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My dear friend,rather than social,it is becoming personal.I respecet u.let me tell u something about mine.iam the with real name and profile here.I had my masters(MBA)in marketing and sharing a huge responsibility of entire citys sale on my shoulder.iam with famous multinational company which people dream to work.
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Edited by
IndnPrncs
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Sun 03/21/10 01:35 AM
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It's not personal at all.. I am curious.. Being that I have a company in Bangalore, I do know some of the customes... What I've said is true as I've been told...
Wanting to work for a company means little to me, I've seen the way people jump from job to job and think that a "big name" mean so much... Sitting on a bench and getting paid to do little has no meaning to me.. Working and contributing to an organization is what impresses me.. |
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My dear friend,rather than social,it is becoming personal.I respecet u.let me tell u something about mine.iam the with real name and profile here.I had my masters(MBA)in marketing and sharing a huge responsibility of entire citys sale on my shoulder.iam with famous multinational company which people dream to work.  
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Sorry friend,my blackberrys network was not there....dear,my humble request to u.whenever if u r getting oppurtunity to come to india,don't say no...come here as my guest.definately I will love to attend u.I will introduce my culture properly to u.cause there is always a distance of four fingers between eyes and ears...surely I will welcome u as my hon.guest...its a open promise....gentlemens promise...swear
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Dear,really its my humble offer to u.actually in future I wanna start 1 cultural introduction programme where I would love to introduce my culture to them.already I had spoken to my forigner friends also.they will start the same there for there country.so we can know different cultures more.
Like my country is having ancient culture of yoga.that is famous now.kamasutra(art of sex and poses)is also known.but what about aayurweda(natural medicine theropy for every desease).iam going to highlight.we had seen cases of aids in mid 90s...but but trust me,refrence of this desease is available in books written ten thousand years back....now india is developing fast.so new generation is also trying to search the meaning of what they have written in book.and what treament they have mentioned..... |
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Edited by
sexyindn
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Mon 03/22/10 12:48 PM
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Sorry friends.I started the topic and left after sometime due to some work. Well,I observe and read all ur comments.so many guys have wasted there time here to proove,how indian culture is bad and their country culture is good. Boss has claimed about social and cast differances?....can any social culture would be 100% perfect?...nopes.these things r happening in every part of the world,not only india. I started this forum to create healthy discussion.not for pinching anyothers.my questions and intensions r simple.let me repeat once again. Besides advance country,how u can control proportion of divorce?do u really think,divorce is way to saperate of 2 souls only?there is no bad psyco impact on kids and anyother close relatives?how can u say urself advance where family morals and ethics going down and worst day by day? Somebody so called x-indian is claiming disadvantages of arrange marraige here.could she till tell me 1 thing.if ur parents show u good guy and ask u to take a proper time to know him.without any force they made u decision maker.u will not marry that guy? My view is simple...if u r not able to control matter of divorces in ur country,then why not study other culture where divorce proportion is minor with compare to population and ethics?...do u really think,the girl or guy who done arrange marraige dos lost of compromises till entire life?whts wronge in it where consiquences of divorce r more worst than that?...do we need to study indian culture properly?...every social culture having good and bad.iam expecting comments related to what I have mention.....be mature...don't divert Your view is "agree with you or you're wrong"... Sorry Pal, no one ever said any culture is better than another.. Everyone has talked about how all cultures have something to offer.. You are stuck in your little place wanted to push it on everyone.. AND that "ex" Indian you mention has appreciation for ALL cultures which is far more advanced than you are... thank-you! and btw i am not x-indian i am half; which as i said entails the best of both worlds according to my standards and beliefs. I think this forum has been very civil and healthy because everyone is expressing their point of view, and fyi that is the point of the forum! |
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How do I get on the list for an "arranged" marriage? Do I need a tan first? hahaha no actually being fair skinned is a plus in most parts of india. i dont think you want that type of marriage though it's very risky doing an inter-racial arranged marriage because both parties are expecting somehting diff. not saying there arent good indian guys but u def need to look for yourself lol cuz there are def some pigg headed ******** (that goes for all over the world not just india haha) I was just kidding 
hhaahah oh, but tans are always sexy, for somereason everyone's into it now :-) i feel really lucky i was just born brown lol |
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I'm sorry to interject, I just had to say, isn't it ironic that the subject of this thread is, "Strange...but fact"??? How very, STRANGE..... 
[/quote i didn't notice that, good point. You definitely cannot say that arrange marriage will decrease divorce rates, because many social factors go into marriage. Marriage is different all over the world, let's be real in India it is socially frowned upon. Also divorce rates are high in the united states because the amt of people who enter marriages are increasing. If you wanted you could say,that the reason Indian's have a lower divorce rate because Indians view marriage as a duty versus finding a life partner. I AM NOT SAYING THAT THEY VIEW MARRIAGE AS A DUTY, all im trying to prove is that there is not direct connection between arranged marriages and divorce rate. AS a indian-american (not x-indian)I understand why you believe marriages should be arranged, but can u deny that you think/feel that way because of the way (where) you raised? My parents had an arranged marriage, and are now divorced. On the other hand my entire family (not my generation) has had successful arranged marriages. In india you are married or you begin looking for marriage at the "right age". I would like for you to think about it, in the west people do look at unmarried 30 something year olds and think they are unhappy or should be unhappy because they are single or unmarried. Why is it that marriage is required, why do all cultures (if not most) associate marriage with happiness. It is possible to be happy and not married, im living proof of that. so you cant equate arranged marriages and lower divorce rates because many social factors go into how and why people get married and how and why they get divorced. |
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Dear,really its my humble offer to u.actually in future I wanna start 1 cultural introduction programme where I would love to introduce my culture to them.already I had spoken to my forigner friends also.they will start the same there for there country.so we can know different cultures more. Like my country is having ancient culture of yoga.that is famous now.kamasutra(art of sex and poses)is also known.but what about aayurweda(natural medicine theropy for every desease).iam going to highlight.we had seen cases of aids in mid 90s...but but trust me,refrence of this desease is available in books written ten thousand years back....now india is developing fast.so new generation is also trying to search the meaning of what they have written in book.and what treament they have mentioned..... That sounds really interesting, I have read about a lot about india's ancient culture and science. I believe that would be a very successful business, but the introduction of those ideas are different than the introduction of arranged marriages. One allows people to view other options medically, one less invasive than the western medicine and one changes our society's norms . the kamasutra is amazing it's one of the many things which makes me proud to be indian. India has an amazing history and culture no argument there and it should be learned, but i dont think it would affect the divorce rates in america at all; after america has studied many cultures, and adopted many things. Americans are egocentric in the sense that we believe we have the best way of life, introducing a new lifestyle would be interesting, but i can guarantee you that it won't change much. Take the Middle east for example, they have adopted things from the west that they like, and omitted the things they don't . Countries adopt ideas based on what works for them and in america the idea of independence and steering ones life won't change, we're kinda big on that haha |
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the kamasutra is amazing 
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the kamasutra is amazing Oh yes it is!!!!!!!  |
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