Topic: Can a guy be TOO NICE | |
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I dated this one girl who said she couldnt date me cause im Too nice. How is that possible. Im not the type of guy that verbally abuses a girl. I can never get mad at a girl. I always get the door for her, compliment her, show her I care for her. I guess Im an old fashioned type of guy. How do I balance it out so im not TOO NICE.
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Nice guys finish last
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Never share the your dates on sites.. |
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You're joking, right?
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I dated this one girl who said she couldnt date me cause im Too nice. How is that possible. Im not the type of guy that verbally abuses a girl. I can never get mad at a girl. I always get the door for her, compliment her, show her I care for her. I guess Im an old fashioned type of guy. How do I balance it out so im not TOO NICE. NEXT question????? |
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never say never.
also, just because a girl doesn't want a "nice guy" doesn't mean she wants someone that yells at her all the time... meh... |
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I dated this one girl who said she couldnt date me cause im Too nice. How is that possible. Im not the type of guy that verbally abuses a girl. I can never get mad at a girl. I always get the door for her, compliment her, show her I care for her. I guess Im an old fashioned type of guy. How do I balance it out so im not TOO NICE. NEXT question????? That just might work! |
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also, a nice roundhouse kick to the face might help.
gosh, those are just amazing. |
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Nice guys finish last |
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You're joking, right? sadly he's not... |
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Tell her you banged another girl while you were dating her.
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You're joking, right? sadly he's not... Ugh, I was hoping he was..... |
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Nice guys finish last |
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Nice guys finish last Yes Finishing last sucks!!! |
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Well what if she treats you bad............ would you put up with it?
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Debbie you missed an earlier thread by op
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It's a fine art of balancing the knowledge of when to be " nice " and when to be a bit of an ***.
Example. I was seeing this woman, and she wanted me to help her move the blinds from the bedroom into the living room. I had no problem with this ( nice ). I had just about finished hanging the first one and she started waffling about if she really wanted them there. I was standing there waiting for her to make up her mind, holding up one end of the blind and a nail in my left hand, holding the hammer in my right. I remained " nice " right up util the point I got tired of her waffling and told her to just " go get the other blind from the damn bedroom ". Now...as I was finishing hanging the first one, she came out of the bedroom...slightly stunned look on her face...and set the other blind on the couch with the words " Ya know...I have never had anyone talk to me like that before. " She gained respect for me because she knew I wasn't going to let her just walk on me. When a woman knows that you are easy/nice....most times, they will become bored with you very quickly. You have to let them know that you aren't a doormat. But you don't have to be a complete jerk to do it. You just have to know when the timing is right. |
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It's a fine art of balancing the knowledge of when to be " nice " and when to be a bit of an ***. Example. I was seeing this woman, and she wanted me to help her move the blinds from the bedroom into the living room. I had no problem with this ( nice ). I had just about finished hanging the first one and she started waffling about if she really wanted them there. I was standing there waiting for her to make up her mind, holding up one end of the blind and a nail in my left hand, holding the hammer in my right. I remained " nice " right up util the point I got tired of her waffling and told her to just " go get the other blind from the damn bedroom ". Now...as I was finishing hanging the first one, she came out of the bedroom...slightly stunned look on her face...and set the other blind on the couch with the words " Ya know...I have never had anyone talk to me like that before. " She gained respect for me because she knew I wasn't going to let her just walk on me. When a woman knows that you are easy/nice....most times, they will become bored with you very quickly. You have to let them know that you aren't a doormat. But you don't have to be a complete jerk to do it. You just have to know when the timing is right. |
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Tell her you banged another girl while you were dating her. You go, girlfriend!!!! |
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