You did all the right things...he apparantly has made his mind up and
will probably not call. He has received the message and so I would move
on....sorry
Here is what he should have wrote...Joyce...I had a great time with you
but my yadda got caught in the subway train door while trying to catch
it and I had to run sideways for 10 miles till the doors re-opened. I
could not possibly put you through the anguish of a relationship with a
flattened yadda so, I will bid you farewell my sweet and release you to
the world where you can seek your much deserved happiness.

lakeman

I'm always honest

i know Joshy

How've you been, my nurse?

tired
but good
and u?

joyce,

sounds like he was working "it" and hoping for an invite "in."

i'd say he is a player and not for you.

An honest guy would have at least replied to you email with a "thanks
for a nice evening."

Good guys don't finish last (pardon the pun) they are in it for the long
run and willing to see where the path takes them.

Don't spend more time on him than he is spending on you. "Your" guy is
out there...and you can take that to the bank!

His Loss Joyce,
Yes he was playing the Goodnight out hoping for the invite in: Basically
he was interested enough to try and close the deal but not interested
enough to become a friend.
No need to lose any sleep over it, there are plenty of more fish in the
sea. Considering that you are trolling with those "Leg's" I'm betting
that you get bites daily
Chances are you're fishing for a keeper (at least for a while) so why
settle for a fish that barely makes the limit...ya know

Hiya Joyce!!

Everybody seemed to go thru the same thing..

One of my friends "dated" a bunch of guys off a couple of the sites &
she was always saying that..
&& they'll go for weeks IMing all the time then their gone..

the not saying Goodbye is after a long kiss you know he is wantin you
to ask him to stay..

I hate that when I just kiss a guy goodbye & they say something stupid
like, your not going to leave me now after a kiss like that..
aahhh yea!!!
that was the plan behind a GOODBYE KISS!!

Hmmmm I read about this in one of my books "Men are from Mars, Women are
from Venus". He is in his "cave" now......he felt too close and then
pulled back. If he doesnt call within a week, I'd say dump him.
NEXT!!!! OR IS it the rubber band
thing......anyways.....

LMAO Gypsy!!!
I guess we are from Mars, how can you dump someone you're not with?
Sure thing, set a limit as to how long
you're willing to wait ...but "Dump him"...is that possible? I think
you're reading too many books or Cosmo articles there...Geeezzz... If
they went out a few weeks and he pulled that after they slept together
would it be time for a Divorce?

I'm going back up to my little Red Planet now....

You surely can dump him!!!! GEeeeeez youre a man....you don't know how
we think on Venus!!! In our minds, the wedding dress is made, the
church is booked....geeeeez!!!!

gypsy

thank you guys-
it heps to vent

Sorry about your problem nursy...


Thats why I quit online dating...and as soon as I did, BOOM!!!

I met a wonderful local girl, and I am happier than ever !!!

I Hope the same happens for all of you.

thank you klugman
that thought has crossed my mind
well, off to work
see you guys later