Topic: How long, means he's gone? | |
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Hmm, question to the guys mostly, ladies I appreciate your ideas too:
Last phone convo with this guy was last week Thursday. I sent him a email saying I need to reschedule our meeting. We were suppose to meet tomorrow, and I haven't heard from him. ..yea yea |
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uuuuuuummm Berryboo!!!i say move on doll,men are just dumbasses
lol!!!!Theres alot of them around,im sure youll find the right one..his loss not yours!!!i found mine after a very long time and im happy with him but i went through tears,heart ache and alot of dates!!! |
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I'm so over it..once again I let my fear and insecurity consume me.
Maybe I'm suppose to be single for a while longer to figure some more things out and grow more with myself...but God, how will I know I'm ready for a relationship to use all I'm learning if I try..I wonder when..but its best not to ask. Asking and begging I feel like a victim and I'd rather be an observer and enjoy the life I have now and look forward to what God has in store for me |
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Thanks sassy!
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(((((((((((((BERRYBOO))))
YOU are proberley so much better than him anyway!!!! KEEP FAITH DOLL THERES SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE!!! |
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Berryboo It stinks if you were really wanting to meet but if it
has been since Thursday , sounds like he was not ready for the big sand box-- BUT- I'm sure there will be a good excuse when you finally do hear from him |
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(((((sassy)))right back !
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Hey! Not all men are dumbasses, just most. Lol
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Thanks sparkle
Your optimism makes me smile. I need to remind myself I'm no better than anyone else because when I get close to people I fear they will let me down...but I'm not that type of person sooo I think its my negative thinking that attracts real negative outcomes... "As a man thinketh in his heart so is he..." (Proverbs 23:7). |
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Hey Berryboo, if the guy doesn't know how to redo or reschedule, then he
doesn't belong in a relationship anyway. There are many guys out there that do understand the everyday happenings of life. Smile tomorrow is another day that the sun does come up. |
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IF YOU DONT HEAR FROM HIM IN A WEEK HES GONE.
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Thanks jade
Yea, thanks 4fun for being real blunt as well, appreciate it. |
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U R WELCOME. AT LEAST THAT IS WHAT I WOULD THINK.
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thanks zstar for the post.
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i TRY to get back to whom-ever within 3 days.IF i cannot then i will
with in 5.so 3 to 5 days is my standard.if you have to wait longer than that then find someone else pronto,unless you are hung up on that person. just my advice. |
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i think that is pretty inconsiderate of him not to call Berry....
then i would ask myself, do i want to be involved with someone who is inconsiderate... and decide from there what to do. |
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HE IS PROBABLY OUT WITH ANOTHER CHICK ANYWAYS...DONT WAIT 4 HIM.
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Jade, I agree with everyone saying that you should not 'wait' for him,
don't put yourself in that place where you are "Asking and begging I feel like a victim"! But on the other hand, this is what I see: Me and a woman have scheduled a meeting. She later emails me and says we need to reschedule. I take that a cancellation of that initial scheduled meeting, and a 'leaving open' of when, possibly "if" we will meet. Depending on exactly how you worded your email, maybe I'm waiting to hear from you -when- you'd like to schedule it. I would not want to come across as pushy or demanding. Sure, an acknowledgment of the receipt of your email would be courteous, but we don't know what he has going on in his life. If you find it empowering to walk completely away, then by all means, just walk away, theres no need to examine this further. But if you can be both empowered/independent yet remain open to meeting him, I think you should give him the benefit of the doubt. |
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Hmmm has anyone considered that he may have had pc probs or just hasnt
checked his email??? Ive heard that there are actually ppl out there that arent glued to them unlike moi!! |
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