Topic: why can't people be honest | |
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when you meet someone and everything seems wonderful. it takes 45
minutes to say goodbye, with that person stating that you make it hard to say goodbye. then....they never call you??? what is that all about? why not just be honest? |
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hmmm... i really don't have an answer for that. I guess people do not
want the other put down? sometimes people just don't want to say how they feel... |
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Sorry that happened to ya sweety. Sounds to me like he had more than one
and had to make a decision or something. There's no telling what he was thinking. Maybe he walked out to the edge of the earth and fell off!! |
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i agree fully and completely. i actually have had the same thing happen
to me recently. and my responce was "ok, if you didnt like what you saw / talked to, why didnt you just say so? why give me your number / email / IM if your planning on never talking to me again" |
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Some people have no gazongas when it comes to excuses. Just feel good
that it happened now and not 6 months down the road when you really got deep into him. |
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Why can't bucket head share his chicken?
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Cause you won't give him any chocolate!!!
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I invited him to come fishing, what more does he want?
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I wanna go fishing - it is hard to find a fishing partner nowadays!
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nurjoyce you seem so cute and sweet sorry what a jerk but I guess it
happens to the best of us... The games people play.... |
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I never stop talking. I'm the one that people stop talking to me because
I talk to much. SO THATS WHY PEOPLE STOP TALKING TO ME lol |
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I go fishing every day for chocolate. Poles and lures are optional...
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well, i said goodbye- he is the one who kissed me and then we kept
kissing for 30-45 minutes. I said I have to take up golf lessons and he said golf is the last thing on my mind right now. Then he said I made it hard to say goodbye and next time he would come to see me. He seemed very nice, a gentleman...so I am thinking it is not because I did not give him any on the first date. |
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Well I hope it's not because you didn't give any on the first date
That would be SHALLOW Either he's busy at work or with his schedule ..OR he can be a coward when it comes to saying goodbye. |
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maybe he was a coward when it came to goodbyes
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Sorry a lot of us guys are bad when it comes down to trying to get some
dirty. A lot will play it out. Not saying I do but most guys will. |
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I think that's what it is. People don't like to say "goodbye" because it
requires an explanation that may be so touchy it can lead to an argument |
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Can you call or mail & ask?
Get to the bottom & end the wondering. A thought. |
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Yea ..don't be given it all up n the first date.
I don't care who you are...there is a little respect lost there. He will always think..HHmmm she gave it to me right off..I wonder if she would do that again with someone else on a Whim?? |
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i emailed him saying thank you for a wonderful night, he read it, but no
response. i do not want to keep pushing it. do not like to crowd someone. |
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