Why didn't you call him??
you guys had a date set a week ahead?

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Gypsy, excellent point!

Also, I have had a few female acquaintances over the course of my life
who tell their suitors they are "rescheduling" when they really mean "no
longer interested." They think this is kinder and gentler than being
straightforward. If he has any experience with this kind of
euphemistic speech, it would be all the more reason for him to be 'not
pushy' and let you take the next step. (It all depends on how you
worded your email, of course.)

geeeeeez why cant ppl be honest and just say it!!!! If more ppl just
told the truth, then there wouldnt be all this "thinking thinking
thinking" gaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh!!!!

Carrot....I need a massage!!!!

You Tell them Gypsy

heya daleray

That's worth repeating:

"If more ppl just told the truth, then there wouldnt be all this
"thinking thinking thinking" gaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh!!!!"



The Carrot needs a massage more than anyone!

lol the one who advertises the massage should give me the
massage!!!!

Why do people keep leaving out the last 5 letters of my name? That is
the -most- important part. MassageTRADE.

Massage Trade. Trade, like exchange. Like barter. Give and take.

As in, I get a massage, too!

Wow Kev, sounds like you really need one..

CARROT......You are having a MARSHA MARSHA MARSHAAAAA!!!
MOMENT.....

Berryboo, Apologies for hijacking your thread!

Gypsy, we'll settle our differences elsewhere... ggggrrrrr....

Can I trade you some chocolate for a carrot???

My doctor says I need more veggies.

You say he hasn't replied to you. Maybe, and I'm not using this as an
excuse, he thought you may have been putting him off, and he's thinking,
maybe she's not interested.
Also illness could be a factor.
I may be just being naive with those theories, but I've had those used
on me before only to have the person call only hours before to
apologise. However, That was only over a couple of days. As you say it's
a week, I'd let it go as another lesson in life.

If it's early in a relationship and the first meeting didn't work out I
don't see a lot of responsibility in it for either side. He may just
have other interests going on. I'm into the direct approach so call and
ask what's up.

The number one rule I have for people is to not have expectations and
not get attached, period. They have to earn attachment over a long long
time. When you're afraid of getting hurt that means you're going into a
relationship with unsatisfied needs and that means you're going to lay
too much on the person from the beginning. Don't have expectations and
you won't get hurt. (yeah I know it's Zen) Just enjoy what they have to
offer. There are millions of people within driving distance of most of
us. All you need is one.

Well Berry I'll tell you what I would do. I would call him and say are
we going to do this or not? Then let it be.

If as you say you conversed by phone he may not be expecting the email
and I would give him the benefit of the doubt. It could be hes sitting
at home thinking just like you are... Why havent I heard from her?