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Topic: Baggage
heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Tue 03/09/10 08:44 PM
We are well seasoned ... Knowledge----->Understanding----->Wisdom---->Contentment ... Life and time and learning ... Acceptance It flows and makes for the finest vintage ... Speak that truth, Sis

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Wed 03/10/10 06:49 PM


s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Thu 03/11/10 03:10 PM
baggage is like virginity everybody has had it but it is best after you lose it

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sun 03/14/10 01:26 PM
baggage is like virginity everybody has had it but it is best after you lose it I have no intention of losing mine....

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 03/14/10 01:31 PM
BAGGAGE,,,,Why YES,,I JUST CARRY MY LOWER THESE DAYS,,

Dancere Joined Sun 04/06/08 Posts: 14561	Sun 03/14/10 01:32 PM
Step back slowly ... I'm packin' heat ...

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Sun 03/14/10 01:35 PM
In relationships, the term baggage seems to have a bad rep. When people mention they are looking for a relationship, they usually add that they are not interested in anyone with baggage or an excess of it. When I think of baggage, I see life experiences (a mind-set, life circumstances, or values), that mold a person into what and who they are. Not having, so called “baggage” in ones life would seem as if that person never had any life experiences. Could you date someone that had no baggage at all? Choose someone that knows how to find joy in the intangible things in life. They store their hopes, dreams, aspirations, love, tolerance, justice, and beauty in suitcases or trunks. And are willing to share their inner self with you. They are able to take the good with the bad, and the bitter with the sweet. And that is just fine with me. I say, baggage can be a good thing. Show off your inner steamer trunk! Heart... I happen to have a u-haul full...

Pickofthelitter Joined Wed 12/02/09 Posts: 58	Sun 03/14/10 01:48 PM
I'm proud of my luggage I mean baggage - well except when I snap at my new lover and call her by the wrong name lol Fresh wounds may present a challenge, but life experience is more valuable than gold I wouldn't take any of it back. Funny thread

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Sun 03/14/10 01:52 PM
Everyone has baggage..just need to be mindful of which suitcase ya open and when...

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sun 03/14/10 05:14 PM
BAGGAGE,,,,Why YES,,I JUST CARRY MY LOWER THESE DAYS,, I'm not touching that, T...........

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sun 03/14/10 05:15 PM
In relationships, the term baggage seems to have a bad rep. When people mention they are looking for a relationship, they usually add that they are not interested in anyone with baggage or an excess of it. When I think of baggage, I see life experiences (a mind-set, life circumstances, or values), that mold a person into what and who they are. Not having, so called “baggage” in ones life would seem as if that person never had any life experiences. Could you date someone that had no baggage at all? Choose someone that knows how to find joy in the intangible things in life. They store their hopes, dreams, aspirations, love, tolerance, justice, and beauty in suitcases or trunks. And are willing to share their inner self with you. They are able to take the good with the bad, and the bitter with the sweet. And that is just fine with me. I say, baggage can be a good thing. Show off your inner steamer trunk! Heart... I happen to have a u-haul full... I'm sure a lot of us do, we just won't admit it....

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sun 03/14/10 05:17 PM
Everyone has baggage..just need to be mindful of which suitcase ya open and when... Well with me it's all or nothing....... The good with the bad, and the bitter with the sweet.......

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sun 03/14/10 05:17 PM
too much baggage is hard to carry

Teditis Joined Sun 03/07/10 Posts: 3597	Sun 03/14/10 05:19 PM
Yeah, touching a man's baggage is considered gropeing!

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sun 03/14/10 05:20 PM
too much baggage is hard to carry Never said it had to be carried...... But being in denial of it would be a lot worse in my book.... JMO

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21804	Sun 03/14/10 05:24 PM
Having baggage is one thing. Expecting someone else to carry it for ya is quite another.

Tribbles Joined Tue 11/17/09 Posts: 7349	Sun 03/14/10 05:29 PM
To me the term baggage, has to do with negitive experiences. While people tend to learn thigs best the hard way, some of us allow our most troublesome relationships from our pasts to affect, and in some cases do severe damage to our current relationships.

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sun 03/14/10 05:32 PM
Step back slowly ... I'm packin' heat ...

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sun 03/14/10 05:33 PM
Yeah, touching a man's baggage is considered gropeing! Oooookay.......

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sun 03/14/10 05:34 PM
I'm proud of my luggage I mean baggage - well except when I snap at my new lover and call her by the wrong name lol Fresh wounds may present a challenge, but life experience is more valuable than gold I wouldn't take any of it back. Funny thread Now calling your new lady by your old flames name is a serious no-no......