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Topic: why can't people be honest
nurjoyce's photo
Tue 06/12/07 08:50 PM
when you meet someone and everything seems wonderful. it takes 45
minutes to say goodbye, with that person stating that you make it hard
to say goodbye.
then....they never call you??? what is that all about?
why not just be honest?

Caddie101's photo
Tue 06/12/07 08:57 PM
hmmm... i really don't have an answer for that. I guess people do not
want the other put down? sometimes people just don't want to say how
they feel...

Lakeman's photo
Tue 06/12/07 08:57 PM
Sorry that happened to ya sweety. Sounds to me like he had more than one
and had to make a decision or something. There's no telling what he was
thinking. Maybe he walked out to the edge of the earth and fell
off!!flowerforyou bigsmile

morethanjust_janedoe's photo
Tue 06/12/07 08:57 PM
i agree fully and completely. i actually have had the same thing happen
to me recently. and my responce was "ok, if you didnt like what you saw
/ talked to, why didnt you just say so? why give me your number / email
/ IM if your planning on never talking to me again"

Lakeman's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:02 PM
Some people have no gazongas when it comes to excuses. Just feel good
that it happened now and not 6 months down the road when you really got
deep into him.:wink:

SheNerd's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:02 PM
Why can't bucket head share his chicken?

Lakeman's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:03 PM
Cause you won't give him any chocolate!!!laugh laugh

SheNerd's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:05 PM
I invited him to come fishing, what more does he want?

Caddie101's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:05 PM
I wanna go fishing - it is hard to find a fishing partner nowadays!

Donnafisher's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:06 PM
nurjoyce you seem so cute and sweet sorry what a jerk but I guess it
happens to the best of us... The games people play....

no photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:06 PM
I never stop talking. I'm the one that people stop talking to me because
I talk to much.

sad SO THATS WHY PEOPLE STOP TALKING TO ME lol

SheNerd's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:08 PM
I go fishing every day for chocolate. Poles and lures are optional...

nurjoyce's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:15 PM
well, i said goodbye- he is the one who kissed me and then we kept
kissing for 30-45 minutes. I said I have to take up golf lessons and he
said golf is the last thing on my mind right now. Then he said I made it
hard to say goodbye and next time he would come to see me. He seemed
very nice, a gentleman...so I am thinking it is not because I did not
give him any on the first date.

no photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:17 PM
Well I hope it's not because you didn't give any on the first date
:angry: That would be SHALLOW

Either he's busy at work or with his schedule ..OR he can be a coward
when it comes to saying goodbye.

nurjoyce's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:21 PM
maybe he was a coward when it came to goodbyes

no photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:25 PM
Sorry a lot of us guys are bad when it comes down to trying to get some
dirty. A lot will play it out. Not saying I do but most guys will.

no photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:25 PM
I think that's what it is. People don't like to say "goodbye" because it
requires an explanation that may be so touchy it can lead to an argument
grumble

oldsage's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:25 PM
Can you call or mail & ask?
Get to the bottom & end the wondering.
A thought.

Lakeman's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:26 PM
Yea ..don't be given it all up n the first date.
I don't care who you are...there is a little respect lost there. He will
always think..HHmmm she gave it to me right off..I wonder if she would
do that again with someone else on a Whim??drinker drinker

nurjoyce's photo
Tue 06/12/07 09:27 PM
i emailed him saying thank you for a wonderful night, he read it, but no
response. i do not want to keep pushing it.
do not like to crowd someone.

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