Topic: How to get a date from dating sites like this one.
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Wed 02/24/10 10:19 AM



This doesn't work for most guys on the forum for two reason's.


(1) Most are not looking for a quick fix.


(2) Most are not looking for someone that is long distance. meaning spending all this money for something your not sure of.


If I want a one night stand, I can always go to Vegas. It's like 3 hours from me. Hell, I would be paying less then taking a flite, getting a rental car, paying for the room, paying for her drinks, food and what ever else. All that just for a one night stand, and that is only if your lucky.

I think Vegas sound better


From what I've seen, many are looking for instant gratification. Getting a date would go right along with that, so I would think this sort of approach would work well if they're able to pull it off.


I understand what your saying, but not from somone that has somone already.

Yes, the roll playing has worked with me, but as far as distance. It is a problem for most, and that's besides attraction.




If you're dating someone already, of course it isn't going to work, as you're not looking for a date.

I can't see this approach working if it's not someone local, though.

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Wed 02/24/10 10:29 AM
laugh I ment what the OP was doing. Showing how to hook up with somone that has somone already.


Take that part out and it does work:smile: It's funy how more people don't think like this.

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Wed 02/24/10 10:31 AM
I don't think that was the main point of what he was saying. The point was that's how he was able to get a date. Not how to get a date with someone who says she has a boyfriend.

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Wed 02/24/10 10:44 AM
My point is that no matter what I'm keeping the messages fun and interesting. What ever she gives me I'm using it. Banter, witty repartee, roll play etc. it's fun and it creates interest.

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Wed 02/24/10 10:49 AM

My point is that no matter what I'm keeping the messages fun and interesting. What ever she gives me I'm using it. Banter, witty repartee, roll play etc. it's fun and it creates interest.


I have to agree with thatdrinker



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Wed 02/24/10 10:57 AM
I'm a little surprised there haven't been more women posting their views on this.

Ladies?

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Wed 02/24/10 11:26 AM
I thought there would be more replies to this from both men and women.

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Wed 02/24/10 11:58 AM



But, this thread isn't about relationships. It's about getting a date on web sites like this one. If you like the ideas I've offered feel free to use them. If not forget them. What do you have to lose?


i do like your post,dont get me wrong.
in fact,i was rather amused by the bank robber scenario,as i use that one a lot in the live chat rooms.

in the end,it all comes down to being different,standing out,and basically catching someones eye.

hopefully,in a good way..ie,laughter,jokes,etc.



Either that or send them a picture of yourself, shirtless, in front of the bathroom mirror.

Just kidding. TS, it's not much different than what you would do in real life, is it? Women get approached all the time, in bars, with the same old stupid worn-out lines. I imagine they appreciate a little creativity, delivered with an air of confidence.

You made a good point, about commenting on their appearance. If I approach a woman, the last thing I would say is some comment about their looks. The fact that I'm talking to them lets them know I'm attracted to them. It would come across as creepy or weird. If they are good looking, they get a million lude and crude comments about their boobs, butt, eyes, etc., that are often un-wanted. Compliments about their appearance comes after you have gotten to know them.


You my friend have gotten it.

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Wed 02/24/10 02:59 PM

So how do we get past the fact that almost every girl I look at on here has been inactive for a month or more?


Same way us gals get past the inactive men's profiles...


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Wed 02/24/10 03:00 PM

I'm a little surprised there haven't been more women posting their views on this.

Ladies?


Actually, I thought it was hilarious and a much nicer email then

Hi, I like you're profile

or

You are a ***** for the anti-kid, pro-choice view points.

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Wed 02/24/10 03:04 PM
I just put in my profile that I'm a wealthy CEO and women ask me out? I wonder why?

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Wed 02/24/10 03:25 PM


I'm a little surprised there haven't been more women posting their views on this.

Ladies?


Actually, I thought it was hilarious and a much nicer email then

Hi, I like you're profile

or

You are a ***** for the anti-kid, pro-choice view points.


drinker I especially like the "hey" and the "you're hot for your age" ones! laugh

I don't typically agree with the OP in most instances, but I do agree that I would much prefer this type of approach drinker

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Wed 02/24/10 03:29 PM
Honestly...the ones I find interesting and can hold a conversation (even if it's silly) would be the ones that interest me

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Wed 02/24/10 03:53 PM
From what women have told me just about any amount of creativity would do the trick sense most men say almost nothing or something lewd.

Just think of the wildest thing anyone could do and suggest doing it with her. Don't worry if 90% don't like it because the other 10% will LOVE it!

Are you into comic books? Tell her you're a super villain looking for a new side kick.

Into Scifi? Make up something about aliens coming.

Tell her you're a spy and need to pass her secret info before the bad guys find you.

It's so easy and so much fun.

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Wed 02/24/10 04:20 PM
It all sounds like game playing to me.

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Wed 02/24/10 04:21 PM

I just put in my profile that I'm a wealthy CEO and women ask me out? I wonder why?


huh

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Wed 02/24/10 04:22 PM

It all sounds like game playing to me.


This kind of game is a good one. It's creative and fun and gets someone's attention. You see right away they have a sense of humor and don't take themselves too seriously. I don't see that as being a bad thing.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 02/24/10 04:30 PM
Ladies

just put your boob size in your pro

they will be lined up!!

Then you can pick and choose!!!!

Jk!!!!!!!!!!:heart:

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Wed 02/24/10 04:53 PM

It all sounds like game playing to me.


You think that was game playing? Dude, what planet are you from?

It's a game in the sense that it's fun like playing checkers. But, it's not a head game by any stretch of the imagination.

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Wed 02/24/10 04:58 PM

Ladies

just put your boob size in your pro

they will be lined up!!

Then you can pick and choose!!!!

Jk!!!!!!!!!!:heart:


And which one will you pick? Will it be the guy that said "hi your really cute can i buy you a drink sometime?"

Or maybe it'll be the guy that said "Wow, nice knockers wanna chat sometime?"

Or will it be the man that said "My invisible friend, Frank The Wonder Llama, said I should send you an email. But, I'm not so sure. You're not crazy are you? LOL"