to be happy...then when the newness wears off those things we ignored get to us

Gina_The_Italian's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:48 AM








you dont pick something then the topic today in here will be what
"What Makes A Relationship Last" and what things hold a relationship together
communication,commitment,compassion,compromise,& absolute and total honesty in everything with each otherflowerforyou
bigsmile :heart:



yes i agree but where do you find that i havent grumble
gotta find a guy like me that has been beatin down by life enough to realize what really matters in life and has learned to be unselfish abd give back....we're out there
an i already found it smitten



awwwwwww im glad i am happy for you 2 congrats you are both amazing people
shhhhh i told ya to stop making me blush man ya the only lady that can do that lol :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:




hell maybe i will get lucky here like you did wtg you 2

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:49 AM
it not luck its faith an just being ya self with each other bigsmile

Gina_The_Italian's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:57 AM
i cant be anymore myself then i am here how i am here is how i am in real life....life is short i love to laugh and i do it all the time, i love being silly i have a great sense of humor, i care about people and i give everyone the benefit of the doubt i make my own judgments
for myself people are different ways with different people i have found out

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Thu 04/08/10 09:58 AM

i cant be anymore myself then i am here how i am here is how i am in real life....life is short i love to laugh and i do it all the time, i love being silly i have a great sense of humor, i care about people and i give everyone the benefit of the doubt i make my own judgments
for myself people are different ways with different people i have found out
yep they are just don't give up i almost did once but I'm not this time.. you will know when ya find what ya want.. flowers

Gina_The_Italian's photo
Thu 04/08/10 10:01 AM
Edited by Gina_The_Italian on Thu 04/08/10 10:02 AM
anyone interested in getting to know a nice Italian girl lol i might be Ms Right for somebody in here :-) glad i met all of you :-)

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Thu 04/08/10 10:03 AM

anyone interested in getting to know a nice Italian girl lol i might be Ms Right for somebody in here :-) glad i met all of you :-)
hehehehe u know ya keep that up they all gonna follow u around

Gina_The_Italian's photo
Thu 04/08/10 10:04 AM
everyone seems to think im in florida the men are great ummmmm news flash there not the GREAT lmao most have no teeth lmaoo i do need a man with teeth real or not lmaooooo